You have to respect others privacy and stop being so controlling if you wish to maintain close friendships. Too much togetherness is a bad thing. If you ever want to have a relationship that lasts, don't pressure your friends, give them their own space and time to themselves. It sounds like your girlfriend wants time to herself which is reasonable and you likely are demanding too much of her attention.

It's downright rude when people put a date off or on hold to chat on a cell phone with others, but that's on a date. If you have nothing planned, and just going to her house to hang out for hours, then you can't fault someone for giving attention to someone else.

well is not like i want to be there... She tell me to come over and leaves upstairs for like 2 or 3 hours to be on myspace..
And about the privacy thing.... She is the once that check my stuff 24/7 along with my phone to see who called me or who i called...

I mean i have things to do.... And she wants me to sitdon and wait for her while she goes upstairs and goes on myspace...

Cut back the time you spend with her, you may be around her too often and she is taking you for granted.

And, if she goes on myspace for more than a few minutes, without giving you notice, just walk out. And, the next time she has you over and repeats it, walk out again without telling her you are leaving. After a number of times, she will get the hint.

People who take phone calls from others, use the computer and ignore the person they invited over or planned a date, are inconsiderate and rude. That's why I suspected you are simply spending too much time around her.

She should let you know in advance when she will be using the computer or will be on the phone while you are over at her place. That's legit to do if you are frequently around her. It's a matter of good manners.

thanks.. well i told her that we needed to fix things and she dosent want to talk.. SO i told her that i dint want to be with her until she talked to me... ANd she still hasnt called me..
THis happen around 43 min ago..what do you think?

Dude this girl is definitely NOT into you. Just drop it. I mean, I've been there (quite a few years back now, but I've been there).

This one time a girl says 'come over'. Nothing unusual about that so far. I go over and I'm waiting downstairs - there was no internet or mobile phone or anything at hits time. I'm thinking 'wtf ?' About an hour and a half later, she comes down and tells me that she's busy and has to go.

Well, that was it. I went home. Couldn't be bothered with crap like that. And I suggest you shouldn't bother either.

Don't let it twist you up inside either, just let it go. It is what it is.

And you can forget about the promise ring. Save it for someone who's into you.

I think just leave her alone and don't contact her. There is a cooling off period for people who get upset, it takes time for the anger to simmer. If someone is still upset several days later then it sounds like you are best off going your own ways. I would say otherwise only if the couple are married, where they should work on it and make a strong effort to reconcile.

If a girl genuinely likes a guy, they will put up with a lot of disputes.

It's also normal and the norm for relationships to come to an end, people get tired of one another and/or just seek something different. Variety is the spice of life you know. Don't invest too much time or energy in this.

Please post back what happens after three or so days.

Yeah I figured.. I just tought that after a year it would change but i know it wont...
Well She still hasnt called, and it's cool.. When she calls me i am going to talk to her about everything and how she makes me feel.. Thats tonight, and if she does not want to understand and see what she is doing wrong then i am going to let her go....I can keep on being nice when she wont be nice... I guess i am the one doing all the work.... But i will keep you updated..

Very well, be nice to her even if you break up and don't say anything out of spite even if she does so to you. It isn't a game of who can win but rather coming to terms. From your story and posts it seems the time has come to move on. Learn from it and you will be the wiser in the long run.

I'll advorse you in a second

well... heres the story..so at around 930sh she called me back.. saying if i had called her, i said yeah and i told her we needed to talk. she said i don't feel like talking. so i was like w/e
we talked and we argued, then she said she was going to call me back....When she called me back she was saying that she dint feel like talking.. WE kept going at it.. And i finally told her"be honest with me,dont feel sorry for me just tell me the truth. I am really tired of playing your games, and i am not playing them anymore.. SO do you want to or do you not want to be with me, answer me right now.. ANd it was silent.. SO she responded saying ok bye.. I hung up the phone, and i was like ok... Then she called me back and she was like... "i dont want to talk about it"
Then i was like ok you never do.... THen she was like thanks for ruining my b-day. and i was like ok, i wanted to tlk to fix things but you dint want to, so w/e she responded saying if you were a man you would of fix things... I was like BS.. I tried but you were way too busy to spend 30 min talking about our relationship, so you ruined your own b-day and you trew me away.. But i will not take you back.. YOur too stuborn to talk to me, and i am fed up with it. SO She said ok, i dont feel like talking about this right now.. and i was like w/eBYE.. She said peace out... ANd i was like click...
So now thats whats going on so far....