Ok shes been in and out of a bad relationship for 8 years so that shows she has problems, shes already got a kid from another guy so thats not a plus unless you like taking care of other mens kids, think about this in the long run will she ever be able to let go of that guy? Will you be able to handle that guy getting pissed at you taking his girl away? You are leaving soon you could tell her how you feel before you leave and see how she takes it so that you will atleast get it off your chest but she sounds like a problem to me and id keep going in the other direction.

steal a car and run him over but make sure you have gloves and a mask on and also have a strong alibi.. Then you can comfort her and in her moment of weakness offer to take her with you to help her with the loss..Then if she agrees ... give it a few weeks then get her very drunk and bone her in the front bottom.

Don't be stupid he'll get caught.

What you have to do is simple, find out where he lives if you don't already know.
Break in when his sleeping dressed in black of cause, with a mask of some sort on then you have to think of a way to eliminate him.
maybe a knife or a gun with a silencer,my all time favert needdle with poison in it.
then alfter you have killed him take your time sit back look around you and think, did any one see me?
i havent't dropped any thing?
What time is it?
who is going to be my alibi?

Remind me never to piss you off.

Guys who mistreat girls are usually cowards, get a box of kittens to beat him up. PS: You're a direction

i think taht you should tell her how you feel before you leave even if she his going out with this bloke that way you will never think what she would of said if you didn't tell her. If she goes mad your leaving the country so you don't have to deal with her much longer. Also if she does feel the same way she may move abroad with you.

hey yo should get her phone number and then talk to her in the other place

she sounds like a head case... have you found out why they break up... if the reason is something you wouldnt like to live with... be honest with yourself.
and would you have to deal with anything from that guy, or would she put him higher than you and always talk about him. would she run back to him?

if you love her go for it tell her u dont wanna look back on it in 20 yrs and hate urself for not goin after her

Does she have any idea how you feel about her? She may be staying with this other guy because she thinks no one else wants her. Before you leave tell her she has a choice between him and you.