abortion is WRONG

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I think I disagree with you on that. whilst I can't imagine advising any of my friends to do it, I don't feel I have the right to force people to go through a nine month pregnancy for a baby they don't want. and also, i don't think women who have an abortion should be stigamtised the way they frequently are, often they'll already feel bad so there's no sense in compounding it. I don't think a foetus is the same as a baby, so I wouldn't count it as murder.
however, yours is a very common point of view, particularly where i live (it's illegal here unless a woman's life is threatened, as far as i know). if you want to make contact with peple who share the same perspective, you could probably just google pro-life and something should come up.

There is nothing wrong with abortion its just like stomping on a chickens egg

This is a moral issue, and depending on your religious beliefs equals your opinion on abortion. It could also be that you are not religious but believe that man is the most important, hence a humanistic point of view. Either way you shouldn't hate anybody for the choices wrong or right they make in my opinion.

I think abortion is murder. The surgical process of abortion is really gross and very sad, and I couldn't imagine ever going through that. I have had a friend explain it to me, and she basically told me that It was the worst thing she has ever done in her life, and that the process is very painful, emotionally and physically.

I think it is legal to take the abortion pill which when taken almost seems like you are just having a natural miscarriage, but even they can be very painful.

You shouldn't judge girls who get pregnant at a very young age. The teenage mind is not fully developed yet and parents and the school system do not take the necessary time to adequately prepare teens to have "safe sex" Parents don't even want to think of their children having sex, and schools just pass out condoms for the most part, if even that.

I got pregnant at 19 and it was very hard and very scary. My mom died when I was 15 and I had nobody really, except for an overly religious dad who didn't really want anything to do with it. I was scared and I was alone, but I believed abortion or adoption would not be an option for me because I felt I wouldn't be able to live with myself. I have a son and at 22 years old I get told by people that I am too young to have a child. I don't get that because they don't even know how old my son is. What is he was just born? 22 seems like a ideal age to become a parent to me, but I guess women have to go out and get a career or something, and have a baby at 35. Well I say not I!

I'm glad I'm a mom, and I think instead of judging those who are pregnant or a young mother that may be you should try to help them and encourage them. You never know unless you are abstinate it may very well happen to you, because I never thought it would happen to me, or that I would be be like "them"

There are no babies being murdered during abortion. Its a fetus.

ITS STILL A BABY YOU DUMB BITCH
ima start getting some addresses and beat the fuck out you hoes ...

see who likes to get chopped up then bitch !!!

It is still a life even if it a fetus, it still has a soul and does FEEL PAIN!!!!!

I agree that abortion is murder, the way I see it really is there isn't much difference in having an abortion and having the child then shooting it in the head.

My school doesn't hand out condoms,I guess they think that it won't send a strong abstinence message, but neither does saying "18th birthday, she's finally legal!!!" which my school does doesn't send an abstinence message either so... I don't know, I guess they just don't want to give us them, the over religious parents would get all pissy and get the god squad on the schools ass.

I don't judge people who get pregnant as a teenager, my mum got pregnant when she was 16, then her boyfriend left her straight after, my bro never wanted to learn who his real father was, when he was younger my mum said to him "I still have his contact info, I can call him up and you can meet your real dad if you want" and he said "NO my dad is the same as my brothers, maybe not biologically, but my real dad left when I wasn't even born then dad started to raise me when you two weren't even married, I don't care about meeting someone who never wanted to be part of my life to begin with"
I do not judge teens who get pregnant, but I do judge them if they get an abortion UNLESS there is a special reason for it.

I am not necessarily against stem cell research though, if you are going to have an abortion then I think you should put the fetus towards stem cell research.

i kill babies. How do you feel now?

your childish shut up

I feel it depends on the situation. As child birth can have many complications i wouldn't want to see a 13 year old rape victim go through pregnancy and be reminded everyday by the growing life inside her the horror she went through.

i was simply asking a fucking question how am i wrong for saying what i think is right or wrong i think everyone has their own opinon and i have mine i think its horrible that women get abrotions even up until their 3rd trimester

thats fucking twisted

you people are just simply pathetic

your so retarded okay with you foolish insults ... if im the skank why am i married your the one who prolly is a whore here ... and my name is poopie bc my niece you dumb ass hoe ... take what ...? you really think that hurt talking shit on a computer ?? and your name ?? LOTS OF JUNK?? your name suits you well ...
this is why i hate lil bitches who act so much more better than everyone you will never amount to any thing .... but spreading your legs as a career

i will say i do not agree with abortions, but you sometimes have to see it from another persons point of veiw.
if the pregnant person simply couldnt afford to bring up the baby then maybe its for the best,
or maybe they were a victim of rape and got pregnant?
or maybe too young?
personally i wouldnt have an abortion but i take other peoples reasons into account before judging their choice.

hmmm

too young? the only ages that that excuse shuld work is 13 and under.

Too little money could work, if they are struggling as it is to get the necessities, if they weer struggling to get that $1000 dollar dress that just looks oh so cute then it's not a good reason.

Rape victim would be acceptable.

Your right, sometimes, in extreme circumstances, it is best to have an abortion, but there will always be those that do it for one reason "I don't want a baby". And that reason is just sick, I don't really see much of a difference between and abortion and having the baby then immediately grabbing a shotgun and shooting it's head off. except the first one is acceptable in some extreme cases.

i do see where your coming from,
if people are mature enough to have sex, they are mature enough to have a baby.

yet people who don't want a baby shouldn't be stupid enough to have unprotected sex.

I agree with the poster entirely. A baby should not have to pay for it's mother's irresponsibility. If they waited until marriage as they should, there wouldn't be a problem.

some people who are married still get pregnant and don't want the baby.

your wrong to hate them. plain and simple, here it is, from a person you may know: Love the sinner, hate the sin.

I believe in people being able to make their own choices. If someone is not able to take care of a baby then they should'nt be forced to. Not only that but the foster care system is way overcrowded.

see i think its the situation the woman is in.... for instance what if a girl was raped and she got pregnant and if she kept it every time she looks at the kid she remebers what happens.... there i think its ok but if a girl is just being stupid and sleeping around unprotected then she should keep the kid since she has no good reason to have a abortion

Not really worth saying much here.
This is one of the biggest arguments of this day and age.
I'm in favour of woman having the choice. But what I object to is people not giving two hoots about it. It should be a taboo.

I just came back from a pro-life rally... it's so fun fucking with those people... they get so easily worked up.

To be honest, I don't think making abortion illegal will change much... except make the conditions in which women have abortions even worse. That being said, making abortions illegal would only cause more damage to women their unborn children. Look at it this way - in a hospital, things are sanitized, the woman is under anesthesia, and there is a SURGEON. When abortion is illegal, women still need to have them! Instead of going to hospitals, they go to clinics where the people there are barely educated in surgery, the tools are not clean, and the woman is awake and aware for the whole procedure! This would endanger not ONLY the child, but the mother as well...

While I don't like abortions, making them illegal is not the solution to ending them.

Abortion is surely the biggest moral question we face - along with war. Yet we have two loud-mouthed opposing parties shrieking furiously at each other from deep-dug positions that they don't intend to abandon. They produce more heat than light.
The worry for me is the unscientific view of the pros - stamping on a chicken's egg? Have you never seen the film of the child in the womb? It's alive and just like us. Much of what you are and will be all your life is already determined from the money the sperm meets the egg. Yet, like the man who bombs from the air, kills children and says he did it to protect his country, you will kill a child and then say it was only a few cells?
I'm not pro and I'm not anti. It's too big for any of us to decide quickly. But at least, know what you're doing - you are ending a child's life. And you don't need to have any religion at all to know the child is not the property of its mother. Quote Gibran "Your children are not your children. They are the sons and daughters of Life's longing for itself". Poetry and sound science too.

I say if you haven't been through the situation you can't judge it. You don't know what that person feels and Im sure most of you who are judging this topic has never been through it. And hate is a really strong word. Hating someone is just like wishing someone was dead. And you are talking about murder? hmm. Lets think a little about this.

Abortion is a choice, and always will be, you cannot change it, you will not change it.
The reason we legalize abortion is so that small mommy's don't leave babies in trash cans or go fiddling around in their cervix at home with wire hangars. These mommy's are desperate and history must always be taken into accord, they will find a way without a doctor.
So Wakey Wakey to the new world, this century we are smarter, so you are either on the boat or you are not, and for the person that is not capable of unconditional love, u will pay for it by living in your own corpuscle and forever tortured by other peoples choices.

I'm pretty sure the fetuses (Or is it feti?) don't feel any pain or emotions during an abortion. And come on, would you rather the child be forced to live with some kind of defect, and raised in a trashy home with terrible parents who can't support a family? In my opinion, I'd rather pull the plug on the little guy instead of have him grow up in horrible conditions and suffer. That's just my view on it all.

i absolutely disagree, i mean let's say you were raped or something at 15! you got pregnant and you know that your not ready to have a child, i say keep your nose out of everyon'e buisness

I don't necessarily like abortion, but I think it is cruel to force a 11 or 12 year old rape victim go through a 9 month pregnancy and then the pain of childbirth. She didn't even mean to have sex. Honestly, how would you feel if you were carrying a little person in your womb and you didn't even do anything to deserve it? You gotta worry about the kid inside you, give birth...it's insane.

so you're against abortion but you're willing to beat the shit out of people who oppose your point of view, Hypocrite?...you're just like hitler or a christian.

well i guess I know where you stand on Roe v. Wade...

I agree with HowardMoon. you are a hypocrite.
and my opinion, Abortion is a woman's choice. don't judge cause you don't know what its like till your put in the situation.
i hate people like you.

i agree it is killing a little baby, BUT there are women who get raped EVERYDAY and they dont want the seed of their rapist too live inside of them. i bet if you were raped, you would feel the same way.

Its a fetus. Not a baby. No soul.


sigh... im going to hell.

i understand where yur comin from, i've cut off friends and girl friends for gettin abortions.
it jsut depends if yur a caring person. im like a very selfish person not gonna lie but that's one thing where i would put something (the baby) before myself.

if yur gonna go around fukin without condoms yu should be ready to have kids.
point.blank.period.

Personally I think its better to abort than to bring a baby into the world and end up treating it badly because you resent what your life could have been without it.

ok im against abortions cause even if its rape the baby didnt ask for them to do it it just came in the picture because theres alot of women tht want kids and cant have them so i day let the baby live and give it up for adoption to someone who cant get pregnant and have one of there own cause all kids have the right to be born and be loved an women who can get pregnant could give thm the love they need an i no this from fact because my cousin cant ave kids an she would do anyting to get a newborn to raise an love like her own even pay the birth mother to let her have it so please just give the babies life and if u cant love thm because of reasons give someone else the chance

It's your opinion, but I don't agree at all.

In some ways, it's best. If the girl/woman isn't ready to be a mother, I think she should have an abortion, or at least have it adopted. Because if she attempts to raise this baby when she's not capable of it, this child will probably have a miserable life.

It's the same as animals being put to sleep it's stopping them suffering.

The only cases where it's wrong is if the woman just can't be bothered, or she's forced in to it.

If you cannot cope with a baby, then why bring it into the world where they are likely to suffer psychologically or emotionally? That is just as bad as 'murdering' a baby.

I think abortion is wrong when the baby starts developing human like features, but when it's just a bunch of cells, or at the really early stages then abortion is OK, as long as it is not done for selfish reason's like career although you are already at a stage where you can finacially bring up a child.

there is a reason for a woman to get her baby terminated.
she doesn't just think, "oh fuck this i'll kill it".

is it wrong for a woman to terminate a baby when she has been raped and as a result, got pregnant?
is it wrong for a woman to terminate her pregnancy if she can't physically or mentally look after the baby?

this also sparks the debate about when a life is considered a life, when it's a foetus? when it's born? when the sperm and egg first meet?

but scientifically, we are all just a 'bunch of cells'
i agree with you though

I disagree w/ the ppl who use rape as an excuse. U culd always give ur child up for adoption, and even tho u may not WANT or LIKE tht child, it still is YOUR CHILD, and it may come out with deformities or a disability but you never kno tht for sure, there is also a chance tht tht child culd go very far in life and be successful, u jus never kno so therefore, i believe tht in any case, abortion is still wrong.

abortions are really sad, and i don't think a woman should ever feel like she HAS to get one, but they are a fact of life. if you hate abortions you should support sex-ed in school. if women use protection they won't need abortions later.

well i think your wrong a bit because you dont know everybodys situation,i dont agree with abortion but i wouldnt hate the person or be horrible to them!its there choice and there baby there not taking your baby away so dont be so horrible to them!

Picture this a young women with her whole entire life ahad of her. She gets raped buy her ex, or some rndom guy in the street. She sure enough, gets pregnant. Would YOU want to keep your attacker's little offspring?? I thin not. And btw, before the "fetus" is 3 months old, old he/she/it is is just some potential tissue, GENIOUS!

of course its wrong to hate women that get abortions. Abortions are a beautifal thing and should always be legal. Pro abortion

Abortion IS killing. People apparently are okay with that these days.

I concure. >.< It's sad, isn't it?

-concur.. wrong spelling.

I agree with the author of this post, abortions are wrong.

It is killing something that is innocent and helpless. Every living thing should have rights, and I believe that the mother should take responsibility for her actions.

We all know contraceptives aren't 100% so if you want to have sex you should accept that pregnancy is a potential outcome and accept the consequences if you do become pregnant.

Also I don't think everyone knows exactly how it works or the types of things that go on, as the baby often comes out alive, even looking like a baby with little arms and legs, and is killed in a shocking and inhumane way.

Many women do go through with having abortions but they never recover from it psychologically and regret it for the rest of their lives.

I think you are being really really extreme. I doubt any seeking an abortion feel it is OK. They feel it is necessary. And that is their choice about their bodies.

You could be a lot more compassionate about other people. What if you ever find yourself with an unplanned/unwanted pregnancy?

LOL will you go on a mission to save the poor little babies?


Oh boo hoo.


Anyway this is an extremely moral issue which will never be resolved because ignorant terrorists like you insist on shoving your own beliefs down other people's throats.

Settle.

At the point of a legal abortion, the foetus does not have developed nerves. This rids the foetus of the "pain". After 6 months, the baby develops proper nervous system. This is why it is illegal to have an abortion after 6 months.

Unfortunately, this is a moral issue. I am not against it, and I am not for it.

don't think you r the only one hate abortions but there loads of people around the world who hate this


killing of baby is very punishable offence

What I don't understand, is the fact that people get so worked up over a baby's death, but not the hundreds murders and bombings and killings going on in our world today.
You're fine with killing a baby, but you're willing to let innocent people (mothers, children) in Iraq, not to mention your own soldiers, die?
That's just my standpoint. Everyone is distracted by a pregnant teen and forget the fact that people who are already born and living are being cut from their lives because of ignorant, selfish assholes. And no one gives a shit.

Personally, if you were raped, you have every right to have an abortion. If there's medical complications, and you're DYING or going to die if you don't rid yourself of the baby, you have every right to have an abortion. Too young? Yes, you still have the right. Even if it was a poor decision. Not enough money? Of course.

BUT if you're just a woman sleeping around without contraception of any kind, you are a fucking moron. I still think it's their choice, but immorally it's wrong. Especially if your supposed "hubby" or boyfriend deserts you.
And the whole sex after marriage thing? People get divorced. Suddenly getting married doesn't magically mean you stay that way. Things happen.
For fuck sake, use a condom. Don't get pregnant in the first place. Don't be an idiot.

I would have liked to have had stem cell research go through, some people don't want to have children. They can have them when they want them, but people who are born in a wheelchair and to have every day be like that since the day he/she was born. If your worried about potential lives, don't worry. You've killed thousands the day you were born.

I think its ironic that most people who are against abortion are for the death penalty. Its a fact, look it up so what? Supposed murder is only best with a fine aged victim? Have any of you ever heard of a word called hypocrisy? What if adolf hitlers mother had an abortion? Osama bin ladins mom had an abortion? What do you pro life people have to say about that? Would yall go back in time and stop their mothers from doing it? 100 percent of mothers who have abortions don't have kids who suffer from poverty, or children who grow up to be murders and rapist

abortion is wrong and everyone knowz it! every one deserves the choice to live. seriously, if u wer asked to live, u wud choose(obviously) to live. so its the same with unborn babies! go google abortion pics and mabie that will change ur mind! go piss on urself!

You have to understand that women who get abortions do so because they have not learned that it is wrong. They are victims of modern ideology. You should pity, not hate, them.

It depends on how far along the pregnancy is. That's what makes it wrong or not. Aborting a pregnancy within the first month or two is fine. It's still pretty much microscopic goo. If it's a full blown fetus with human features and everything, then I would say it's a little too late to be considering abortion. There is a dead line by law also. A woman 6 months pregnant can't just walk in to a clinic and say, "ream me out doc." It doesn't work that way. Technically, the morning after pill would be abortion would it not? Personally, I would rather see a person get an abortion then to see them not take care of the child or have the kid end up being a ward of the state till they're 18. Hey, at least they're alive right? Most girls get abortions because they know they wouldn't be able to care for the child. Also, what about rape? Do you guys honestly expect a rape victim to carry and give birth to a rapists baby? Would they be "wrong" to get an abortion? Here's another one: What if the parents knew that the child would be born with some kind of horrible debilitating illness that would cause nothing but pain and misery to the child until they die at a very young age? Would it still be "wrong"? I'm sick and tired of people judging others before they know exactly what the motivation is behind some one's choice. If you looked a little deeper into it, you find that they are not so evil or "wrong" as some believe.

So, they are doing something that is intensely private, something they have thought about for a long time, something that may be necessary to their health or the health of the baby--and you hate them for it. You know nothing of their situation. Your opinion is ignorant.

I hate people who rape babies, mutilate young girls' genitalia (as they do in some parts of Africa), and sexually torture people. I DO NOT hate women who are forced to the heartbreaking decision of getting an abortion.

Do you realize how many things can go wrong during a pregnancy? Do you realize that so many of the more devestating birth defects (like Potter syndrome) are only visible via ultrasound later in the pregancy?

Did you know there is no such thing as post abortion syndrome--but that post adoption syndrome is a common problem?

Besides, the God of the Bible was the biggest abortionist this world has ever seen: he ordered genocides of entire nations, pregnant women to be split open, and infants dashed upon rocks. During the Flood, how many babies or pregnant women do you think he killed then?

No I don't think abortions are wrong. why do you think it's wrong?

I hate those same women who had abortions who attack my mother because she chose to keep all of her children. I've seen these same women literally want to physically fight her because of this gruesome choice they made for themselves. No one is forced to have an abortion. Post abortion syndrome does exist, hence there wouldn't be sites dedicated to women looking for refuge from their own conscience. Women are now using it as a form of birth control and will use any excuse to justify their wrongdoings. If a woman gets a botched abortion do you think many people will feel sorry for her? God has the right to do what he please as it it his land whether you believe it or not.

I got pregnant at age 16 from a loser boyfriend. Thankfully, as soon I told my mother, she made an appt for me to get an abortion. I'm sure it was the hardest thing she ever had to deal with in her entire life but it was the best thing she could've ever done for me! I am now 38, a college graduate, I have 2 beautiful children and the best husband in the world. I never regretted it!

I gotta say that you shouldn't hate anyone. I don't like the idea of abortion, but it's every woman's choice. We all have our reasons. I found out that my little sisters best friend has had at least 3. That truly pisses me off to know that someone uses it as a birth control method, especially when me, myself and I possibly can't have kids. Don't hate them. Hopefully they already feel bad enough about the choice they have made.

Like you need to get a life and stop trying to think like you are funny.

I pretty much agree. Not just because I'm a Catholic but because in reality, you are murdering someone. I mean, I can understand the emotional and mental distress having a baby you just don't want can cause, but do you think killing it to benefit you is the best idea? I myself would say go tell your parents you did it and you got pregnant and then deliever the baby, then perhaps give it up for adoption so it can be a normal child and have a life (and life isn't always the greatest I admit) instead of dying. I think teen parents (and yes I'm a teen myself but not a parent) don't really have any idea what exactly to do with a baby. Other than the fact they think it'll keep the couple together, which it doesn't. Just shoot for the adoption plan and maybe wait awhile for sex until your married or if you MUST, try safer sex.

"is it normal to hate girls who get abortions??
there is so many people out there who thinks its okay to kill babys and i think ITS JUST SICK AND WRONG ... CAN I GET SOME COMMENTS ON THIS PLEASE I FEEL LIKE IM THE ONLY ONE WHO CARES BOUT LITTLE CHILDREN BEING MURDERED IS WRONG"

I think it's perfectly excusable to hate a girl for 'murdering' their child, if life was a Walt Disney picture book where these evil, selfish bad guys, the moms-who-don't-want-to-be-moms, kill their children.

If you hate a woman who had an abortion, you have missed the point. I am not even going to explain to you why. If you can't think that up yourself, you're not worth having a conversation with. Sorry.

And if you think I have an attitude about me, may I remind you of the fact at least 67% (2 in 3 people) thought your post was not normal.

Abortion is a RIGHT. Women have a RIGHT to protect their bodies and their lifes from unwanted pregnancies. Every civilized country in the world has abortion laws protecting women AND unborn children.

People have had adortions since the dawn of man it is just another population control device like homosexuality and war.
It seems you cant get you head around the fact that people die, its completely normal.
There are just to many people in the world and many need not be born.

Ok, so if I live in a rundown area, with criminals around every corner, and had no income or security, you think I should raise a child in those conditions? Yeah getting an abortion should be a last choice, with birth control & condoms & pulling out, But people living in these conditions cant provide their child with a good environment to grow up in. These are the cases in which the child will die AFTER BIRTH, or could become a drug dealer, or worse.

I don't understand how people call abortion doctors murderers, and then attack and kill them. The whole pro-life movement is a bunch of b.s. Yeah a fetus is a living cell, but by that logic so is a genital wart. This whole topic is so skewed and backwards. I'm sure Americans have agreed that the youth of America is ruined but then we are promoting more of these so called "stealing, drug-doing, loud rap music, irresponsible, and bad influence children to be born?

Sure it is easy to say that you believe that life is a God given right. But you are not the one to take care of the kid, or to give birth to it, and lose all your hopes and dreams, & not to mention physical attractiveness.

*applaud*

if abortions were illegal, then how many women would tell their boyfriends to push them down the stairs, or stick a metal coat hanger up them like the "good ol' days"? Which would....result in the DEATHS of people who where ALREADY ALIVEEE

What if a famale got rapped at the age of 15, 16, 17 etc...? do you think its is fair for her to give up her education and the rest of her life...?

Do you have any vivid memories of being a fetus? Would you really want to grow up with a mother that doesn't want you? That can't take care of you or finance your needs? I think of it as condemning the future child to a horrible life. Do you have a child? Do you know what it's like to care for an infant? I'm going to go out on a limb here and guess you are religious. Like the late George Carlin said, if you care so much about the sanctity of life, why do you believe in a religion that has been killing millions with it's "holy crusades"? If you are not religious, excuse my rant I apologize. But a lot of people have your beliefs and are fanatical about it so don't feel left out.

Maybe if we stopped idolizing men who are sexually irresponsibility we would have less unwanted babies. %u201CUnwanted babies%u201D should be an oxymoron. Men who are sexually irresponsibility are morons.

exactly what i think and if they cant, well then theres alls sorts of people that want a lil one, that is if they could get around all that adotion red tape bull..

It is normal. I'm pretty sure there's a bunch of people who agree.
I find it okay IF it's an accident or the chick got raped.
But, if it's because you weren't careful or just plain dumb enough to not use a condom then, it is wrong.
Obviously it's not baby's fault.

We just have too many hypocrites in this world.
The same people who are against teaching about birth control and only want abstinence taught in our schools, are the ones who want abortion banned. They also want it to be illegal for gays to get married and/or adopt. This is despite the fact that gay marriages have a tendency to last much longer than "traditional" straight marriages. Gay parents can love and provide for a child just as well as straight ones. Those are also the same people who don't believe in welfare because no one should get a "free meal". So the women who were raped and now must support a life because they didn't get an abortion and cannot find a job in this shitty economy also may not get assistance for their healthcare and that of their child...just cause Joe the plumber doesn't wanna share his hard earned money.

Also a lot of the people who are against abortion are war supporters. So its not ok to kill a fetus because you claim it has a "soul" even though it cannot physically survive on its own. But it is ok to go bomb a city of innocent women and children because their fathers/husband w/e have done something to upset you.

So if a completely undeveloped fetus has a soul does that mean a sperm and an egg have a soul. Do embryos have souls?

I had one, do you hate me? True, I was unmarried and having sex. I was in my early 20s. I was not in a good relationship. My boyfriend was suicidal, unbeknownst to all of us and paranoid. He poked holes in our condoms. I was impregnated against my will. When I told him I was pregnant, and asked how this could have happened, that's when the truth came out. He said he did it because he thought if I had a child I'd never leave him. I told him I didn't want it, and I was going to get it taken care of. So I did. And I left him, and got an IUD. No more pregnancies for me. I don't think it's immoral to have sex before marriage. I'm not particularly religious, and so I don't feel like I should be subjected to others' morality laws. Not a day passes that I regret my decision.

I knew someone who hated girls who got abortions until she had to make the decision to get one. Abortion is a very difficult decision to make. It's life changing and will affect you forever. I think abortion is an absolute last option, and is definitely NOT a method of birth control.

poopie stain calm down it's not your business in the first place

Well, you can hate the action, but you should probably know the circumstances behind it first before actually hating the person...

My great great aunt was whored out by my great great granpda, and he forced her to have an abortion when she was seven months pregnant. She was gonna keep the kid. Situations are different. Learn the facts first.

Yeah abortion is pretty messed up. A baby is something to celebrate about. This isn't fucking China.

dude, poopie, calm down.

I find its wrong to expose children to pictures of mutilated babies in order to condition them into believing in all of the teachings of a church, that jesus loves everyone except for people that aren't the same as you, and that you should always blindly follow everyone and everything you're told. I find its really annoying to have preachy brainwashed zealot bitches all over the internet and media. I mean we know you're annoying and clearly brainwashed but do you have to be a bunch of attention-whores about it. can't you just take your own lives or be homeless like normal crazy people.

Like it or not, abortion is essentially murder. My brother got his girlfriend pregnant and my parents were really upset. They asked that the girl got an abortion. When my dad asked me about it, I said we should never have an abortion. I could never live with recommending to my dad that we kill my niece. My niece is now 4 years old and we all love her to death.

But on the other hand, who are we to dictate what a mother should and should not do? It is her body and her child in that womb and ultimately she has to take accountability for it. Abortion may be murder, but so is the death sentence! And don't come and tell me all that he's-a-bad-man-so-he-must-die nonsense, sancity of life means sanctity of life, there can be no double standards.

Here's a brain teaser for you Christians who believe abortion is wrong and you need to run everyone's life:

A woman wants to have an abortion, but wait! The conservative vote made it illegal! So she gives birth to a baby she didn't want and hated the child for it. She beat the child every day until he was 14 and old enough to run away. He was taken into the foster system, and the family he was placed with was only a little better. He grew up in that home killing animals he caught just for the sheer joy of it for 4 years. When he was 18, he moved out. In New York City, he kidnapped women who reminded him of his mother and he killed them in his home. He killed 10 people in 3 months before he was caught and sentenced to death by lethal injection. In 18 years, he took 10 lives and shattered countless others by leaving children to grow up motherless.


Would it have been better if he had been aborted, so none of his would've happened? Or do you still believe abortion is wrong in every single scenario?

FOR ALL THE DUMB CHINKS HERE WHO THINK THAT FETUS' FEEL PAIN - THEY DONT.
AT THE STAGES OF PREGANANCY YOU CAN RECIEVE AN ABORTION THE BABY WILL NOT HAVE DEVELOPED A SPINAL CHORD OR A FULL NERVOUS SYSTEM.

AS ANOTHER USER STATED BEFORE ME - ITS LIKE STOMPING ON A CHICKEN EGG.

I THINK WOMEN SHOULD BE ABLE TO CHOOSE WITHOUT QUESTION.
I ALSO FIND IT SAD TO SEE WHAT A REPRESSIVE WORLD WE LIVE IN.

i think it is both wrong and right, if you have been raped and falling pregnant from it then yes post natal depression depression is a killer and if the woman is already hating the baby it mite carry on after it is born, also young girl getting pregnant if they dnt want it because they feel they can not give it a good life then yes. its not just about the unborn baby its about the mother to if she cant handle it at all then that babys gonna have a bad life like so many babys that a born unwanted.

I've already comented but I think that women should have a choice. I though that abortion was evil but you cannot judge until you are in the situation.
I came to an almost pregnant situation and the first thing on my mind was ABORTION. Reasons being:
I cannot cope with a child
I am not in a stable relationship
I have no money
I havent finished my education
Too young
Still living off my mum
Still selfish as a young person
No job or proper qualifications for a well paid job

Why bring up a child in an environment that will make it wish it was never born? Mummy is out ALL day trying to get money and daddy's gone. Is that really what you want for a child? or would you rather wait till you are physically, emotionally and mentally able to have a child.

Abortions have been going on ever since ancient greece (as far as we know) and probably before, by either physical trauma to the uterus to cause a miscarriage or using herbs to cause the fetus to die, so if youre saying youre against abortions, youre saying youre against a family member basically because if theyve been going on that long, someone in your chain of family members dating back to ancient greece has certainly had one, people need to wake up and realize theres nothing they can do about abortions, its someones personal choice, you care so much about them getting an abortion but yet you dont do anything about the thousands upon thousands of kids sitting in american orphanages... why not redirect your cause to help them? Just as much as you cant stop someone from getting plastic surgery because its their choice, you cant stop someone from getting an abortion because like it or not its their choice. Many times people choose an abortion for the right reasons and if you "political activists" want abortions to be illegal, then people are still going to get them, they will just get them in mexico or in an alley the old fashioned way with a hanger i mean honestly wouldnt you rather them get it safely done so when theyre ready to reproduce they can? And again touching on the point of orphanages, so many people are ready to look outward to adopt like china and africa, yeah the kids have it bad there but the kids here have it just as bad and noone seems to care about them, maybe thats the problem with the united states we're always so eager to help other countries that we forget about our own, so take my message to heart, your cause is noble but is going unheard, redirect it to helping children in the united states who are in need

I don't think theres an answer to this question, I agree with what most people are saying... while I don't agree with it it shouldn't be illegal either. That would solve nothing and make stuff worse. That being said, theres also the opposite problem of people having too many children and over population of the planet ... look at octomom, that bi`tch disgusts me i swear. so i dunno, just some food for thought i guess.

Abortion is wrong. Instead of killing a child, you can send the kid to an adoption center and hope the child will be raised by loving foster parents. I also despise those who abort future generations because they ( as in the baby) could have been a future Einstein. I wish every human being can experience happiness for once.

If you don't like abortion don't it.

It is evil but not uncommon. You are very right to hate it, it IS murder.

I believe abortion is murder but I can't judge what a person's motive was. Honestly I think its better that the woman abort the child than kill it later like a lot of young mothers have started to do. Just like that nasty Anthony lady in Florida.

I don't believe Poopy intended to ask a question -- she only sought to have her opinion validated. I find her to be a judgmental hate-monger. I'm proud to live in a country that supports individual decisions in many ways. Like one poster above, I have to agree that those who are against abortion don't seem to get riled up about the death penalty or the millions killed each day around the world -- let alone the thousands of Americans killed in Iraq which had nothing to do with the war on terrorism.

Several posters above have suggested putting kids into adoption, you know what thats great. but noones going to adopt them, whenever someone wants to adopt a baby they always get one from china or africa, yeah those kids have it bad but what about kids who sit in orphanages here their whole life until theyre old enough to be emancipated youths? I love america but thats the one problem here, we never help our own we always look outward and thats great and all that we want to help everyone but what has that gotten us? Everyone in the world hates us for god only knows what even though we have helped every country out there substantially. But back to abortion, i love to live in a country where i have the freedom to choose and abortion should be a choice for women because what if someone gets their girlfriend pregnant and they arent financially stable enough to support a child are they going to bring it into poverty and have it be starved all its life? Please antiabortionists i know you have a lot of drive but redirect it to helping children in our orphanages, theyre the ones who need the most help, theyre just children who have never had or known a family...

that is sooooooooooooooooooooo trueee eveery body should read that!!!!!

I take precautions against pregnancy, but if an accident ever were to happen, I would be rushing off to the abortion clinic the very next day.

If you dont like abortions, dont get one. It may be better not to get involved with those who are pro choice either if you have such a strong opinion of it.

Another thing to keep in mind, the less babies that are brought into this world, the less stupid people there are to put up with.

You are not the only one who hates abortion. You shouldn't hate the girls who get abortions, but you can hate their actions.

isnt saying abortion is wrong like saying using a condom is wrong?

think about it, when a guy cums and instead of the sperm going in you and becoming a fetus and the sperm dies doesnt that mean youve killed millions of future babies? like fetuses

dont get all crazy *cough*(pooky)*cough*

just think about it

Abortion is not "right" or "wrong".

It is a decision made by humans and doesn't need to be judged by people who don't understand that their opinions aren't more valuable than the opinion of any other human.

Briefly explain your biased attack on abortion. Why is it "wrong"? Morality is in the eye of the beholder and has no true answer. Morality's truth changes depending on what culture you follow.

One "wrong" can be a "right" for another person. Who are you to judge? You're just another oxygen breathing organism just like everyone else. Get off of your high horse and come back to reality.

hey i totally agree i think that abortions are wrong i mean how would you like it if someone (1)chopped your head off (2)poison you to you suffercate or (3) just kill you i peroonally believe that if you are grown enough to have sex you should be grown enough to take care of a baby

i'm at the opposite end of the spectrum and am petitioning to legalize 3rd trimester abotions..

What's WRONG is people like YOU telling other people how to live THEIR lives.

Definition of a Parasite:
An animal or plant that lives in or on a host (another animal or plant); it obtains nourishment from the host without benefiting or killing the host.

I am not opposed to the destruction of a parasite that later becomes a virus destroying the earth.

But your not abnormal for thinking that killing babies is wrong, I totally understand where your comming from. After all you were once a little parasite too. =)

If a guy and a girl had sex with no protection, its their own fault, so anything bad that happens to them is deserved for a life lesson. Of course, if it was a rape or whatever, then yeah, its okay. I certainly would not want to keep a rape baby. And as mean as it sounds, I dont really give a crap if people have abortions. Because, its not going to stop, and if its not abortion, its some other way that a person is dying. Theres many things in this world that lead to "death" and that are wrong. But they aren't going to go away, so deal with it. This is how life is so, get over it. if you dont like it, i understand but realize that its NOT going to change. EVER.

It's a personal belief. I believe that every woman should have the RIGHT to choose, but many women do it in a way I don't approve of. Using abortion as a form of birth control is disgusting. Having to have one because you were too stupid to use protection? Disgusting. Having an abortion because you were raped or changed your mind? That's different. I personally would never get one, but it should be a woman's (AND HER PARTNER'S, PEOPLE FORGET ABOUT THE FATHER!!) choice.

I really, really, REALLY hope you never decide to reproduce. "More better" this one says. I'm beside myself.

I find it unfair, abortion, taking a life away but...

I can't stop people from getting abortions. I would make exceptions if they were too young, or were ill in some way. If they had too many children already or were young, scared and alone.

I, myself, wouldn't do it. But some people have different opinions on these things

It's the American way to give everyone a choice. And you shouldn't hate someone just because they did something you don't support.
Every American should have this as their personal motto:

"While I do not agree with what you say I will fight to the death for your right to say it."

You should learn to be more tolerant. It's not like it ever remembered anything. For all it knows, it never existed.

I need to be completely honest here.


I wish I had my autistic son aborted.


With that being said, I feel bad for saying that but he cannot even function as a child now and he sure in hell will be a dependant his whole life. I feel bad every time I look at him and realise if I did something wrong.

Sure, he does bring some joy to my day but often its sorrow and doubt upon his life. He will never understand love or hard work, he will always not know basic stuff and I feel truly bad for him.

I do love him but I often wonder if it would have been better to just not have him. Sure, he wouldn't exist and I would feel bad for that, however at least maybe he would get a fresh start if your religious or to simply not exist if your not. I often wonder if that would have been better.

Also, I live in Salem, Oregon and I would be more than happy to give you an address. However, the question is judging by your attitude, perhaps your parents should have aborted you?

NORMAL... I LOVE BABIES

That last comment is fantastic. I used to live in Bend!

This is all religion speaking. Its like my ex boyfriend dumping me when I told him how I was raped at 16 by 4 men and had an abortion. He said I was a murderer and Jesus died for us and blah blah. So I said GOOD RIDDANCE!

Yes, to the original post...

It is HARMFUL for you to HATE. This is why we cannot all live in peace, this is why bad things happen, this is why religion is bad, this is why you SHOULD BE A VIRGIN FOREVER and keep your stupid sacred fruit.

You lack compassion. You lack intelligence. I pray that all of you are children and that is the answer for all this ignorance.

If I had the compacity, I'd hate you for saying you hate me.

BUT I think if you're intelligent enough to make a good decision about abortion...

You'd do it in the first trimester.

A FETUS, not an infant, has no more consciousness than a small animal. I see it as being sad to kill things in general but at the same time, it's a part of life and death is going to happen, so suck it up and get over your human race. We aren't more important than any other living thing, and we sure as hell better pay for thinking otherwise by killing ourselves. Haha, wow @ Me. >_>

YES, IT IS WRONG. GOOD FOR YOU, IT TAKES A GOOD PERSON TO BE SO OPEN ABOUT THAT! I COMPLETELY AGREE!

i agree. abortionis wrong. but put yourself in the girls situation. if your young and u come out pregnant, you really don't want to mess up your life by having a baby at this age.

people say if u can't be responssible for a baby then don't have sex. but let's be serious, we have sex. u can u se a condom but mistakes happen. and sometimes is better to have an abortion then have a baby struggle once it's born. women have the choice to do whatever they want with their body. so abortion shouldnt be illegal because it gives women a choice. smetimes is wrong, but sometimes u have no other option

when it comes to adoption, it is something girls should consider before they have an abortion. but society is harsh on young girls who have babies. this is a hard and complicated situation. there are many ways to look at it. but no matter what, women should have options.

I'm not an anti-abortionist myself (though I'm not pro, either), but I can understand how people feel about it. I can see how you'd view it as murder, and if it's murder then these girls are murderers, and hating them would be something of a natural reaction. However, I'd suggest trying not to hate anyone, particularly if it's over personal beliefs. Take ashleychan94 here, being totally self-righteous, declaring that you and she are GOOD PEOPLE TO BE SO OPEN ABOUT THAT! Condemning other human beings and making a habit out of hating makes you a good person? People who get abortions are people, too, and it's a difficult decision and process. It's not necessarily that they go out and act like sluts, then casually murder their own offspring. While you might fight against abortion, you should still show respect and behave like a decent human being, not a psychopathic hate-monger. Also consider that if you get abortion outlawed, it will still happen. Anti-abortionists sometimes talk about how horrible the process is - well, if it's relevant how we abort (probably mentioned more for shock factor, but if it is relevant), then outlawing it would likely make it more dangerous and disgusting. On the other hand, if we give some kind of support, we might find a better way. Another issue is whether it should be illegal for every situation. What if the pregnant woman was raped, or if she's not a woman at all but a child herself? What if you're risking her health and happiness to deliver a severely handicapped child that will almost certainly die within hours of its birth? Maybe you'll put your foot down and say no matter what, the child's life must be preserved. Well, I'd just like you to think about it and ask yourself if God would want you to hate anyone.

You liked my comment, thank you. I think you were refering to me as I live in Salem, Oregon and admitted it and you talked about Bend, Oregon.

It was a very hard piece to write but I am glad I did. Honestly only will bring acceptance in the end and I needed to be honest for my self-enlightenment.

Thank you so much for appreciating and commenting on it.
Paul
Budthewise

Agree with what? You were rather unclear and a lot of people, including myself, put in a lot of conflicting arguments. If it is against me and pro someone else, that is fine but could you please clarify.