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its been a year since my x split up with me, were in the same uni, living area & hang outs. since the split up ive gone thru almost every emotion from severe depression & guilt 2 rage & regret. i tryed 2 move on keep myself busy etc for a few months aftrwrds which kinda worked, but in2 the 3rd month after the split till a month ago i have stalked him, have m8s & contacts 2 keep tabs on him & ruin any chance of him getting a girl (tho he aint that much of a looker, its a possesive thing). the more i get my m8s, contacts & knowladge against him to make his life a misery the more powerful & happy i feel, as i feel that he will forever be mine. this is the 1st time i have ever broken up with any1 is this normal? help!!
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Anonymous
2005-07-10 20:23:12
Destructive behavior is not normal. Although I am no psychologist, it sounds like you have a dependency issue. How do you feel about yourself when you are alone in a crowd of strangers?
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Anonymous (Story Author)
2005-07-11 07:54:36
@: Anonymous
im kool round strangers i can make friends like that it aint hard for me. However everytime i c him it brings out the worst in me. i dont know what else it is that turns me into something im not, by getting a complete satisfaction for ruining his life bit by bit, like when i got my m8 2 cause a split up in my ex & his best m8 in uni & it worked. so whats my other issues whats going on with me? i feel like jeckle & hyde
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METHOSjr. (83)
2005-07-12 15:04:29
HumpAnother
Good Lord.....no comment.

*Leans over to poot*
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tharp (664)
2005-07-23 00:00:39
How long were you together?

Break ups can certainly send you crazy, but I suspect the main problem is that you see him all the time. You should cut him out of your life altogether if you possibly can and give yourself time to recover.

If you don't have the strength to do this yourself then get counselling, help, and support. If you continue with this behaviour you'll end up on the wrong end of a restraining order or in a psychiatric hospital.
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jon123406 (2851)
2006-07-26 11:39:17
Leave him
Leave him alone. You woulden't like it if him and his m8s stalked on you and ruined your life how ever much they might like it.You feeling good 4 ruining his life. Thats harsh, its his life to ruin not yours. Go ruin your own life. If you still like him you will leave him alone
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