If she says, just keep it as a fantasy.
But you sound doomed.

I really don't see why this is a turn on for any man.

its turns you on to know your gf is doing some other guy when she could be in bed with you instead...hmmmmmmmmmm are you an idiot?

Why would anyone have a fantasy about knowing that their partner has been with someone else! That to me sounds gross..dirty!

My perception is this...if someone had a relationship before me that is their past and should be kept there!!! Now, once I start seeing and/or having sex with them, that is the here and now..and hopefully the future! That to me is when no one elses name or what we have done should ever come up in our bed!

Again that is my ideals...but to each his own!

It's best not to force or try to convince someone into doing something they prefer not to do. Find yourself another girlfriend who shares your interest otherwise keep it as fantasy.

People who engage in such activities are called swingers and their lifestyle is non-traditional and one which society for the most part frowns upon. I don't see swingers as not having any feelings or emotions and do not look down upon them. Society is not a moral compass to judge others when you look at the staggering divorce/separation rates today. Just my opinion.

PEACH JAH BLESS

I know this woman who was married. Her husband wanted her to do it with another man while he watched. She final agreed. He was so excited, he wanted her to do it again with a different man. Then there was a third man. She was starting to enjoy this activity. She found out that the other men were better lovers than her husband. One day, she suggested that she do it with this guy she wanted. Her husband had a totally different attitude when it was her idea.

I have watched m wife get a total body massage by a friend of ours. Yes, he rubbed every inch of my wife. All 3 of us thought it was fun and exciting. It moved to him rubbing her in all of the right places to give her an orgasm. It was great for us.

Right StarGirl, but when one person in a relationship encourages their mate to have sex with another, it gives them the green light to engage in no strings attached sex with others too. At least morally they feel emboldened to do such.

This guy I am quite certain is looking for sex with others besides his girlfriend even though he doesn't mention it.

where are these 20$ hookers you speak of ?

i will gladly fcuk your girlfriend for you..

control your bitch u punk

I don't see how you other guys like your chicks with other guys, or chicks, or if they show their self off.

I LOVE my g/f and i would fucking kill myself if she did that.

dude, that's weird

just do us a favor and go die

FAGGOT GO HAVE YOUR DADDT SUCK YOU OFF THEN HAVE YOUR MOMMY STONE YOU TO DEATH