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friend tried to kill herself
well shes only 17 and a whole of shit had gone down, shes got manic depression and she just being so negative and tried to kill herself and that. its really getting to me and making me depressed and i dont know what to do. i love her to bits but i dont know how to help her and now i cant help myself because shes also bringing me down with her i know that seems like a selfish thing to say but i honestly dont feel like i can deal with this as i have alot of my own issues i have to deal with myself. is this normal to think like this? and any advice?
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Comments (17)
McGreg (7610)
2007-04-20 09:40:43
Yep normal, stand by your man/woman/friend, you're a normal
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ChrisUFC (7139)
2007-04-20 10:49:25
Well you say she tried that gives hope if she wanted to kill her self she would have done it and not failed so sounds to me like she is reaching for attention or help and if she doesnt get it then things for her will only get worse. You are her friend but she has a family and they need to be the ones that are there for her, like you said you have your own problems so deal with them first. Its easy to get sick of helping someone if they dont want help.
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maligium (7265)
2007-04-20 10:50:31
hey youre a honey to feel that for you friend,but this fuckin society today, you can only afford to look after yourself .as she can only look after herself, but cut a bit of slack
with her.
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spamjavelin (7659)
2007-05-09 20:06:10
finger her.
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kristina_696969 (6736)
2007-05-09 20:23:39
Get her some Help!!!
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raps-leafs (8272)
2007-05-09 21:13:33
@: spamjavelin
ur a genious, idiot
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LFC_999 (8542)
2007-05-25 22:39:16
some times the thing that is needed is support with that and a little time then it will all work out. try not to get down it wont help you or her just be there but don't get to involved with the polotics.
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OuCh_ThAt_HuRt (8544)
2007-05-25 23:08:17
People that are depressed can...but rarely ever pul themselves out of it! This person needs some professional help. And I hink the person that posted it should seek some too. You maybe a good friend but you need to learn how to help her and yourself at the same time!
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xpirein (9168)
2007-07-06 18:20:42
hang in there my love your doing well, all i can suggest is that you seek professional help on bhalf of ur friend.you cannot take this burden on urself.im sorry 2 hear about this, depression is a terrible thing.i just hope ur ok in dealing wiv this,get support round u as much as possible.
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Lexmarkia (9403)
2007-07-16 11:17:24
I have no pity for those willing to kill themselves. None. I'll help them as much as possible to avoid it, however should they take thier own life I won't go to the funeral.
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aperson (9713)
2007-08-14 19:13:04
i think that abbandoning a freind is one of the worst possible cromes to commit, stand bye her and help her you probably should put your own problems first though...ive never done that
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beatles_steffi (9285)
2007-08-17 12:45:24
how did she do it???? If she is bringing you down....tell her to get over it....it sounds cruel....but it will help her......if you feed her negativity..........it will only make matters worse.
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MrWalk (9497)
2007-09-22 05:12:34
@: spamjavelin
Best advise ever

Anyway she is just an emo attention seeker who has no one in her life to think about her than you so she "tries" to kill herself so you go all "caring mother" kinda on her so my advise

Leave her alone and if she dies its her own fault!

Don't let her turn you all emo!

I almost fell under its spell but I escaped just in time!
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hotboy2367 (10985)
2007-10-06 15:46:26
omg thats crazy help her
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namelesstosay (9634)
2007-12-24 09:59:44
JUST LET HER DO IT! ONE LESS PERSON IN THE WORLD! GEEZ.

peace jah bless
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blackbarbiebabe7 (7546)
2007-12-30 18:32:50
@: spamjavelin
Spamjavelin,

Can't you see that this girl needs help and comfort? Saying dumb and useless comments such as "finger her" arent helping at all. If you have advice, then give it. Don't post useless comments !
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blackbarbiebabe7 (7546)
2007-12-30 18:33:17
same to namelesstosay!
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