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My Husband's Fantasy
My husband and I are in a very loving and open relationship, and we allow each other to suggest fantasies. One of my husbands ideas was to watch me being f**ked by another man. At first I didn't mind, but after a while his story progressed, until he was bringing in real people, mainly his boss and his colleagues at work. His boss is really fat and unattractive, and the thought disturbs me greatly, but for some reason it really gets my husband off. Last night he said he wanted to try having sex with his boss also, and asked me if I'd enjoy watching that. I said I would, even though that's not the case. I didn't know my husband was gay, and it makes me very uncomfortable. I don't like gay people. What should I do? Is this normal?
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bananacum (5772)
2007-04-01 18:14:52
Get a divorce??
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crymety (7134)
2007-04-01 18:20:23
I really have no idea what to suggest, but that last line you wrote 'I don't like gay people' just cracked me up. You're MARRIED to a man who is either gay/bi/bi-curious, and yet you say you dont like him.

haha, maybe you got married too fast... 'fantasies' are usually exercised by girlfriends and boyfriends, not by married couples.
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sisophous (3738)
2007-04-01 19:09:17
You are either extremely naive or else this story is a fake, probably the latter. I don't believe people who say they did not know the sexual orientation of their spouse until into marriage.

They are either liars or willingly choose to ignore the fact. Why did you and your husband ever marry? Both of you should have just stayed single. Say NO to your husband and if he insists you participate with people you wish not to, or view anything you wish not to, tell him to drop dead and get a divorce.

Problem solved.
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slackjawedyokel (6678)
2007-04-01 19:27:55
youre dead on I think.most guys who are gay or bi will use a woman as cover so they bring in another guy and pretend it is something they both want or the woman wants when its actually the guy wanting to get near another mans meat.tell him point blank when something doesnt appeal to you if not he will continue with his sick fat man sex fantasies.
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ewell39 (7199)
2007-04-03 14:23:58
I have had oral sex with a man before and after he had sex with my lovely wife. For me it is a healthy need that is often satisfied.
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xx_im.a.car_xx (7326)
2007-04-07 12:43:53
well, my best advice is ohhh I dunno...GET A divorce!!...hmm like what the hell "I don't like gay people" but your obviously married to one! baaaahahahah....have fun watching your husband have sex with his boss...
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October (10003)
2007-08-16 22:58:59
Could it be that your husband is really REALLY trying to get a raise at work?

Men are funny sometimes.

Tobra
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