tried to f**k u up the arse on the first date!

are you fine with it?

Whats going on is you are a horny teenager with too much time on your hands and not enough sexual experience to not sound like a moron.

wtf is that supposed to mean???? i fucking posted that because i wanted some freakin responses, not bullshit from some cunt like you. :S why would u attack me when i am just asking what would make someone think they can do that? wtf did i do wrong u fucking cunt

Cry me a river. What kind of responses were you looking for here? grow up, and try being at least a little realistic with your next crappy sex story.

are you saying its not real????????? lol alright

it actually gives me the answer im looking for then if u think its fake. then the answer is no its certainly not normal. maybe i should cut contact with this person

no dude, fuck i shouldnt post on here i know the answers myself im just too weak to end it :( read other post.

whys that?

confuseddontknowwhattodo , I understand what you mean, though I don't think a story like this is that common. That is probably why these dickheads are saying that stuff. I read your other post about your problems with the older man, I'm guessing he is the same one mentioned in this one? Well all I can say is if he HAS been in jail like you say, he is bound to have some issues. I think that because you're so young maybe it's not the best for you to be caught up in all this. Try to see it for what it is.

he probably has some STD and wants to clean it off with sanitizer. So WATCH OUT!

Here is where I think you are just being an ass and posting stupid shit.


1)If he rammed his dick up your ass without notice you would porbably tear and be in alot of pain, if he would be able to fully penetrate you at all.

2)He just happened to have some antiseptic??? Just for the occasion?

3) wouldn't the antiseptic STING LIKE A BITCH even after he supposedly stuck it up your smelly cooch.

4) If you had an ounce of sense, and if this situation were real, you would have stopped this process, let alone stopped him from doing it again on seperate occasions.

Thus, I think you are a bit of a horny idiot.

not likely he could ram anything up your ass without your cooperation.not likely youre female either.

Antiseptic? I make it a rule not to date anyone that brings a bottle of antiseptic on the first date. Was it the wide-mouth bottle or does he have to pour it - either way a bit messy and its got to sting like hell.
Here is a way to gauge everything in your life - if it doesn't make you happy then don't do it.

ok well fair enough.
he knew i was coming to his house this night right. we were sending messages back and forth and he asked me to go out there. i was there for pretty much only one reason. he had (well i am only guessing its antiseptic stuff) it in a bowl. it hurt a bit , i pulled back and wasnt happy with what he was doing. i couldnt believe it to be honest. thats why i posted this, i want to know if there is something wrong with him for doing it. as i said , he had it knowing i was coming out. so thats what makes me more confused. he must have been thinking 'ass fuck ass fuck ass fuck!!' why else would he have prepared it ready. talk about weird :(
shavemeslowly did u read my other post? i know its probly fair to say i dont have an ounce of sense. i know this bloke must be using me, and if i had any self respect i wouldnt continue it. but what we have is more than sex, its like a bond. he is like my best friend. even if i do think he has some issues and perhaps should treat me better :(

lol ok whatever. all these replies helps me better understand that
1) it ISNT normal that he did it
2)i have little self respect and shouldnt continue with this charade
3) people on here obvioulsy have no life, and spend there time on here harrassing people

thx. the antiseptic (i suppose it was.. it was something in a bowl lol) didnt sting. but the sudden "lets fuck this bitch up the arse without any lubrication. or permission" fucking did. it was over before anything could be said really. i didnt want to hurt his feelings so i didnt go off at him for it. so i just tried not to think of this little incident again, we have never spoken about it.

So basically what you're trying to tell us dude, is that you're gay... and that you like having your corn drain maligned, mangled, and mutilated, so basically, you're no different than any other turn burglar. I think we all understand your story now....cool.

Ah ok, my apoligies if I sounded crude.

And yeah, what he did was not normal, but going along with it, while probably not healthy, is understandable if you have an otherwise stable and stong bond.

its like when you know something's bad,.. if it werent you and you were observing someone else doing the same thing you r... you would be like omfg, you know, like "What the hell is she doing?!" but its just so hard when its actually you. even though you know you shouldnt be continuing it, you keep doing it, keep going back for more! as fucked as it is i cant help it. its obviously not the sex that makes me keep going back for more. its him, his personality, our friendship :( i just dont know what to do. well i know what i SHOULD do , but i cant!!!! thx for trying to understand that i am not bullshitting you. i have better things to do with my time , like try to figure out whats wrong with some people and what i should do with my own life !!
:)

So many people do things just for the shear excitement and because it is like okay it's forbidden so this will be exciting!

Does that make it right...that's your decision!

on the first sexual encounter though! lol i mean wtf???? most people i thought, even if they did have some sick love of anal sex, wouldnt dare try it the first time. and do it unsolicited!
im not so much asking whether its right, im pretty sure its not lol, but moreso wanted clarification that its not normal. does this person sound like a prick to you? all this evidence is layed out right in front of me that tells me to fuck him off but i cant bring myself to do it. we should never have been more than friends, hmmm :/ ahh ive brought it all on myself.
thanks for your help kristina. unlike others who write childish comments u actually gave me some advice so thanks

thanks,. its comments like this i appreciate. i am trying my hardest to cut ties but its hard, he is a family friend, and was like a best mate to me. :( thats why i think sleeping with someone fucks everything. i look at him now and wish it had never happened :/ i dont like being used :(

Well you got a variety of answers to your question. I think that stargirl....the real one has the simple and most honest answer.

You are no ones posession. You have a right to say no.

I hope you learned from the answers you got... even the ones that act like idiots when they responded.

Looks like I am a litle late answering this but I think a guy like that has some serious issues and I would avoid him.

Woman aren't anyones property.

I have noticed more and more that it is like guys think just because they take some one out the girl is suppoesed to put out. Where is the old fashion fall in love first gone?

exactly. when i see him he does the deed, life goes on as if i mean nothing.
more fool me!

he must be a gentleman, i would have shoved my cock in your mouth

oompa loompa

whats that supposed to mean

Evidently he is trying to say you are fat. Like the oompa loompas on "The Wizard of Oz"

So are you still with this dude?

My opinion, strictly: Anal sex seems to be for two groups of people: some gays and heterosexuals with control issues. Myself, I find buttercourse to be quite unsanitary. I do not recommend it, no matter how much lube is on hand. An enema would actually be preferable because at least it would just be between you and the enema bag and you wouldn't have any concerns about pleasing it. (Argh; the things I have to read here ;-)