Am I exaggerating...?
I'v got this great boyfrind and we've ben ogether for the last few months. He's tall, blond, and blue-eyed and is altogether pretty damn attractive. Because of this whenever we go anywhere, girls are always being sweet to him--way too sweet for my liking, in fact. It's not as if he flirts back at them, actually he hardly even takes any notice at all. Yet, the fact that they just won't f*ck off positively makes me boil inside--when I see one taking little cute sideway glances at him, I can think of nothing else but how much I'd love to punch her in the face (I take karate,so that would hurt;P) I know it's right and natural to be a little jealous of your boyfriend, but sometimes, when I feel my whole insides get hot, I wonder if I'm taking this a little too far... Please, give m some honest, sensible opinions, help me out, 'cause I think I need some support and/or advice. Thanks a lot:*
Just goes to show how much you love him. awww :) Im very jealous of the connection you guys have tho. I wish you guys a very happy future :) and keep smiling and dont worry. He loves you.
You can't control emotions/feelings, they are often normal, but behaviors are within our control and must be controlled. So, keep your hands to yourself and zip your lip. Guys do like calm girls as Couture wrote, and one's who also have self-control.
-feels sooo good
You take up Martial Arts for defense, your defense and to defend people who need defended (if you're altrustic).
Don't use your Martial Arts for trivial crap like who stole whose boyfriend or who wants your boyfriend, just think, you -love- your boyfriend, the other girls probably don't and they just want to fuck him, also, put yourself in their shoes, they're jealous of you, envious of you. (Don't let that make you conceit!)
So yeah, if one of them actual hits on your guy, just step between them, look her right in the eyes and ask her to drop it. If she persists, refuses, or becomes all the more harassing, then put her in her place. If she gets physical, finish it.
If you wanna take a leap of faith, trust your boyfriend to tell them to drop it.
I have the same problem with my girlfriend. Lots of guys hit on her. I often feel like punching them (even though I'm afraid to because I'm small, a nerd, and I would probably get my ass kicked). I just try to remind myself that he is jealous and envious of me. I try to build my own confidence with thoughts of how much he hates me and wants what I have. And its also nice to put my hands on her ass and make out with her right in front of guys i know like her and flirt with her.
I think your feelings are perfectly normal, just dont take it out on him. If he loves you he'll do whats right and stay true to you and won't give those girls so much as a second glance. Don't complain to him about it or bring it up at all. An overly obsessive girl usually isnt a turn on.