Yes, but you spelled 'fucking' wrong.

I am a woman and I have awaken from a deep sleep while humping on my husband from behind and reaching around grabbing at the vitals. He ends up obliging me while still asleep most of the time. I guess he has gotten so use to me doing that to him.

My husband does this all the time! It's the strangest thing.

Yes, it's a condition called sexsomnia. a condition someone sleepwalks, or wakes up in the middle of a sleep-induced state to have sex. Iheard about it on an episode of the t.v. show, "House" on Fox.

I have this same problem, except i am never sleeping with someone and it's me jerking off and I am not alseep.

very funny!!!!

This is called sleep rape. It happened to me and was not a very good experience. I sugest you seek help before you hurt someone!

I suggest you jerk yourself off.

it's not unknown to happen

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Some of you people who replied are such idiots! He didn't rape his wife - she could easily wake him up in the middle of it, but he says that she is a good sport and lets him. He also says that most of the time right before orgasm he wakes up! This is not unusual so don't try to make it like he is some deviant and needs help!

And you sleep rape victim. The guy wasn't asleep, but probably drunk or used that as an excuse to rape you. If you had resisted him or fought him off in any way, that should have been enough to wake him up. I am sorry it happened to you, but this man's situation is totally different from yours.

Sleep Rape is not raping somebody in the way that you are imagining it (I'm talking to the person above). It is an actual condition.

He tries to have sex with his wife. His wife is asleep, therefore cannot give consent. Hence the term sleep rape.

Many necrophiliacs enjoy sleep raping people.

Some of the best spontaneous sex has been in the middle of the night when my husband stirs me from my sleep while he is in that state. While in the dream state he gets horny and feels for that warm something next to him. Sometimes he just humps against me and we don't complete the full act - well he does. All of this happens without his asking my permission, but apparently I nonverbally consent! He is not raping me, I'm not dead, and I love it.

This is not to discredit your necrophilia issue, but trust me this is not uncommon for men to do.

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i think its fine. :D

The coolest part is that you wake up for the orgasm.

1. His wife is not being a 'good sport' one would hope she was enjoying it - sex is not a man only thing.

2. This is a natural extension of 'the wet dream' type scenario. During sleep your body reacts to erotic thoughts/dreams and you begin to initiate sex with your wife.. as a lone sleeper it may have been the pillow or your hand.
3 It is a common and legitimate act that is spontaneous and usually rewarding to both parties.
4 It is only rape when there is force, or manipulation, so to you people who have some serious issues about the normality of sex, get some help, and not from some wierd religeous cult with hidden agendas.
5. I have never come across the term sleep rape. Since I have studied both medicine and psychology and I have worked in a number of forensic psychiatric units, I think that this is some bullshit agenda presented by a dillusional person.
6. To the person who suggests he hangs himself, I would be interested to know if you are male or female: You have serious problems either way: as a male, your family is in real danger of your violence. God help them if you let them or yourself down, your mysogonistic upbringing needs to be addressed. If you are a woman, your view of the world has been seriously peverted by some adverse male influence or female psychotic manipulator. Get proffesional help as you will never have a normal relationship.

To all of you: have a happy, fullfilling sex life - we all deserve it. It is your right to be as sexual or asexual as YOU choose, just let your partner know your feelings and position before you are married. IE discuss sex in a mature and open manner.

Thank you so much for your response! I am not the original poster, but I am a willing, "undead" female participant who replied. You could have a field day on this site! Thanks again.

one time I was having this excellent dream about having sex with my girlfriend, then a car alarm went off outside and I woke up and whaddya know? there she was.
I can be rather talkative in my sleep and on this occasion she genuinely thought I was awake, but sometimes she doesn't care and I'm not going to complain.
sometimes it happens the other way around and she'll be asleep but still "frisky" and sometimes we're both asleep when it starts and wake up halfway through

I had a flatmate who used to talk about "sleep raping" his girlfriend. I thought this was all a crock of shit, that there was no way his chick would ever put up with that (she was a bit of a nutter). One night i was awoken by the most ungodly scream coming from my flatmates' room. Upon entry to the room, I found my flatmate lying on the floor holding his stomach (which was bleeding quite heavily) and screaming in pain. His (now ex) girlfriend hadn't seen the funny side of his escapade and decided to stab him in the gut with a nail file! He didn't press charges, he didn't even report it to the cops, worst of all, he continued to go out with her for another 6 months after the incident! True story.

rule of thumb: just set ground rules and talk about the possiblity of said action. it's really that simple.

im a female & my male m8 who's like a brither to me, we were sharing the bed and he did that in his sleep....or so he says, he pinned me down & had this huge erection; not sure what the fuck that was all about. so we just dont talk about it, tell any our mates & havent since. so what the hell was that all about...comments pls!

You obviously harbor sub-conscious desires for necrophilia. I suggest you visit necrobabes.com, seek counseling or go to mortuary school.

I don't think anything is wrong with humping your wife or girl friend while she is sleeping. I do this to my wife all the time. Usually I wake up in the middle of the night because she snores a little loud. She sleeps in the spooning position with her back facing me. I hump her until orgasm all the time.

To continue my point, my wife allows me to do this because she works very hard and sometimes does not want to have sex late at night. I told he I do this to her and she said it was OK if I satisfy myself by humping her while she sleeps.

Here is my situation. I have been married 8 years to a wonderful man. When it first started happened (he says I am the instigator). It was funny. Then, as we srated having problems, I toolk it as "Well, at least we were still getting some" Then it bothered me VERY much. I fel as if I was losing controlover my choice whether or not to have sec. When I go to bed, I am on heavy anti-anxiety pills - plus heavy sleep drugs too. At this point, I told him since he says I am the instigator, that I dont care what I am doing or how good it feels, do NOT touch me or let me continue unless you KNOW for 100% sure I am ake. He said ok. A week later, two nights in a row, it happens again. I wake up in the middle of the act. I told him he has one last chance - he said he didnt remember the earlier convesation. So then it happens again - after giving him several opotunities tyo fess up - I tld him that I knew. His resonse was he thought I was awake. Now, it feels like rape. When I was awake I removed consent to any sex in my sleep, and that has now been violated. I am leaning towads moving out. He is a wonderfful man ortherwise, and I likely will love him for the rest of my life, but at this moment, I can see no other avenues. Thoughts?

Yes, that sounds like sleep rape. It doesn't seem like he has any intention of changing his behavior. You might have to leave him. Perhaps couples therapy, but his denial will be just as adamant.

Sex is mostly kept a private issue because it is not compatible with everyone in the world, like religion, everyone has their own idea of how it should go, and everyone else wants other's to follow what they themselves are doing. This man's wife is consentual, it is not rape. If you are experiancing a problem like this, and you are NOT consentual, don't passively vent your frustration by saying all men who do this are rapist. I personally can't relate to "sleep rape" on either end of the deal, but my knowledge is more based on people themselves. The claim this man is a "rapist" or even stoop as low as to say he has "necrofeliac tendancies" is so utterly immature it's disgusting. I think the real issue most of these blame-placing women are facing is the inability to confront their own personal attackers, and confront this man instead. It's really quite transperant and embarrasing to read. Stop being so weak and confront your attacker if you have that big of a problem with what you read here. Abused children often grow up to abuse others themselves, the same eith rape victims, and that's all most of you are doing here. You've been attacked, and you've grown some ugly personality trait where all you can do to cope with your tragedy is attack others. You have labelled a man who is trying to come to terms with himself, and take responsabilty for his actions as a "rapist." That's pretty low, this man is not a "rapist" by any means, his wife is fine with it, so get over it, you're not his wife, your opinions may differ, but they have absolutely nothing to do with this man, his wife, their opinions, or their sex life. This man is not a necrofeliac or rapist, he is a human being who is doing the right thing by acknowledging the reality of his situation, and dealing with it. Most of you could learn a thing or two from this man, at least he is not in denial. I don't plan on returning to this post board, so if anyone wants to reply, mail me at buissiness@yahoo.com, but I warn you, you should probably think about your argument before writing to me, because it seems quite obvious that I am far more intelligent than the lot of you.

~The H-Bomb Himself

It's not unheard of.

It's not necrophelia. Bare in mind HE'S asleep too. It's more like a cross between sleepwalking and wet dreams. I suspect his wife is a "good sport" mainly because she enjoys it.

How the fuck can all you idiots be going on about sleep rape??!!! Are you all fucked in the head?!

1) It's his wife - you morons!
2) They are fucking consensualy - hence not rape!
3) He says she wakes up and is a good sport.

I say hump away. Whatver these other lunatics are writing here is shit. Its you and your wife for fuck sakes! Carry on!!