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Flirting with all the wrong people.
I am an adult male. I think most people would describe me as outgoing and confident. Lots of times people percieve my actions as flirting, even though I thought I was just being sociable. But when I am around a girl who I am attracted to (even if I have only known her for seconds) I become almost completely introverted and unable to flirt. I guess I am chicken, but I don't know. Anyways is it normal to be such a flirt, except when I would like to flirt.
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appleve (436)
it's normal to be shy around people you are attracted to. i guess you want to flirt at those times, but can't get yourself to do it. try imagining yourself doing it, as vividly as you can - you might feel anxious, but try to relax - take a deep breath when you feel anxious, and go on. when you no longer feel anxious imagining it, try doing it in real life! but I should also add, it's not necessary to flirt all the time - some women are actually turned off by that kind of behavior.
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xox.mle (1282)
i have the same problem. all my friends say im flirting with the guys i talk to when really im asking them about the homework that was assigned. i guess im too friendly.
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Anonymous
ahh
oh i sooo wish i was like you i have enough trouble talking to girls
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Consequence (3660)
I'm the exact same way. You want them to like you back, and don't want to risk sounding dumb. It is normal, but think of it this way; If she doesn't like who you are, then she isn't worth it. Chances are when you're natural, she'll notice.
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killbo (4128)
yes is normal i have the same trouble
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