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My dad and uncle
Im a proud to be gay 30 year old man, im very successful and extremely proud of my self. I believe in my heart the reason I am gay was becuase of what my dad and uncle did to me and my little brother when we would take fishing trips in the back woods of North Carolina this is a touchy subject for me but I have learned to face it. They would molest us and they always said their dad did it to them and it was a tradition, I hated them for many years and now they are both dead and ive comed to terms with my self that it wasnt their fault they were raised to like it so I can no longer harbor hate for them. But me and my brother both are gay and I believe they are the reason we are who we are, I dont hate them for it I am happy to be gay I have a great soul mate that im hoping to spend the rest of mylife with and in a way I am glad they did it because my life would have been different if they didnt. Has anyone ever had an experience i their life they felt made them a different person then they were sappose to be?
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dukepost (6726)
2007-04-09 13:12:46
Thirty year old men do not type like 12 year old boys.
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ThisIsRikkuFromSchool (7079)
2007-04-09 16:41:40
If you were molested by a man wouldn't that mean that you would be afraid of guys.
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raydee (6505)
2007-04-09 17:20:10
I'm sorry for what happen 2 you during your childhood. I admire the fact that your proud of who you are, and you have someone 2 love and someone 2 love you. My father molested my cousin from ages 12-15. He passed that curse on 2 me. I molested my cousin from ages 8-14. I felt bad every time I did it and would cry because it was something I couldn't control.

I'm a very good person but sometimes I felt like a monster. I wanted it 2 end so I prayed and prayed and asked God 2 forgive me and I asked my cousin 2 forgive me and he did. My life has been better since then. Now I plan on getting baptised and trying 2 break the curse and become an even better person, because I have learned my lesson. I'm sorry for everyone who has been a victim of this situation.
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dukepost (6726)
2007-04-09 23:08:02
@: raydee
You are a sick fucking piece of shit if this is true. I think you are the poster, though. Fuck you. If you really molested your young cousin, you deserve slow torture until you die.
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raydee (6505)
2007-04-10 00:11:37
LOL
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mischiefairy (7321)
2007-04-10 02:15:42
@: raydee
how is that funny..in any way shape or form? that kind of thing is very hurtful to alot of people not just the victims, but their families as well. and they almost never get over it
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raydee (6505)
2007-04-10 02:50:03
@: mischiefairy
No I'm not making fun of it. I was trying 2 replay 2 duke post for what he said 2 me. This story is true and has been hurtful and made my life a living hell. My point is that some bad deeds can be passed down hereditarily. This is a curse that has been alive in my family for years passed down generation 2 generation and I'm the only one trying 2 break this awful curse. I'm sorry if I offended you but I really can relate 2 this situation.
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dukepost (6726)
2007-04-10 03:02:21
@: raydee
You are a full of sh it piece of shit dip-shi t.
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raydee (6505)
2007-04-10 03:50:56
@: dukepost
Whatever. There's no telling what a bastard like you hasn't done. Theirs a lot of so called straight men and women having sex with each other for no reason, but no one talks about that. Maybe your a molester and a fag. BITCH! FUCK YOU.
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kristina_696969 (6736)
2007-04-10 05:42:32
Tha's a lame excuse for being gay!
You ought to get some help!
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dukepost (6726)
2007-04-12 03:47:11
@: raydee
Nice comeback. Congrats.
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anticollie (10813)
2007-09-25 01:08:33
I'm sorry, but I really wish that you'd have done some actual research on homosexuality.

While there are many theories on homosexuality, "I was made into one," is most certainly not one.

I would suggest taking the time to get to know yourself on a personal level, and truly ask yourself- is it a mask that you're wearing, or are you truly gay? If you find that you have no feelings for the opposite sex, than it is all-too-possible that you may be a homosexual. In which case, you should know it is likely a neurological misstep which occurred long before you were born.

I hope I've made some sense, and I do with you luck, but it seems as though you've been doing quite well- and to that I do applaud you.
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markholloway (12383)
2007-12-24 00:33:56
wow and youre uncle and father werent arrested? quueeeeeerrr
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