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Is It Normal?
What do you think?
Is he into me? Or am I just dreaming?
I met this guy at a couple of parties. We have had a couple of nice one on one talks and he always smiles at me and my crappy jokes. We feel completely comfortable around each other and he seems quite open with the topics he talks to me about.

But he asked me out for a drink and didn't turn up on that day, merely saying a sorry and no reason. The next day he set up another date with me, and again cancelled in the last minute because 'he was tired'.

We then met up again at a party and during this time he asked about my sex life, if i had causual sex. I said no, as I think its a special thing, and he game a big smile (pretty genuine id say). The thing I dont understand is whether this question was him trying to see if he could get into my pants OR if he was the nice guy just checking to see that I wasnt a girl who did one night stands. GUYS I need your help!

So is he interested? I am so confused.
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Couture (7002)
2007-03-29 03:13:24
@: sunset445
yeh um i need actual help
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dukepost (6726)
2007-03-29 03:40:29
I would say that he is a full of shit asshole. Don't go near him. If he smiled like you describe it, then he will just want you to think he believes it so he can fuck you. The reason he ditched you twice is because he wanted to have control and make sure that you will put up with his being controlling and manipulative. Lose the asshole.
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Couture (7002)
2007-03-29 03:46:23
Okay thanks :)
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Couture (7002)
2007-03-29 06:56:17
but he is so sweet. and he makes very cute jokes.

Should we just be 'buddies'? is it easier that way? Just no strings attached plain sex? Are guys able to do that without feeling attraction?
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Footfan90 (5641)
2007-03-29 07:02:34
@: Couture
r u serious? sex without attraction is basically the definition of "no strings attached plain sex"
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Couture (7002)
2007-03-29 07:04:48
@: Footfan90
so yoru saying guy are able just to basically fuck anything in sight?

i just wanna have a 'buddy' to be abel to call up. someone that i know will be good.
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Footfan90 (5641)
2007-03-29 07:17:08
@: Couture
well, maybe not everything in sight
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Nodo_TheRanter (5564)
2007-03-29 15:51:52
Welcome to Dumpsville, population: you.

That smile was a "blackballing"
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ladyoftheworld (4309)
2007-03-29 15:58:22
Hes just after sex. This shoes a mile off. He comes across with his smile and charm and he shows the classic sign of a player. Dont go their please and stay away from this creep because you are too good for that. If he asks again if you have casual sex tell him to mind his own damn business, what a cheek he has to ask you that. In my eyes thats all the proof you needed. He is a jerk.
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Basement (4027)
2007-03-29 21:39:23
I can tell you right now that you can tell just by how he asked the question. If he was unsure, squinting his eyes maybe, that kind of thing, I might believe he is an OK guy, but it doesn't sound like that. Also, "I'm tired" is a stupid excuse, I can't imagine that he wants a good relationship.
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Couture (7002)
2007-03-30 04:05:26
oka then :) thansk everyone
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