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My Boyfriend Likes When Other's Flirt

Well, it all started with one of my guy friends with who I jokingly have nicknamed "Sexy". Everytime I see him, we always call out to eachother "Hey, sexy!". One time, he did it infront of my boyfriend by accident, not knowing he was there. The second he found out he was, he immediatelly apologized explaining that it was just an inside joke between us and that he was not intending to flirt with me. But my boyfriend actually pushed me toward him and said "Go ahead, I don't mind". I thought it was a joke at first, but I started finding out later that some other boys in a few of my classes liked me...and he acutally didn't seem to care. Some guys have actually given me looks while we were out on dates, and he didn't even respond. It bother me when guys try to flirt with me, and he knows this but he doesn't do anything.

Is this normal, or is he just indifferent about me?
Do you think it's normal?
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Comments (13)
ChrisUFC (7139)
2007-04-20 14:24:36
Sounds like you are more of a peice of meat then a girl friend, if I was your boyfriend and I heard you call another guy sexy I would have a jealus rage and probly go after the punk.
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Normalmarriedguy (7797)
2007-04-20 15:47:57
Jealousy's just like other emotions. Some men are super jealous, others not at all. I am never jealous of my wife, never encourage her to do something she doesn't want to do, and never stand in the way of something she does want to do.
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Turdburger (6729)
2007-04-20 18:53:53
Yeah i'd go in to jealous rage and punch the punk.Maybe your boyfriend's a pussy and dosn't respond because he's scared.
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slackjawedyokel (6678)
2007-04-20 20:06:11
it sounds like your bf doesnt care about you really -he just likes the idea of having a gf that other guys find hot.and you wont tolerate that sort of attitude from him or the other guys any longer if you have any self esteem at all.
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ChrisUFC (7139)
2007-04-20 21:45:12
@: Normalmarriedguy
You sound like a bitch boy, shes got you trained real good.
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McGreg (7610)
2007-04-21 01:37:00
How do we know? People react differently. PS: You're sexy
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english*guy (7825)
2007-04-21 12:37:31
well when somebody lokks at your when your with him either, shout/say can't ya see im with my boyfiend (this will make him feel good as long as they are not going to beat hi up) or if you notice somebody looking at you/checking you out then turn around flicking your hair then start to get with him.
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dontaskwhy (8791)
2007-07-09 23:21:32
if anyone flirted with my girl(s) id shoot em with a poison tipped blowdart made from shoelace and a sewing needle or a pistol
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sexii_prep (10620)
2007-09-17 19:45:36
hes just not a jealous person, but if he doesnt seems to care [not even a little], it means hes not that interested in you. idk. =/
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stinkbug12345 (9117)
2007-10-18 11:59:43
who fuckin cares ? you aren't married
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BillyJeanisnotmygirl (11539)
2007-11-04 23:23:58
He just doesnt want to be restrictive of you not take away your freedom. Try being a little more eccentric around him, maybe a little sexual(not that far thoough) if nothin changes dump his ass
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x.princess.x (3703)
2007-11-24 09:29:33
Well i have a mate who is with someone who sounds alot like your bf. hes just shaggin her tho to put it blatent and does not care if she pulls anyone else. because shes so all over him i think he thinks he can have her anytime. and he can. he just clicks his fingers and she comes running. pathetic. dont do it. make him scared a bit hes ina comfort zone at the mo he knows you aint goin anywhere. make him think differently
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ABluigi (15356)
2008-07-25 13:12:27
he might not even care about u at all
i whould have beat someones ass if they gave my girl look during a date
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