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Do I Ask Her Or Not?

Heres the gig.Theres a lass at work I get on with pretty well.I dont see her much,but when I do,we have a laff and seem to be on the same wavelength.Im 27 and shes a mature 19.
Here's the problem:She keeps mentioning this semi-pro footballer shes seeing,who makes £500 odd a game.
Should I ask her,or am I wasting my time?
Do you think it's normal?
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BillyCSS (7124)
2007-04-11 11:26:56
Definitely ask her before this footballer lad gets in there before you! If you don't ask you'll never find out...!
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viado (4039)
2007-04-11 11:37:00
yeah do it
nothing to lose...
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sisophous (3738)
2007-04-11 14:59:19
There's no harm done if you go out with her a few times. If it goes nowhere or she keeps bringing up another guy then it is likely best to cut her off. It's only a waste of time if you see her for months and are not on the same wavelength as far as what you both want. Most of these relationships don't last long so don't be discouraged by some other guy who has money.

It's also disrespectful for people to bring up former boyfriends/girlfriends unless specifically asked it is best never discussed. I've had to listen to it at dinner many times and it really turns me off.
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jazzybuggy (7462)
2007-04-12 00:10:20
Totally ask her!!
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Turdburger (6729)
2007-04-12 10:30:08
YEAH FUCK YEAH
ASK HER.
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DoonDoon (7460)
2007-04-12 11:41:52
I'd ask her for the footballer's number, and then ask HIM out. 500 a game? He sounds peachy.
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hotgurl (9339)
2007-07-12 21:14:57
yeah ask her. of course your not wasting your time. you neva know it cud be worth it!!! go for it
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venomousvaal (9854)
2007-08-11 13:52:15
TAKE HER. EASY YOU GOT HER. ALSO KICK THAT BASTARD. HAHA EZ JOKE ABOUT SOCCER.
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Lamoid (9855)
2007-08-11 13:53:18
@: hotgurl
WOMEN GO WITH MONEY OVER LOVE. IF I WERE YOU ID DO SOMETHING THAT MADE MORE MONEY. BTW SEMI PRO FOOTBALLER MEANS HE WONT EVEN BECOME PRO AND WILL JUST STAY THERE AND WORK PART TIME AS A PIZZA BOY. JUST BE ARROGANT AND SMUG AROUND HER THAT SHOULD WORK.
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