When do you tell a guy that you are a virign?

Coming from a guy, I advise you to tell him as soon as you can, if he's looking for sex then pleasure him in other ways, just till you feel you are ready to have sex with him...like I admit I'm a virgin but me and my GF control our urges by "playing" with each other and it helps!

Well if you knew the girl you were dating was a virgin would you be looking forward to have sex with her, knowing that she wants you but you have to wait for her to be ready? Or dump her?

@: Couture
Yes i would be looking forward to it and i am :D but i know were both not really ready for it, and our religion is against sex before marriage, but im willing to wait as i truly love this girl, so it kinda depends on what u believe!

Okay so being a guy do you fina virgin more attractive than a non virgin, as you know she only wants you? are you scared she will become more clingy?

Well that all depends on the type of guy your BF is, personally since I'm a virgin, id rather be going out with another virgin, just so we can both experience sex for the 1st time together! it makes it more special, and if my GF becomes more clingy (guessing u means she wants to hang around with u more) id be happy, i'd savour every moment with her!

okay then. I mean hwo do i find out if a guys a virgin, do i just ask? or hint?

Well it would be best to just ask him, and that then can be ur starting topic to telling him your a virgin!

As in have you ever had sex before?

um isnt that a bot straight forward? hed think im some sex nympho

Well if u are sometime in the conversation of sex with him then just ask him then, im sure ull find a time to ask him!

Okay thank you so so so much :) Youre a champ. Good luck with your relationship :)

No problems, You Too!

Also another option, if u really don't want to tell him, masturbate, this will break some "seal" in ur vagina, once this is broken you are not classed as a virgin any more so you wouldn't be lying to him, and you can "explore" so u know where things have to go, but just to warn you, the first time hurts a bit and there may be blood, as you break the "seal"

The hymen, I know, God would teh hurting surpass teh pleasure?

No i dont want to to break it, i want it to be special

Yeh didnt know what it was called...and i respect u if ur sticking to sex and going by ur religious rules, i myself can't have sex till i get married

Thanks, not well ive saved myself for someone special, this new guy I have met, we bond on so many levels. I truely love him and I want him to be the first to complete me.

I respect your views :)

Couture, you are obsessed with this virginity topic and are blowing it way out of proportion making repeated posts on this topic. It is no person's business whether you are a virgin or not. If someone insists a woman to be a virgin then they are shallow, narcissistic and not someone to be in a relationship with.

You can mention your virginity only when the time approaches when you consider having sex. Otherwise, say nothing, it is a private matter. Sex gets better over time, so don't expect the first time to be special, likely it will be disappointing. It just turns out this way for the vast majority.

Hey we all need to respect each others views on here... to bad some are very shallow!

But whether you or your mate are vigins is personnal! And if you want to share k...but be ready for these people out here to make rude comments!

If the original poster doesn't want to share right now than they shouldn't, they need to rmemeber that who ever they give that first time to they are going to remember that the rest of their life!
And, as far as guys...there is no telling how many woman they will tell they are a vigin too!! LOL

when your in the bedroom just before you get undressed or before it happens as if he strongly doesn't like virgins then he would help you by maybe fingereing you first or something

tell him right after he f*cks you six ways from sunday. that will make him proud of his accomplishment.

tell him right before the first time you make love this will make it more meaningful that your willing to give him your virginity

wow say im a virgin or u might scare him like the 40 year old virgin did to that girl

lmao...excuse me for being so rude, but ur a complete dumbass sir, if your going to give information to little girls make sure its right, breaking the hymen does not take away ur virginity, this is an old thing, such as using tampons, you will not lose your virginity by breaking the hymen only having sex determines that

fuck him, then you will never have to worry about telling him your a virgin o.O

hi, i am back!

juz tell him straight, "hii, i'm virgin.. wan hav sex?" surely unresistable..