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Love, then loathing

My pattern in relationships: the guy is wonderful, great, I'm crazy about him. Then after we break up, I wonder what the hell I was thinking. After the fact, seems so normal and unworthy. But while I was into him, I was so SURE I would never have those disgusted thoughts. Normal?
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Comments (5)
METHOSjr. (83)
2005-06-30 11:02:49
PoorYou
Blah, blah, blah, pull head out ass, blah, blah, grow up and produce more oxygen for your stunted brain, blah, blah, NObody rarely cares aboot these problems.
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evilevil (118)
2005-06-30 12:24:55
your problem is unique and strange. you must be from another planet. i wish your situation would happen to me....
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DJ_Slone (697)
2005-08-02 19:41:04
That's just your heart trying to find a vent for the pain. It makes you feel better when you don't think he was worth it. It's normal.
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Anonymous
2005-09-03 06:07:46
It's a totally normal occurance, the "come down" period after you break up, where you convince yourself you hate them by noticing just their bad points, which you just over looked when you were together.
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Anonymous
2006-08-02 22:32:41
yea i agree. when you relationship you tend to overlook the things you now dislike. now its like omg what did i ever see in him.
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