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low confidence
by everyone i meet i get told im good looking , handsome , attractive ,but i can't get enought confidence to talk to girls because i fear i wil end up embarrasin myself witch makes my confidence lower witch makes me scared to even talk to girls because i like them that ....
so please if any1 got advise or the go through the same thing leave a comment .....thanks
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Comments (7)
sisophous (3738)
2007-04-04 16:39:03
Lower your expectations when it comes to friendships and relax your body. People feel at ease when in the company of other people who are calm and relaxed.

Strike up conversations regarding something you have in common with others, usually it will have to do with school, classes, assignments, sports. Don't expect other girls to reciprocate your signs of interest in them. If you don't get any sincere show of interest, then simply do not approach them again. All guys have gotten the cold shoulder from many women, it's no big deal, I frankly don't care because I just don't bother with them again and move on to others.
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Knock_It_off (6904)
2007-04-04 18:59:54
Enter a spelling bee contest. Spell your way into their hearts.
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ctman5 (5754)
2007-04-20 00:15:02
i have a lot of friends who are girls and wat i find works is when you try to talk to them about wat they are interested in but not in a way that you are girly about it. jus get them interested in wat you ahve to say. also always be casual. theyll think ur more weird if you start freakin out about tryin to talk to them
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LFC_999 (8542)
2007-05-30 20:40:35
Just try to notice little changes like their hair new jewllry and compliment on it if you have something in common then its a bonus just have an every day conforsation if you can get them to laugh then you are in with a chance.

now with all this in mind go get em tiger!!
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Ilovealotbutnotyou22118877D930 (10710)
2007-09-20 11:33:38
Heh, talk to me!
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alextheguy (11864)
2007-11-22 19:30:53
Just tell yourself "I am a hot guy and she will be lucky to talk to me" and then go talk to her.
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SMARTPERSON (10886)
2007-12-22 13:32:51
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