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She likes him, I like him, But he likes me...
it is very longWell my best friend has liked this guy for about 2 months or so and about the same time i started liking him. she is very flirtacious trying to always be with him and blow me off when she gets a chance(also she likes another guy too). at one point i told that i liked him but considering she liked him too i just backed off and held my feelings in, teeling that i don't like him. yesterday i asked his bf if he liked her and said no but that he likes me. i was so happy but at the same time upset because she is my bf. before he came to sit w/me at lunch my bf just explodes in my face saying it was all my fault and that if i never was around everything would be fine and they would be together. then she leaves me and him sitting there. then he tells me at lunch how he feels and i teel him my feelings as well but at the same time we still want to be her friend. she says that she will be my friend but not his cause he doesn't like her. i apolgized to her many times for lying to her about the fact that i still had feelings for him and didn't tell her. and this morning when i woke up i started to cry which never cry. and i just wish that someone could help me do the right thing. its just that i'm not quite sure wat the right thing is.
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Thurn890 (8238)
2007-05-08 09:19:21
Try obtaining some LSD for both of them (and yourself) and go to the circus, trust me, all will make sense in time
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humble_dude (7533)
2007-05-08 09:48:28
That is a very common situation, your bf is probably jealous because he prefered you. But you gotta be honest to her, if she gets upset, dont get upset with he
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humble_dude (7533)
2007-05-08 09:49:50
with her, but try to relax, (count to 10), and you gotta be the one handling the tone of the conversation.
It will just pass, time heals this things, just dont do bad stuff to her if she is mean to you, try to understand her, and be there for her.
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hoodie (9286)
2007-07-13 17:34:09
@: Thurn890
..THATS why the circus exists..
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LizawithaZ (9496)
2007-07-21 03:28:51
this happened to me once.

If your friend is really a true friend then she'll understand that he doesn't like her and that she should move on.

People can't help who they like and don't like.

A true friend stabs you in the front so be honest.
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rmaetirh (12307)
2007-12-19 16:25:07
give her some time and space to calm down and think about things!but after that if she's stupid enough to ruin your friendship and walk away then be smart enough and let her go!!
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x.princess.x (3703)
2008-01-06 13:08:45
take your chance to be happy and your bf will forgive you in time
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cookiejar (13300)
2008-02-04 22:09:24
its not really your fault you had no control over it the guy chose dont feel guilty if she was a true friend she wouldnt have blamed you and risked your friendship
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