Your questions are not related to normal or abnormal but rather appropriate or inappropriate.

Answers to numbered questions:

1. Never should be necessary if the boy is healthy and in control of his body. Diapers are used for a very young age and he can be taught to do so himself, first time.

2,3,4: A diabled person who is incapable of doing it himself, is within reason to request assistance but from a caretaker.

5: If arranged in advance and agreed upon by the parties involved in the care of the disabled, then I suppose there is no wrongdoing. I would take a guess such acts are done as there are many disabled people who must crave sexual gratification. I frankly do not know about this topic/issue, first time it came up to me.

At first I thought your post was in jest, but actually the answers to some of your questions have to be given some thought, at least by me.

THe point of these questions are pointless but anyway 1.NEVER if you ever did this you should have your throat cut. they have hands. 2.Acceptable 3.acceptable 4.No 5.your a fucking idiot

Mr. Amazing's nickname should be renamed Mr. A**hole. These questions do NOT imply actions: they are, as sisophous pointed, questions of propriety, and I posted them here for that purpose, not for some idiot to start posting abusive and accusatory comments.