Am I exaggerating...? http://isitnormal.com/story/9130/ he's probably cheating on you. http://isitnormal.com/story/9130/#comment-136955 2007-07-26 21:37:41 I actually think you're normal. Either that or theres something wrong with me too. I have the same problem with my girlfriend. Lots of guys hit on her. I often feel like punching them (even though I'm afraid to because I'm small, a nerd, and I would probably get my ass kicked). I just try to remind myself that he is jealous and envious of me. I try to build my own confidence with thoughts of how much he hates me and wants what I have. And its also nice to put my hands on her ass and make out with her right in front of guys i know like her and flirt with her. I think your feelings are perfectly normal, just dont take it out on him. If he loves you he'll do whats right and stay true to you and won't give those girls so much as a second glance. Don't complain to him about it or bring it up at all. An overly obsessive girl usually isnt a turn on. http://isitnormal.com/story/9130/#comment-135012 2007-07-20 18:56:30 Martial Arts is not to be used dishonorably, and I can't stop you, but you don't take the Martial Arts up to hurt people because you can or you think you can simply because you think you know how to hurt them. You take up Martial Arts for defense, your defense and to defend people who need defended (if you're altrustic). Don't use your Martial Arts for trivial crap like who stole whose boyfriend or who wants your boyfriend, just think, you -love- your boyfriend, the other girls probably don't and they just want to fuck him, also, put yourself in their shoes, they're jealous of you, envious of you. (Don't let that make you conceit!) So yeah, if one of them actual hits on your guy, just step between them, look her right in the eyes and ask her to drop it. If she persists, refuses, or becomes all the more harassing, then put her in her place. If she gets physical, finish it. If you wanna take a leap of faith, trust your boyfriend to tell them to drop it. http://isitnormal.com/story/9130/#comment-130136 2007-07-02 00:29:36 everyone has one specific trigger that makes them boil inside and this is yours mine is i cant stand knowing about my girls ex's or even seeing them i want to make them miserable just stay calm and try to fight it or you might lose your relationship. -feels sooo good http://isitnormal.com/story/9130/#comment-119098 2007-06-07 10:50:35 your just jealous. ((it is normal)) i get jealous when people flirt with my boyfriend too. http://isitnormal.com/story/9130/#comment-98151 2007-04-30 10:51:24 you are over-reacting uness of course your BF has given you reason to be insanely jealous in the past. be flattered- girls are being sweet to him and he is with you!! He cant control it if women throw themselve at him he can only control his not acting on it which by all acounts he doesnt. So suck it up and focus on the fact he is with you http://isitnormal.com/story/9130/#comment-96062 2007-04-26 22:12:44 ive seen soooo many guys break up with their gf cuz they were posessive and constantly bothered aznd nagged them about shit you need to get over it or u might loose him http://isitnormal.com/story/9130/#comment-84207 2007-04-06 11:06:23 yes you are exaggerating. http://isitnormal.com/story/9130/#comment-83303 2007-04-04 17:11:21 Learn to relax and calm yourself otherwise it will only lead to problems in the future, with your guy and/or other girls. People have a right to look as long as they don't touch there is no harm done. You can't control emotions/feelings, they are often normal, but behaviors are within our control and must be controlled. So, keep your hands to yourself and zip your lip. Guys do like calm girls as Couture wrote, and one's who also have self-control. http://isitnormal.com/story/9130/#comment-83261 2007-04-04 15:51:31 Obviously he loves you. What do you have to worry about. Its love just FOCUS on LOVING HIM BACK and not seeking revenge. If you show your JEALOUS POSSESSIVE side to him, he may not handle it well. Guys like women who are calm. Just goes to show how much you love him. awww :) Im very jealous of the connection you guys have tho. I wish you guys a very happy future :) and keep smiling and dont worry. He loves you. http://isitnormal.com/story/9130/#comment-83231 2007-04-04 12:49:30 My honest and sensible opinion is forget about this particular problem and get some fucking English lessons behind you. http://isitnormal.com/story/9130/#comment-83173 2007-04-04 11:00:22 Yes your worrying too much about this.When they do it just think hell be in my loins tonite trollop not yours. If hes not taking any notice then youve got nothing to worry about http://isitnormal.com/story/9130/#comment-83074 2007-04-04 04:57:01