well i'm 17 and once a guy started to rape me but stopped after going in once. i just remember it being EXTREMELY painful, but he broke my cherry, so will it hurt the next time?
i didnt want anyone to know. ive never told anyone. besides, it was a "friend" and he acted like he didnt know i didnt want to.... though i said no twice... until i started crying.. whatever
Too late now fool, been more than a week? He's gotten away with it. I am a fellow 17 year old, except I am a guy. I respect women and would have never done to anyone what he did to you, however, the actions you took were weak and pathetic. If a 'friend' does that when you have said no that means they are not a friend! What the hell we're you thinking not going straight to the police? If anyone ever does anything like that again, take action, respect yourself. PS: You're a cherry
You say that you respect women and in the same paragraph you call the young woman a fool, weak and pathetic, that is showing no respect to this young woman.
How can you possibly begin to imagine what she was going through or felt like at the time, she could have been emotionally in turmoil and not have been thinking along those lines.
She is hardly a fool or pathetic because she has faced up to what happened to her and has got on with life, give the girl the respect she deserves.
it was a year ago but you dont get how complicated these things are, he didnt ever act like he did me wrong, afterwards he would ask me why we didnt have sex anymore. i guess i felt as bad for him. and i mean he did stop. i thought maybe it was a misunderstanding.
Mightofthemass, you say that crap like you know me. I know quite a bit about what this girl experianced, and how she dealed with it was the wrong way, full stop. I respect women, doesn't mean Im not going to tell them how I feel. Aftermath, no means no, if people cant understand that, they deserve whats coming to them.
It's how I feel man. Her ACTIONS were the easy way out, so I said so. I guess I could have gone softer with the vocab, but in the end of the day...
In no way was I suggesting SHE was weak and pathetic, just her chosen actions. I feel for her from the bottom of my heart, but the only becoming action in such circumstances is to go straight to the police. And the fool thing, well I call everyone a fool, so I guess I have no excuse there.
hopefully not. you'll have to find out :)
You say that you respect women and in the same paragraph you call the young woman a fool, weak and pathetic, that is showing no respect to this young woman.
How can you possibly begin to imagine what she was going through or felt like at the time, she could have been emotionally in turmoil and not have been thinking along those lines.
She is hardly a fool or pathetic because she has faced up to what happened to her and has got on with life, give the girl the respect she deserves.
My gripe was that you used such words as 'weak' and 'pathetic' which I hardly think are applicable in such circumstances.
In no way was I suggesting SHE was weak and pathetic, just her chosen actions. I feel for her from the bottom of my heart, but the only becoming action in such circumstances is to go straight to the police. And the fool thing, well I call everyone a fool, so I guess I have no excuse there.