Quite frankly, you are a slut to be.

i know many wimmen that like porn, some wimmen just are more horney then others, i dont think ur a slut to be, just extremly sexually active.

just for your information i am not a slut to be u don't even no me so why would u think that. u do't even no who i am

what a slut

If you can't reach orgasm invest in a good vibrator and give yourself time to find out what works best for you.

7 out of 12 or so female friends admit to loving porn so that's nothing strange.

To the people who called her a slut, why don't you come out from hiding and at least show us your user identity?

At least that way we can discount anything you comment in future, without having to go through the bother of reading the drivel.

I won't call you a slut, but I will call you an English butcherer.

No, it's not normal. All the porn out there on the internet for women is actually men putting stuff up to rationalize all the porn they watch. And I don't think that any other teenager gives in to their hormonal urges, EVER. Seriously, what do you think?

AS IF! That is totally normal, in every respect. You are repressed, and I hope you do not own any weapons!

Being stressed out won't help you reach an orgasm. Take your time, get totally relaxed, and enjoy pleasuring yourself. Orgasm doesn't always have to happen.

Try this link: http://www.mymasturbation.com/ Lotsa good ideas there

There's nothing wrong with masturbation or porn, lots of girls enjoy porn. As for your problem of not being able to reach orgasm, I agree that you need to relax, try it in the bath. Best thing would be a vibrator, but since you're 14 you might have some trouble getting ahold of one. Do you have an older sister or something? Well, if you're getting a hold of porn, maybe you have a system worked out. All is well, you are normal, in fact you're awesome for waiting to have sex even though you've obviously got a major libido. To those who called you a slut to be, the fact that you aren't having sex should show that you are not.

no i don't have any older siblings. and what is libido?

Hello,

I hope you will get to read this answer.

Not much is known about the reasons for excessive sexual desire -- when it is too much and ostensibly interferes with your other life activities. However, it is quite possible that it's just your puberty hormones starting to activate.

Here's my advice from personal experience and much pondering and thinking -- I really have tried to write things honestly and to be as helpful to you as I could:

It may sound old-fashioned, but it's top-notch advice: don't engage in sexual acts with someone until you have become happy with yourself -- who you are and what your place in life is. Naturally, at your age you just can't be that. You simply do not have enough knowledge. But don't condemn yourself about this.

Masturbation: Again I speak for experience -- from both a psychological and physical perspective, it is a bad thing to do, except in a single case: to make sure the sexual function does not decline to a point where there would be other harm. If you do it several times a day, it will take precious energy from other activities that are crucial for your development. The only solution given you are not ready for a love relationship: seek some intense physical and mental activity that really, I mean really interests you. And be sure that it has a good physical component -- jogging and yoga are good activities to do. This will use up your extra sexual energy -- you will still have the desire, and you take care of that with a once-a-week-masturbation as a start, for example, but the extra one will be gone, if you do such activities (jogging, yoga, etc.) daily. Believe me, this works. And avoid vibrators, they can damage you -- use your hand for that occasional masturbation. When you are ready for a real relationship, you will be able to make sex without harm much more often than masturbation. Sex with a loving partner is different and superior to masturbation. Also, when you feel comfortable with the once a week masturbation cycle, try lengthening it -- try masturbating every 10 days, or every 2 weeks. Explore the other activities/need for sexual fulfillment ratio, and look what makes you happiest in the *long term*.

Pornography: don't watch it EVER again. I'm dead serious. It is only normal to get turned on by nude bodies -- so don't feel odd or (possibly) condemn youself that you get turned on and like it, however those people on the screen DO NOT LOVE each other, so you are programming yourself with images that are going to make you to seek sexual fulfillment without the CRUCIAL *LOVE* aspect. This is a recipe for disaster, especially in later life. There are some negative short-term effects as well. There's no such thing as beneficial sex without love, or beneficial watching of such thing. All benefit received from that is insignificant in comparison with the damage done by it. And as far as sex is concerned, *LOVE* makes sex far more pleasurable than what it can ever be without. Before experiencing a TRUE LOVE and and being in "seventh heaven", I have experienced sex without much love, with a girl I thought I loved, I know what I am talking about -- you get an empty, sinking feeling and it's just not fulfilling. Those people in a pornography movie are mostly faking their pleasure -- it is not all that pleasurable as they make it to be, but they fake it because they do it for the money. Don't be misled and think -- look for true love and, someone even call it, spiritual affinity. You won't be able to experience it now because you are not yet ready -- but in time -- 4-5-6 years, you'll be far more prepared to handle such a relationship.

Last advice: be strong! Don't feel odd about your sexuality, acknowledge your intense desire but also apply the advice above systematically! And last but not the least, think for yourself and introspect about yourself. You'll be amazed at the incredible solutions to your problems you can find that way.

Of course, if at a certain point you feel you are totally losing control and sexual desire becomes a total mania, make sure you seek medical advice -- but also don't forget to continue applying all priciples you have proved to yourself to be beneficial for you.

If you feel the need to me to clarify something, you can write me at thp9999@gmail.com (put the word "NOTSPAM123456789" in the subject.

Best wishies and be happy! :)

One more thing, sometimes the cause for excessive sexual desire is excessive stress, although it may seem paradoxical. Since you mentioned "i am so tired out from the work" this may be the reason or one of the reasons." When one is stressed, sexual desire and activity can be a good means to de-stress, however, if stress it too much, it can lead to excessive sexual activity, leaving too little energy for other things and affecting you negatively.

Best wishes.

and your phone number is?

You must be a very sheltered individual. I'm a registered nurse and I'm here to tell you that ALL of these things this girl is going through is completely and unquestionably NORMAL from both medical and psychological points of view. Masturbation is a way of self-discovery and a part of growing up. Also, unless a vibrator is inserted into an orifice that it does not belong, or used overly rough it will NOT cause damage to the body. Take your fanatical advice for this impressionable young girl elsewhere. Nothing that she is doing is wrong or unhealthy.

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this is NOT sweetgirl ok. y do people always think i am her. i not.

im sorry but that isnt nomal at all at that age... and especially for a girl!!! girls dont even get horny when they are older!!! only the men are the horny ones. thats just the way nature made it and the way it should be. girls dont even like sex that much i have spoken to them about it. all i can say is that ur boyfriend/s will b the luckiest guys in on the planet lol

^ I'd bet you don't know a fuckin thing about sex..

you shouldnt be doing this at 14!

Ask your mother can you borrow her vibrator, if she doesn't have one, ask your school teacher

I can't believe people don't think this is normal. I am a 21 y/o female, and felt exactly the same way you did when i was 14. I was horny all the time, and masturbated to take care of it! I never physically hurt myself, I held off on sex as well until I was older, and I watched, and still do watch porn. Many of these people's opinions are based on pure ignorance and others are based on growing up in a completely different day and age.

I am speaking from the perspective of a female growing up in a society where it is becoming completely acceptable for women to express their sexual desires and not be suppressed and spoken down upon for feeling emotions as we were meant to. Women have always been taught to suppress their desires and fantasies and this is not normal, or healthy, just something men wanted to us to suppress to gain control over us or because women congregrated one time or another and felt it to be shameful.

Girl, you are doing just fine. Your urges will probably get worse, you may be a little boy crazy in your high school years, and you will have some fun, get over it, settle down, and have a normal life filled with happiness and good sex =)

Don't listen to anyone else on here except for the people wishing you well and telling you that you're normal, because you are!!!!

you can come over my house and ill take care of thatproblem 4 u

LoL

Hey girl I know what you are going through. I started masturbaing when I was 13. I have tried looking at porn but now it doesn't do much for me cause I was probably afriad that my mom would find it somehow on my computer. If you ever find a way to get a vibe defintally tell me okay!

whoever is calling her a slut shut the fuck up! its extremely normal... maybe im a slut too cuz i dont have any problem with what she does..
*sticks tounge out*
suck on that biotches!
~outie~

I too was feeling the same way at 14 and it lasted until I was 17 or 18. I didn't turn out to be a slut, infact it's better to Masturbate instead of catching something, getting pregnant, or too attached to a guy that could care less. In fact I didn't lose my V until I was nearly 19yrs old- and I was proud that I didn't need a man to give that attention to me.
Just relax, maybe try a vibrator, you can probably order one on-line and have it sent discretly.

you are completely normal. I am a bit older then you but since I was your age I was one horny dude. masturbation was an activity I engaged in pretty often. if I could give you som epointeres on your own self pleasure.. that way you aren't so worn out at the end od the night...

this can get a bit graphic..

what I want you to do the next time you are horny and have a few minutes.. get completely naked and lay on your bed.. rub your pussy and gt it real wet.. take your fingures and rub the outside & the inside of that wet pussy.. now with your finger middle & index finger faceing upward as if you were telling someone to com here.. rub that rough spot on the top of the wall of your pussy.. tease it..

let me know if that helps at all..

*acoustic guy.

ever girl does this
you just have the guts to admit it
be proud
=)