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Am I Possessive?
My boyfriend and I spend tons of time together (I'm a girl), so this wouldn't be an issue of niglect, and I always feel great whenever we're together. But whenever he wants to go out with friends, I can't help but get either alittle jealous or just plain angry. It's not that I don't like his friends, I just want him to be with me. It sounds selfish, I know, but I don't actually tell him this, I do let him go.
Are my feelings okay, or am I possessive?
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Comments (11)
Big_Boy (7768)
2007-04-20 12:15:13
You sound a bit jealous and possesive, if you really like him or love him, you should defenitely let him go out with his friend, no matter how you like him, you must let him go out with his friend without him feeling guilty about it, as you should be able to go out with your friends without feeling guilty either.

But you know... everything in a relationship is based in mutual trust and communication, why don't you talk with him and express as you feel...

Good luck!
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MightOfTheMass (6096)
2007-04-20 12:18:04
If you deprive a man of his 'own space' the relationship will inevitably fail.

Trust me on this one !
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ChrisUFC (7139)
2007-04-20 12:32:49
You sound like a young person, this isnt rare amoung young people in relationships, the best thing to do is not to give into the feelings and tri to get use to him having friends and some time with them. If you keep it up this could ruin what you got so do your best to break the habbit.
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smithee (4389)
2007-04-20 19:19:15
freak
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Turdburger (6729)
2007-04-20 19:28:26
@: Big_Boy
No don't talk to him and tell him how you feel, because then he'll feel that you don't trust him and say he can hang out with who ever he feels like, then an argument will happen.
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McGreg (7610)
2007-04-21 01:13:01
You're a niglect
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english*guy (7825)
2007-04-21 12:14:06
i think that you should work out with him when he should go out with his mates and when he should be with you ( with you more than his mates)
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redneck/leatherneck (8045)
2007-04-29 03:01:36
Maybe you should hang out with his friends too.
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xoxorussianxoxo (9582)
2007-07-25 13:49:25
don't worry i can totally relate, i'm married n we work together n live together(u would think jesus take a break right) well even though we spend lots of time together n he wants to play videogames i get jealous, i let him of course cause if i dont ever give him space i will lose him but its almost like well u cant talk or f*ck touch anything a videogame, u can do countless things with me... but it happens so dont feel bad. i get the same way.
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Bus_Driver_Dildo (9579)
2007-07-25 13:55:48
He's pRobably fucking tons of girs behind your back

Get caught with me in bed!
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funkychicken101 (10986)
2008-01-26 05:32:14
how would u feel if u found out your boyfriend didnt want u going out with your mates? Its natural to feel jealous if he wants to be with his friends instead of you but give the guy some space...
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