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i'm in love with a gay guy, and need some advice
okay, to make a long story short, i met this guy at a church function. he was really nice and funny, and we got along great. i found out he was gay, which was fine with me because i really wasn't "looking" for a date. we've continued to chat on the internet and we hung out the other day. he's the nicest guy i know and our personalities fit together well, so i can't help but want him. we were at the park, and he laid his head in my lap. i was running my fingers through his hair, and he didn't mind; in fact, he closed his eyes and kinda smiled. and then he asked to hold my hand. we held hands or linked arms or laid our heads on each other shoulders most of the evening. when i took him home, before he got out of the car, he kissed me on the cheek. we always tell each other we love each other, but it's always just been out of friendship. i know he's gay (he told me himself), but he seemed like he kinda liked me too. so now i'm confused. help please!
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He's gay, that's just the way it is. I've seen similar situations before. You just need to move on. I was friends with a gay guy in high school, and he and one of our mutual female friends were very close, to the point where before I knew his orientation I thought they might be dating.
If he is gay then he is gay he just wants to be your friend thats all
As I relapsed I had mostly delusions and paranoia. I thought the CIA was after me for awhile after I wrote a letter to the editor of Science magazine about how the US military was using dioxin as a weapon in Vietnam. My delusions had faded for the previous summer but they had never completely disappeared. That is to say I believed some pretty strange things. In Halifax I thought I had discovered the cause of World War Two. The influenza epidemic of 1918 changed peoples' nervous systems and led to the rise of fascism everywhere, so the cause of the war was a neurovirus. I thought my law professor in Halifax was very well connected with influential people in world politics and was telling people about my theory. Various important people were coming from Europe to meet the man who discovered the cause of World War 2. For example, someone might come up to me in Crofton and talk about mopeds and I would believe this man was the president of Motobecane, the world's largest manufacturer of mopeds. People seemed to know me before I introduced myself, and the local townspeople seemed to be laughing at me. I remember once the political cartoon in the local paper seemed to be about me and people who picked me up hitchhiking seemed to know who I was.
His being so affectionate, which is what you seem to like about him, is probably because he is gay. I don't know for sure, but I would imagine that this is what makes many women like gay guys so much. Most women accept the fact that the guy is gay, however, and manage not to let themselves fall for the guy, which is what seems to have happened to you. Sorry playa, but I would think that it is just not in the cards.
But he may just be confused. Is he really gay or does he just think he is? Age may play a factor here, as well as being religious may make him try to be straight. Learn more about it before coming to any concrete conclusions.
i believe i've told you more than once mcfly, that no doctor could possibly ever say stuff like that. he is gay, and i love him for it. i'm bi, so what are you gonna try to do to me? push me off a building to see if i'll fly? no more suggestions from you thanks.
sunset!!! shut the fuck up!!
i actually believe you are delusional because you
constantly contradict yourself and you are just seeking attention


get some treatment or shut up and die
I am in quite the similar situation. They seem to just do things that make it seem like they like you. It's completely... I don't know.
Maybe he tought you were a boy.
only gays are gay so if ur gay it means you are gay
tell him about itbut make it sound like its not true.hell i think u might turn a gay guy straight!
Sweetheart, He is gay. If you cannot accept being friends only, stop spending so much time with him. HE IS GAY. Pretend, when you are holding hands or kissing him, that he is your sister because I assure you, that is what he is thinking.
well, i am gay, and i have a girlfriend....

yes, it is very weird for me....

i am going out with her, because we are a perfect match and i love her; not for her gender, but for her personality
try and turn him bi... then fuck his brains out
this comentarie has nothing to see with the problem of the girl , it is not relationed with the disyuntive of accept him or not.-
i refer to sunset
and for the person that want to know about his friend gay, why dont ask yourself ¿what do you want for the rest of your life?could you support him beenig a gay?
in addition: you have to investigate what does he wants, ---LIke a friend ship is well but like couple for all life will be problematic, womens are posesive and dont want share nothign
that belongs once they get merriage.-
YOu have to analyze it very well, and must think what kind of union do you want with him,¿free union? marriage?for haw long will be that?
The other aspect: what kind of sexual relation could you have with him?
For solve a problem you have to make many questions and finely arrive to a solution.-
Do it , and be honest with him but mostly with yourself.
You have the answer, and hope you get it.-
he's gay and therefore, he's going to hell.
you're also going to hell.

But first, try this!
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Image:Strapon01.jpg
i think your gay fag
There is no reason you can't have a close and loving relationship with someone without it being sexual.
it makes u gay wicth is a sinful life style!
i think perhaps you should learn to spell before telling me what is sinful. btw, i'm atheist, so why should i be bothered?
I know how you feel. And to all the bible humpers, STFU! Nobody cares what you have to say. So, either be nice or bug off. And to you, Hun. I'm dating a gay guy. And I'm a girl. He is still gay..or as he puts it "Kittysexual." I love him alot and that'll never change. Just remember, nothing is impossible. So, talk to him about it. The worst that can happen is he'll say he doesn't feel the same way. Then gently kiss his cheek and tell him you understand. But, always be there to cheer him up if he is sad. Maybe one day he'll kiss you.
kittysexual? what the FUCK? i hope some nigger crackhead stabs both of you otherkin faggoths in the neck. i'm ashamed you're from the south.
What if he insisted that he isn't gay? But everyone else said he is and you do see his gayness from time to time... This happens to me and I am so confused!
Have you stuck your finger up his bum? That's how I found out my boyfriend was gay...he liked it so much he dated the superintendent.
You met a gay guy at a church function? What was he doing there?
he said he was gay so he could bang you
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