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Okay. I know this may not sound real but it is so here it goes. I'm 14 and married(he's 24). I know you may all think I'm to young and such but well it was arranged and I actually do love him. And well I don't have sex with him or anything yet and he's okay with it because he understands I'm not quite ready for it yet but I do like to go over his knee sometimes for a good spankin' Is this normal?
Do you think it's normal?
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Comments (28)
maybe its
normal if you like domination try it maybe its your thing
Maybe you should ask his other wives, do you all live in the same mormon palace of fucked up?
I'm his only wife and we live in the USA as well...not that it isn't f**ked up here sometimes. My parents signed the papers his parents signed that papers and the court agreed it was in my best intrest.
The court huh? Whatever you say kid. Who was the judge, Hiroshi?
Eh I didn't ask you to believe me I asked you if it was normal. :P
Sure it's normal. Your husband has a serious mental illness and should have his balls cut off, that's all. (And whoever else thinks your imaginary union is a good idea.)
It's not imaginary. But if you feel so inclined as believe so then by all means go right ahead.
You really expect us to believe that? I thought girls were sappose to be more mature then guys? You really do act 14. I think in North Carolina you can get married at 14 with parents consent (ive heard) or something like that but thats one of those laws that date back to the civil war times so people really dont do it so why waste our time on here?
In any state you can get married when your under 18 with parent consent in some places you just also need the consent of the family court. And hello if I act 14 it is because I'm 14. I got married young not suddenly skipped my childhood.
It's still sick. Just like your imaginary husband.
*Sighs* I'm pregnant. Not with his kid though and my family and his always planned to have us married and we love each other. Or as much as I as a 14 year old can know of love. But honestly. Just because it isn't "Normal" doesn't mean it's fake. Why even bother asking the question is it normal when every un-likely and non-normal sounding thing is put off as fake?
I dont believe that any parent no matter what trailor park you come out of in america would let their 14 year old girl get married you are still in middle school at that age. You are a liar get over it and stop making fake post.
Im curious why the court said it was in your best interest? Why would they say that? I don't know of any parents that would want such a thing for their daughter. they legally consented to hooking you up with a pediphile?
Is there a pay-off, like Micheal Jackson does?
Anyways, to answer your question, it is normal if you grew up without a father and still yearn for a father figure, otherwise you're just being weird.
Who said I was willing to have sex at age 14...I made a mistake went to the wrong party with the wrong guy andBut No My husband is like a family friend my mom use to babysit him all the time... Haha he use to babysit me too
You just said, in your post, that you two didn't engage in sexual acts because you weren't ready for that, and now you're 'pregnant' with someone else's kid?

BullShit.

Angel
*Sighs* I was raped by some guy at a party. Thus why I'm not ready.
That's not even funny. I'm curious as to why you think that it is.

I was molested by my step-dad when i was 3 1/2, i met a guy that I thought/am thinking about getting serious with, but my past is seriously effecting my decision.

PS. I don't like you.

Angel
i think your full of shit, if all that you have written was true then you would have told us in the original post that you were raped and pregnant with his child. i think your parents should be the ones spanking you (in a disciplinary way) for making up lies. And no court would allow a 14 year old marry a 24 year old man, that just doesnt happen.
I suspect this story is bullshit, however, if my suspicions are wrong and the story is true then...

A, your so called family friend husband who spanks you should be locked up.

B, the bloke who raped you should be locked up.

C, you should seek serious help from someone with the right qualifications, because your life is presently a mess for a girl of 14.
I was thinking the same thing! This sounds like some out of touch Mormon! I don't believe any girl that is 14 is ready to decide who she wants to marry! UI know couples that have been in these prearranged marriages before! Tey work for a while then one or the othe realises that there are others out there that they lke alot more!

All I can say is that if this story is tru it is headed for divorce! But, if they have not consummated the marriage they should be able to get it anuuled!!
for the love of god you people are mean and plus she ask you for help not to judge her man people learn some maners
@: kgm1996
I don't see you offering any help.
I actually think this one might be real. If so...

Stawberrichild,

I don't see that it is any problem. If you two Are married and you don't have sex yet (and he is a nice enough guy not to force the issue) But you like to go over his knee for a spanking...

Well, sounds to me like you kind of enjoy getting spanked.

Hey, nothing wrong with that, I went through a phase like that meself, though I am NOT saying that this is a phase with you.

It just might be that this particular kink is something you enjoy. If so great, no prob. In fact, it might be something you can work in once you begin having sex with your guy (A finger on your clitoris while he gives you an ass warming can do wonders) or he can slap your butt while you make love in the doggie position.

I am a little uncomfortable with the Arranged marrage thing, but I know it happens. All I can say is that if this IS a real post, I think you've got yourself a good guy. Many guys wouldn't wait until You were ready for sex... especially if you were married.

Hope it goes well for both of you.

Tobra
Actually Im 14..and I would love to get married...But Im sorry to say but Is that legal?
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