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Is It Normal?
What do you think?
whats wrong wif me?
ok, my whole life has been like this, whenever i see a girl i want to be with i never actually talk to them, im always too shy because if i say the wrong thing then i could ruin my chances forever
there is this girl who rides my bus and she sits with me alot (i dont know her) and i know nothing about her, shes the most beautiful girl ive ever seen and when i think about her i could plan out my whole life, but i can't bring myself to talk to her, there are alot of times when we dont sit together our eyes meet (looking at the drivers front mirror) and we immediately look away. i feel bad i dont know what to do... does she like me? are my feelings 100% lust? why cant i do anything about this?..... is it normal

PS: what should i do?
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Comments (24)
how old are you? dont worry give it a time and do not get desperate, women can smell that!
take it easy you will find your way and the cool guy inside you will come out in some moment and you will do just fine.
just dont become gay because of this...
@: galeni
im 15
Like i told someone else.. grow some balls and talk to her.. most of the time the girl doesnt want to make the first move, you're the guy.. so it's like an unwritten law that the frist move is your job.

(this comment wasn't meant to be mean/rude.. it's just the way i express things)

There are plenty of fish in the sea so if you mess up with one girl, you'll be just fine, b/c destiny will play it's part when the time comes.

Good Luck - ba
You have nothing to loose. Whats the worse that could happen? If you dont talk to her, you may never get to. Dont get to the time when shes nto there anymroe and sulk and regret.

She definately has something lingering on her mind. Say hi when you next sit together. DONT WAIT LIKE 5mins then start talking randomly, women will think your a bit queer. APPEAR confident even if your shitting yourself. DONT SWALLOW alot, if you need soem time to think. pause and smile. Not lust

ATTRACTION/

You can do something, you can talk, ask here where she is heading? what she likes to do. MUSIC is always a good topic. FIND COMMON GROUND.

The best you can do is talk. Dont regret it. I do and it still kills me why i never talked to the guy i used to bus with. Now i will never know if we were meant to be, when they are not there anymore, it will be the day you wish you spoke.

Dont loose the opportunity.

Good luck xox.

P.S KNOW that you are a HOTTIE. compliment HER. (Not 'youre hot', say something like her hair is 'beautiful' 'gorgeous') Be confident and GO FOR GOLD.
OK its obvious whats going on here, you are a young man experiencing homosexual feelings and this whole girl deal is just a cover up you have made up in your imagination you are doing everthing to push aside your true feelings pretending to be inthe fantasy world with this girl i can see how seeing her in the mirrior would help your imagination to see more then whats really happening. Maybe you are after the male bus driver thats why you are really looking in the mirrior so much, no see a social worker or guidence counsoler and talk to then about your homosexual thoughts they will help you understand who you really are. Good luck
i think one of the reason im shy is this
http://isitnormal.com/story/9081/
this is my other story
Just go for it, what do you have to lose?
Why the fuck are you worried about penis size when you're just meeting this girl? Grow some balls, get over it, look in the repetitive section, and talk to her.
Give her a gummy bears, all girls love gummy bears. Don't talk to her after you give it to her.
I don't really like gummy bears..

but i suppose it would be a cute gesture.
ASK HER OUT TALK TO HER DERRR WAT DO YOU THINK WE WILL SAY
She could say no.

That's what he's scared of, silly.
Dude im 16 years old and I know exactly what your talking about. I'm not the most popular kid in school and some ppl would say im a nerd. But I did managed to get a hot girlfriend who is one of the most popular girls in my school. All I did was be myself and just say what came to mind. Most girls like guys that are confident and even if u say something stupid act like you don't care. Makes you seem less desperate.
@: mjolnir
And i wouldn't give the girl gummy bears that would be a little creepy.
@: mjolnir
this guy knows what he's talking about. just go do it.
where u from mjolnir?
@: Mimir2
Im from OHIO.
No need to shout.
I just figured you might be Icelandic because of that Icelandic name you have.
lol i wasn't SHOUTING and i just use that name
because it is my name one halo 2. Mjolnir battle suit that master chief wears. But i am also aware of its icelandic roots and its affilation with THOR and his mjolnir war hammer.
I know exactly how you feel, I'm having the same problem.
ur not doin anything rong, just go up2 her and say "nice tits" even if she dosent have any or like then ur walkin past her in the hall make eyecontact and wink ^^ always works 4 me, i just melt... (not wat u think)
YOUR SO UGLY
look stuff like that happens you gotta make friends with her then after she trusts you move in for the kill
it means you shoul dbe with guys. forget the B ITCH.
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