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As much as I like to pretend I don't care about my body, and eat whatever I want, I always feel fat after and guilty. I wish I could become belimic, but I can't stand throwing up. I am not over weight, and I am very active, but whenever I eat I feel guilty because I want to look like all the women I see on TV. I always put up this front that I don't care, and I hate women like that, but it's really because I am jealous. It's to the point where I won't let my boyfriend touch my stomach because I am ashamed of the little roll of fat I have down there(I'm female) and I don't know what to do about it. Any other females have this issue?
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You should not wish to have an eating disorder. Many of the women on TV are not healthy. If you have issues with the way you look, and there really is something to improve, try changing your exercises to work on tone or talk to a dietician about maybe eating differently. Food is good and necessary. Sometimes fat can actually build up from not eating enough, because your body is reacting to a food shortage. Another symptom of this is feeling tired.
Anonymous
It's spelt bulimic.
You need to get out more. Why don't you go and live in Africa where they can barely get anough food to live and have to drink their own p1ss?
GiveMeAHugBaby
MTV will cure you if you want a disorder. Other than that, here in Oregon we like the Biggins. Move on over. Most of us also have large Beards if you are into that.
Be proud to be a woman, you're supposed to have curves for your man to caress!
Anonymous
You don't want to be bulimic. Throwing up too much is bad cause of the acids going up you throat and can be very damaging. I do know how you feel though. I hate my stomach, it's my worst part. When I talk about it to my best friend or someother people they just say "Oh, you're not fat. You're just fine." My brother tells me I'm fat, but I just ignore him. My older sister is skinny and my family always talks about how skinny she is. I always how the feeling my family thinks I'm fat.
OMG! You are a classic case. GET OVER IT! Stop buying into those stupid stereotypes.Women are beautiful by nature, why can't any of you believe it? Society has us all brainwashed so we will feed our dollars into the corporate machine buying the latest fad diet and aerobicizer or waddever. Don't buy it! Exercise, walk, run, play hockey, volleyball, rugby, or anything. Be active. Sex is fantastic exercise! Eat healthy. Love yourself for who you are. You are so much more that what the mirror tells you. Who cares what everyone else thinks. Everyone has a roll of some kind. If you didn't, your skin would split open everytime you stood up. look at yer knuckles. They have too much skin, but you don't spend your life wearing gloves, do you? Worry more about what is going on in your heart. Love, and be loved. Take solace in kind acts, not your hot bod.
Gurl, U DO NOT WANT TO BE BELEMIC OR FUKIN ANNOREXIC!!! what in the hell is up with all of these good looking healthy gurls wanting to be as small as a fukin stick. Men like curves they don't want to be grabbing on to bone. Ever heard the saying, " the more cushion the more pushin'" Love yourself! Don't try to be like gurls on tv because over half of them that r skinny have eating disorders.
I know that being concerned about your appearance is something nearly every woman does, and it is normal. What is NOT normal, however is wanting an eating disorder. I suggest spending time doing things that make you feel good about who you are, and not obsessing about what you look like. Your boyfriend is with you because he cares about YOU and the wonderful person that you are, if he was overly concerned about your appearance he wouldn't be worth the time.
Anonymous
EVERY MALE WANTS LOVE HANDLES!
Anonymous
disagreement
well porsonaly i feel you are being overdramatic there is alot of fat and haelthy people at the arias, such as kassy chambers or whatever her name is from aussie idol, there is Kirsty alley and kelly osbourne, kelly clarkson, so even though I agree that people are being stupid these days that your comment is a very judgemental one.
@: Moi
I agree
Hey, I think that your comment is very true and i belive it could help people,
Anonymous
@: lovelia
i dont get it
Im confussed to you think its good or bad tyo be skinny?
NOT Fat!
Your boyfriend likes to put his hands on your stomach because he likes it! He doesn't like you because COULD be like the women on tv, he is attracted to you because you have the perfect sized tummy so he can put his hands on it.
This is very normal though. My last 2 girlfriends were a lot like you in that way. I also have a cousin who is a recovering anorexitc (its been like 5 years that she's been eating right again but just like alcoholism it's something she still sometimes deals with). It's okay to diet a little, but bulima and anorexia is not only dangerous but ugly. if you did lose a few pounds, then maybe your boyfriend would be less attracted to you. You prolly didn't think of that!
dont fret
hey dont worry about it at all, most girls worry about their size and weight, you just have to learn to be comfterable with who you are, and if your boyfriend really loves you, lets face it, he doesnt care if you are hiding an elephant down there, he will always love you for who you are, so dont worry about it, and never become one of those girls, perging, and starving themselves, all in all that is a cry for help...so just sit down and think of everything great in your life, and dont worry about ur flaws, b/c hun everyone has them
You are aware that a great deal of those images are doctored up with Photoshop and the like, making a great deal of those 'perfect' bodies impossible.
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