I think I'm gross http://isitnormal.com/story/9020/ this is totally normal..your are right by the way it has something to to with your subconscious thinking. i also have this problem..but not quite like you. i have in the past before i got on medication..sought out many partners, with qualities like my real father(i also have a step father)since i was 15. i was, in my mind trying to find the love that my father never gave to me by having sex,,hoping that one of these guys would love me. i realized that doesn't work http://isitnormal.com/story/9020/#comment-86166 2007-04-10 23:19:31 mischeifairy, Thank you for acually listening to it. yes i said father FIGURE! LOL. I do not speak to my biological dad. I have a stepfather. I also look for men with the same qualities as my father(step). I wrote this about 2 weeks ago. eversince then i have read on the opedius theory from sigmund freud. Looking back into my childhood, I can remember certain details that tell me i was like that. I beleive this is where my warped fantasy stemmed from. http://isitnormal.com/story/9020/#comment-85310 2007-04-08 21:18:51 as to that..do you have a good relationship with your real father'.. i don't. i don't have quite the same issues you do but i am a sort of a sex addict and seem to find men that have some qualities like my father. really irritating. but this is kinda crazy and normal all at the same time. don't worry and don't listen to these other guys. but if it really bothers you that much go see a shrink..thats normal too http://isitnormal.com/story/9020/#comment-85254 2007-04-08 19:25:29 she said father figure ..listen http://isitnormal.com/story/9020/#comment-85253 2007-04-08 19:20:13 No it is not normal! Anyone that thinks having sex with their biological Dad needs some help!!! http://isitnormal.com/story/9020/#comment-84742 2007-04-07 17:58:16 Normal. Get a boyfriend and role-play this with him, many guys would love it. http://isitnormal.com/story/9020/#comment-81830 2007-04-01 22:53:18 ive heard this b4, normal http://isitnormal.com/story/9020/#comment-81810 2007-04-01 22:22:02 naw thats not normal..... http://isitnormal.com/story/9020/#comment-81784 2007-04-01 21:04:03