I don't believe in god
Im 13 and like the title says I dont believe in god, or the devil or anything to do with any other religion. I'm kinda afraid of telling my parents cause they're catholic.
Also i cant find anybody with the same feelings at my school. Is this normal, and please help with my parent problem.
i on the other hand was brought up wiccan, it was not forced, it had my choice of ..browsing the other religions, but this is the one i thought best fit me.
you may as you get older find one you like better, or just stay an atheist..which is fine as well
as for the parents..find the perfect time to tell them no sooner, you might give them a heart attack! maybe wait a few years
It is always hard to deviate from what your parents have taught you, but you are an individual, and its commendable that you are thinking about spirituality on your own at such a young age. Be gentle when you tell your parents. I was about your age when I was bat-mitzvah'd and I decided to part ways spiritually with my religious parents.
My personal advice, and you don;t have to take it, is that you follow the customs that your parents have taught you thus far, even if it means sucking it up and doing it just for them. You can tell them you are having doubting thoughts, but trust me, humoring them and going to prayer etc. makes the transition much easier for them, and its only temporary for you.
You can always change your mind if you find spirituality calling you again :)
(As an opinion I believe that organised religion is clouded by centuries of meaningless ritual that clouds the true spirituality religion is supposed to promote)
I suggest that he stand by his parents during these things, not pretend anything. You can go to temple and sit through services, but still make clear that you find no value in it.
People tend to think its ideally an all-or-nothing package deal... you are athiest and do no ritual, or you are religious and do all. This isn't the case, and it took me a few years to find a comfortable balance.
Also, your parents will respect you more for "humoring" them when it comes to ritual. Its weird, but true for me and some fellow athiest/agnostics.
and pretending something your not just for your family, goes the same ways in religion, homosexuality,a college you don't want to go to, a career you hate, etc..etc
he/ she should just let them know how they feel out right, it will make them feel so much better
Realistically, parents who are religious themselves will show some kind of dismay when their children outright drop their customs.
ugh, just read it.
say i was a lesbian..just say..and i tell my mom this and she says thats unacceptable, so to humor her i get a boyfriend to hang out with around her...and she wants to see me kiss him here and there to confirm he is my boyfriend (like going to the service you see?)complete and total lie to myself
how is this fair? its not
If the person were of another religion, say, Judiasm, then it would be unfair to force themselves to go to a christian service (if they were too weak to remove the religious aspects from the social)
Here is another stupid analogy for you:
Your great aunt dies. You don't believe in heaven/hell/afterlife. You go to the service for social reasons. This is somewhat the same, and illustrates my point.
Anyway just do what you think is right and who knows!
Your parents can't kill you for not liking this "god"
So pray for someone who actually exists! Like me!
Well if this devil does exist I'm quite sure that he will party with me instead!
Oh and this brings up the time I turned 2 mormens away from christianity and another time where they gave me a leaflet and put it in the bin right in front of them!