Alright, heres the story.
Ive known (and liked) this girl since primary school, but we went to different high schools. Of course, this put a fairly large dent in my plans to get with her, as i had no contact info of hers, and i now very rarely saw her.
However, since then i have continued to see her intermittently, and in increasingly frustrating situations.
First, when me and a friend were going to see a movie, I saw her; i thought "great" i'll talk to her at the cinema, but she walked right into the f**king music store next-door.
Then, i saw her for like 30 seconds at the beach, while me and my family were going home, and she was just arriving.
Since then, i have seen her twice, once, when her school did a concert with my school, and they were doing a preview at our assembly, i saw her up on stage, but of course couldn't say anything to her, and just tonight, i saw her outside a cinema after watching a movie, but her and her friends got driven home before i could say anything.
It seems as though i am being continually teased by fate, and i cant this feeling out of my head that we were "meant" to be.
I know it sounds REALLY LAME, but do you reckon you could give me some idea of what to do? Should i really go after her? It's not like she's the only one, but i just feel as though fate or something is bringing us together, i mean, it cant possibly be a coincidence that i see the girl of my dreams (that i thought was gone forever) in these random situations, for only a short period?
Tell her you have two tickets and wondered if she would like to join you. Put the ball in her court. It's harder for someone to say no if you have given them advance notice by two weeks or so. If she says yes, done deal and you can talk to her in private all you want. If she says I'll get back to you, ask her to let you know within a few days. If she declines, ask another girl. Problem solved!
I think the problem is that you are probably a homosexual in deep denial. go with it, young man, get your self a nice boyfriend, and remember ... you're here, you're queer, get used to it.
Peace