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am stuck emotionally! is it normal
Hello!I was wondering if this is normal and I dont know but its so deeply into my soul that I cant get out of it...its been 14 years!
I was in college and had a good set of friends, but somehow one of my close friend use to insult me. And frankly everyone thought I was pretty but she would just turn her face otherways if anyone would compliment. I use to feel very hurt! Even on long trips she would ignore me and go with someone else. I stopped communicating,but even when we just happened to meet once she just snubbed me. I dont know for what I took all this sh*t from her. It use to deeply sadden me, and now when I lookk back and see I was much more good looking than her, probabably she didn't want me to explore my looks...
Later on another friend of mine betrayed me very badly. She not only use to back bite about me with my best friend but use to make plans with her about outings and inform me later. I was the one who introduced my best friend to her, she just took her away from me. I was deeply hurt as it created a distance between me and my best friend (whom I considered my soul mate).
I have been hurt by both incidences and the most the second one. With all this I feel I have no emotions left, for a person like me who believed in soul mates and true friendships, I have not been able to have any relations with anyone after that.
Its not only affected my personal life but professionally as well. I feel its hampered my professional choices, I use to be an extrovert and loved going out. But with all my experiences I stay more home and like leading a spiritual life.
I just feel so lost all the time and I feel I tend to make wrong choices!!!
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To the poster, you probably had bad luck in the way of friends. Perhaps it was a character flaw in yourslef like being too open, or too accepting so that people felt they could treat you as disposable. Maybe you must learn to be more assertive, its hard to tell from a post and not from the person.
I would suggest that you learn that you don't need to have soulmates and "best friends" to have great self-worth. You should not let other people hamper your life and career. Learn to do things only for yourself, be a bit selfish. That kind of confidence may actually draw the right kind of people, the kind who will respect you throughout.
dunno, thats my suggestion.
i think i need to be more assertive, you r right. people have been taking me for granted i suppose....but now i know where i fall short.
thanks again
anyways nice to hear that...
thanks again