90%% SURE MY GIRLFRIEND ISN'T ATTRACTED TO ME!

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If you've been with her for a while, and things are not turning sexual, and she is always stopping you, I would say that that's a bad sign.

It could be that she's not attracted to you, or more likely she has some issues with sex. If she's a virgin, then you may need to be patient with her, as she may be confused about a lot of things.

Explain to her that you are a sexual person, and that you don't understand why she and you have not had sex yet. Tell her that you don't see this leading anywhere, and that you are thinking of breaking up. Don't make this an ultimatum; be gentle, perhaps even suggestive. Give her time to think about it. She may change her mind. Or, she may start crying, and admit to you what the real problem is. That can be very positive.

If things still don't lead anywhere, I would say it is best for you to break up. There are plenty of other girls out there who probably have a healthier attitude toward sex. They'll be better for you in the long term.

you need to talk to her like the comment above says they could be a few reasons dont assume straight away that she dosnt find you attractive she might be nervous about sex might be her first time so you need to be patient she might be stopping you cos she dosnt want to lead you on to somthing shes not ready to do, just talk to her

also i know sex is great but it isnt everything im sure eventually you two will have sex just takes time so if you like her i mean love her dont throw it away over somthing daft but if its just a girlfriend then meh go for it pointless waiting for some one you dont love when you can be having lots of dirty sex with slags

Man, this same thing happened to me, and the girl was cheating on me. That may be the case if she's been drinking and not spending time with you. You should definitely talk to her.