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Should I Let My Girlfriend go to the clubs?
I am 20 years old and my girlfriend is 18 years old and we both agree that we are pratically married. We have been together for about 3 years and we have a pretty good relationship together. However, She wants to go clubbing with a few of her girlfriends and her cousin, should i let her go??? Keeping in mind that at a work party she danced with a guy only to "show" her boss how to grind>>> SHe has never been clubbing before, and she is in charge of planning a bachelorette party. She also talks about getting wasted>>
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Should you "let" her go? I'm guessing you see marriage, or being almost-married, as a dictatorship? If you don't trust her, then don't be with her.
Let her get wasted to see what its like and when she fuks you can laugh and say I told you so
To me it sounds like..there are major trusting issues. Harsh but true. No disrespect to your girl or anything but..you have to understand that she's still a teenager and you are a grown man practically. If you don't trust her then why..OH WHY..are you with her? It's either you trust her or you don't. In a real marriage, there is trust and faith..in a practical marriage, there is just a plain relationship with a different title..in a pretty good relaltionship without trust, the longer it lasts, the more you are going to kill yourself emotionally, physically, and mentally because your trust for her is going to keep dropping and dropping..unless you do something about it. Suggest to go with her for fun or say that you are going to go too or something get involved or talk it over with her. Because it could also be that she just wants to have fun.

Good luck to you sir.
i can attest that 90% of the couples i knew htat went to clubs, or went to clubs seperately ended up splitting up

i can tell you dude, that she will eventually cheat on you

i mean hell rappers have made 999999 million songs on how they " gonna fuck you girl cuz your man aint round'" shes young too, girls get extremly carried away with other girls around and in music/dance environment

you think guys are bad hanging out? multiply that by 100 for women, they get crazy
Does she have to wear a Burqua when she hits the club?
i didn't right this post,far out i'm not going to trust any women ever.i have got major trust isues with every women i have been with.
get a second girlfriend.
so when your relationship goes to hell you still got something to tap . plus sounds like she's a slut
You shouldn't "Let her Go" because she should leave your ass and decide to go anyway. I hate little idiots like you. I wish i could smack you around a bit.
You wish you could smack him around a bit? If its not allrite for a guy to smack a girl why shud it be the same the other way around? And dont say a guys smack wud be harder then a girls cos girls really can sting. Im told.. ;p
If you want something badly, let it free. If it comes back it's yours forever.
your holding on too tight let the girl get loose
NO
He is a male you fucking idiot.
Sure let her go!!! Then I or some other guy(s) can get her drunk and fuck her brains out since tou obviously aren't!!!
its totally normal for you to not trust her because if she gets wasted then she may not be in control of her actions the truth is you dont trust the combo of her being drunk and dressed skimpy and drunk horny guys all around her but truth be told its all about who she is going with a good group of female friends will not let her sleep with some random dude. . . unless her friends dont like you.
You asking the wrong question, you should ask yourself is she your property, do you own her?, no you don't so its up to her if she wants to be with you. Let her do what ever she wants and if she does things you don't like then you should try going out with someone more compatable with yourself.You can't make anyone love you just be yourself and get a hobby so your not to raped up in the world of people.
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