Okay. I know this may not sound real but it is so here it goes. I'm 14 and married(he's 24). I know you may all think I'm to young and such but well it was arranged and I actually do love him. And well I don't have sex with him or anything yet and he's okay with it because he understands I'm not quite ready for it yet but I do like to go over his knee sometimes for a good spankin' Is this normal?
normal if you like domination try it maybe its your thing
Is there a pay-off, like Micheal Jackson does?
Anyways, to answer your question, it is normal if you grew up without a father and still yearn for a father figure, otherwise you're just being weird.
BullShit.
Angel
I was molested by my step-dad when i was 3 1/2, i met a guy that I thought/am thinking about getting serious with, but my past is seriously effecting my decision.
PS. I don't like you.
Angel
A, your so called family friend husband who spanks you should be locked up.
B, the bloke who raped you should be locked up.
C, you should seek serious help from someone with the right qualifications, because your life is presently a mess for a girl of 14.
All I can say is that if this story is tru it is headed for divorce! But, if they have not consummated the marriage they should be able to get it anuuled!!
Stawberrichild,
I don't see that it is any problem. If you two Are married and you don't have sex yet (and he is a nice enough guy not to force the issue) But you like to go over his knee for a spanking...
Well, sounds to me like you kind of enjoy getting spanked.
Hey, nothing wrong with that, I went through a phase like that meself, though I am NOT saying that this is a phase with you.
It just might be that this particular kink is something you enjoy. If so great, no prob. In fact, it might be something you can work in once you begin having sex with your guy (A finger on your clitoris while he gives you an ass warming can do wonders) or he can slap your butt while you make love in the doggie position.
I am a little uncomfortable with the Arranged marrage thing, but I know it happens. All I can say is that if this IS a real post, I think you've got yourself a good guy. Many guys wouldn't wait until You were ready for sex... especially if you were married.
Hope it goes well for both of you.
Tobra