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I'm a normal joe, I maintain a job. I'm married, have a kid, and a social life. Compared to most people, I'm generally damn happy. I'll tell you why.

I'm an adult baby. I'll flat out tell you (on here, anonymously, and nobody else knows aside from my girlfriend) that behind closed doors, I like to wear diapers, be fed, be changed (no poopin, Im not that gross), be burped, played with, sung to, etc. I have a mommy (my wife) who couldn't be more awesome in the fact that she totally knows how to 'baby' me, and she tickles me, rocks me to sleep, pretty much anything 'real' babies and mommies do, we do together. You gets my drift.

Occasionally, Ill get brave and wear a diaper in public, or let her baby talk me in public, and that's about it.

Now with the addition of a 7 yr old kid, we keep the baby play to a minimum, as of now, I only wear diapers to bed and our child has no idea about my secret. 7 yrs ago, on our own, I pretty much was kept in diapers 5/7 nights out of the week. Once the little one is out of the house, I will be the new little one, and we already have plans for a nursery for me, as well as oversized baby furniture.

I do this because I missed out on my childhood, and there are thousands of others like me. Want proof? Google 'Infantilism'. I regress back to childhood to escape the adult pressures of everyday life, and to relive childhood expiriences others take for granted.

Yeah, I know its not normal, but I wanna hear your opinion. If its behind closed doors, who really cares? Now lets hear your thoughts. Critics welcome.

PLEASE KNOW: THIS HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH 'ACTUAL' CHILDREN, INFANTILISM IS NOT PEDOPHELIA.

Also, my 'mommy' is not my biological birth mother; she is my girlfriend, 2 yrs younger than me.

That is all.

Thanks
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You know how ladies are, we love babies.

Call me weird, but I wouldn't mind keeping my husband as a little baby.
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@: Gina23
you should do it... you should buy him some bambinos and abena liners and thicken up that diaper and put him to bed when he's getting cranky.
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I just happen to be very cranky today.

;)
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@: Gina23
Gina23 you should do it:)
and ashley113 i wish i had a girl like you:)
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It Doesn't Matter What People Think. Everyone Has Their Own Mind/Fetish. Other People Might Think Its Crazy, Weird, Etc... But If They Come To Think About Their Fetish Or Something That They Like. Others Might Not Like Theirs Either. I Don't Know Why People Would Say This Isn't Normal. Everyone Has Their Own Personality/Mind.
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Well my childhood sucked, still I like the fact I can speak, read, and got to a pub. Never wanted to be a kid again, in fact even more so do I not want to be a kid again. Yet this is not about me, sad because I am such a fascinating person.

Well it is not normal, is it bad, I don't know. What is kind of creepy, is you have you wife act as your mother, and I assume you have sex with your wife, so it means you are having sex with your... Freud would love you. As long as you don't let the kids know, of have walk to the door to get the mail in a diaper and as sippy cup in you hand you should be close enough to normal, so that no one will think of you as the weird diaper dude. Although I myself prefer, to don a dog collar, and crap in the neighbors lawn.
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I would say that since you're not pooping and being disgusting that its perfectly fine...

If your wife/gf enjoys it and you enjoy, and nobody knows... I dont see a big deal..

but what happens if your kid moves out, but comes home one day and comes in contact with the furniture?

They will want some explaining and they may not accept it... so thats all I have to add...

just really think about how far you wanna make this your life...
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hi im an adult baby as well. Similer story i had no childhood growing up cause it was all a bunch of abuse. Eaven now i dont have any one to look after me properly. Im only 2 the only friend i have is tigger.
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Aw, baby johnny. id look after you. Tigger sounds like a good friend
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Hey, Im a DL myself. Men like you turn me on beyond belief. I have seen your picture on DiaperSpace. You are beautiful. Id spank and diaper that ass every day.
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you don't poop in your diapers? shame on your mommy! she should be forcing you to. that is part of being a baby and if you don't, you aren't really a baby. my daddy changes my poopy diapers. he doesnt like it, but it is something that has to be done.
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Though I find the sitution extremely strange, I see no harm as long as you and your wife a perfectly happy.

I do have pity on your lacking of a childhood you did not receive.
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P00LTOY
very cute
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awwwwwww
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Whatever floats your boat. Just make sure nobody else finds out about this.
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It's sweet that your wife isn't mean about it.
C:
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why do you refer to your wife and your gf?
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For the next person who asks: I used different terms to refer to my 'mommy' so you get the idea. She was my girlfriend before she was my wife, anyway. Don't matter though, I mainly call her 'mommy' even in the company of my kid. He thinks I'm mocking him when I do it :)
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i also have a child at home with us who is a teenager. she just thinks i like kiddie things... she doesnt even notice the big highchair in the bedroom. i love it when my daddy puts me the chair and feeds me and puts me down for a nap. it's so comforting.
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Your daughter doesn't notice the mom-sized high chair in the bedroom?

I wasn't born yesterday ya know. Maybe the day before, but not yesterday. :)

Who is your daddy? Your spouse?
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Sounds like you're just playing around. No harm there. Everyone likes to pretend to be other people, both as kids and as adults. It's a game and it's fun.
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i do this too
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This isn't as "abnormal" as you might imagine. Also the term "AB" while commonly synonomous with infantilism, isn't actually the same. AB typically refers to a fetish while infantilism can have roots in pre-pubesence. I also have a mommy and coincidentally an 8 year old son who is shielded from my desires. For me this is not sexual. I feel like a 2 year old in an adult body. I role play as an adult. This absolutely has NOTHING to do with real children in either manifestation. The roots for this are indeterminant. My personal feeling is that similar to GTara the roots are in childhood. I was pushed out of the nest early by a one year younger brother. I was even forced to potty train early. But honestly I don't know if that's the real reason. I don't know that anyone knows. I do know that there are an awfully lot of individuals who fall into the AB/DL/infantilist catagory. My estimate based on ecommerce is that it is in the 100's of thousands.
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That's the God honest truth babyboy, the only shame it's the God honest truth for us.

'Roleplaying' as an adult? I know exactly what you mean. Exactly what you mean.
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I agree with most, as long as you and your wife are having fun and the kids don't know I think it is fine...now 1 area of concern I have is if you are plannning on buying the furniture for this play and someone were to see it might be a little hard to explain. I think what ever you do in the bedroom with your loved one as long as both agree and it does not border on criminal or deranged. Good luck!
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Hello, I am not too sure why you posted the question, You make a comment that 'you know its not normal' what are you looking for approval?
Basicaly you have nappy/diaper fetish and the enjoyment you get from wearing them is enhanced when accompanied with age regression role play. There are many adult babies out there and they are all different in so much that the fetish worship of a particular object greatly differs in the individual person.
It can also be split into sexual and non sexual fetish. You dont say wether you have sex with your girlfriend/wife when dressed as a baby. If you do, then 'wearing diapers to unwind and relive stress' is bunkam. It is bassically a sexual fetish and should be enjoyed and kept under control.
regards Michael
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@: fairfax
This is for fairfax, I believe you are confusing infantilism with sexual fetishes. The distinction here is that infantilism usually begins pre-pubescent. There is typically a sexual element to it but it stands alone and isn't dependent on sexuality while a fetish does. I have a great deal of experience with "Adult Babies" and I have found that almost without exception they are experiencing infantilism. It is VERY sweet and loving and innocent. I would take this kind of person as a friend before almost all others.
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xxplaya4lif3xx
can ab/dl not happen from ur child hood but when u start to like 10 and higher cuz ur parents fight?
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Didn't know there was an age limit.
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I think this is wonderful. I am very jealous of you in that I wish I could do this with my wife, but don't think she'd understand. It is one of my best fantasies and i am sure that there are plenty of others out there who would agree. Have fun with it. I only wish I could do it too. Congratulations!
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Hi...I already answered you here, and totally agree with you that it's a perfectly normal thing and I only wish I could do it too, but I have one question and I really am serious. I know you said no poop, but what about pee? I think if I ever did it, I would like to experience that feeling in my diaper too. After all, it's not really dirty and I also would like to experience a golden shower. What do you think?
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Hi again...I hope you're still getting these messages...I just had another thought. Do you ever think about nursing from a lactating woman's breasts. That's also a favorite fantasy of mine
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I've heard of this before and I think its a very good idea lol personally it doesnt interest me but it does interest you so good for you :)

and its good of you to voice it here lol
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Yeah there's a service for that. Men go to this place during the weekend to be cared for by women. They become children, wear diapers, etc. I know about it, and as long as it's not too extreme, it's okay.

I baby talk with my bf of 4 years and I find it comforting and safe. I assume it's a similar feeling with you.
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Well your not normal.. but who the hell cares, normal means dead to the world of possibilities.

Your not alone thats for sure and its more common than you think. So enjoy yourself.
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I switch hit between being a daddy and a baby. Being diapered and changed is a wonderful feeling. Changing a woman's diaper is an even better feeling.
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You just need love!
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Ok, I am probably not going to make friends here, especially with the site owner, but here I go.

What the heck is normal anyway?

Is it the average or majority of opinion? If this is the case it is merely still opinion.

Is it some sort or pre-defined standard? If it is who set the standard and were they normal?

The last time I checked there was no OFFICIAL standard that makes this abnormal, it is certainty not against the law and it is not hurting others.

We tend to say something is normal because we know, or think, others do the same thing or agree. But this still does not really make something normal. Similarly, if you believe others would not approve or do not do such things, we assume it is abnormal.

We are all human and, as such, have certain similarities, That said we are all unique right down to how we think, what we like, and our own set of unique experiences.

So it is normal to be unique, yet similar.

Among those similarities many of us possess, are the needs for human interaction and contact, the need for nurture, the need for acceptance (among many other things). When an infant fails to bond, or when any of these important elements are missing, or when a child experiences trauma, shock, loss, abuse, etc there is likely to be an outcome that differs from an average childhood.

Yes I agree that some things are not normal, even though they may be common. Then there are also some tings that are not natural, but have become normal (depending on your local customs). Clothing, for example, has become normal although we are all born naked. The clothing still varies vastly, but it is still normal.

Closer to the topic at hand is the concept of nurture. This is both natural and normal, we both need it and as parents should be nurturing our children. Healthy children learn to self nurture, at least to a degree, and even learn the art of nurture so that it can be passed on to the next generation.

So is this behavior normal, I say it is, It seems to be more common that many of us might realize and I suspect there are many times more who have the desire but never act on it. I say it is normal because it involves the same basic human needs that we all share (nurture being one of the key elements) and must have to remain healthy and sane.

So you might not agree but it is just your opinion, just as it is mine.
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ok so im kinda the same postions as ur girlfriend so to be honest i dont think there is anything really worng with it at all although i wouldnt mind some tips im still new to it and not quite sure how to go about it lol nut in my eyes ur perfectly normal
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it really doesn't matter, if you both fine with it's cool
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diaperedboy
I like that but I take laxatives for massive poops and get tied to my bed or crib and get spanked with a paddle while gagged with a pacifier gag
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I'm curious to know, Joe- in your relationship with your wife/girlfriend- is there an adult sexual relationship, or are you mostly an adult baby when you are with her?

I'm talking to a guy looking for a "mommy" and I'm open to the idea but not if he will always be a baby- I need an adult also in a relationship to share ideas with, talk to, and to receive nurturing from in return, so I need a balance and am looking to find out from adult babies what their relationships are like.
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I have been dating a man for over 2 years that is an adult baby. He disclosed this to me about a year ago. No one else knows that I am aware of. Our sex life has really gone down hill over the year and I am not sure why. He was only wearing diapers and now it is wearing diapers, using a bottle and pacifier and all sorts of baby clothing. This has gone from a few nights a week to 5-7 nights a week. Him being an adult baby doesn't bother me, but the fact that he is wearing diapers a whole lot more than we are having sex does. He is a 41 year old man and has been an adult baby all of his adult life so why the past year has he progressed so? I would love to hear from other adult babies with their opinion on this PLEASE:)
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I am a man how would like to be a baby girl i am looking for someone to be my mommy and would want to live with each other full time
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I'm a AB too. My dad divorced my birth mom. She had brake down. My parents had 7 kids. 4 brothers + me that 5, 2 sisters. My brother Water younger then me was physical changed. He have wear diapers. I was wear his diapers when I was young. When I was in my 20's year old I found out there other AB out there. There was web site <a href="http://www.dpf.com" rel="nofollow">www.dpf.com</a>
Now is gone.
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im adult baby too need a daddy text me on 07926099860
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Aww. Baby want his baba?
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Goo Goo Gah Gah
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Well, Your Perfectly Fine. You Just Said It's Not Normal, And No, It May Not Be. But Is It Wrong? Is It Sick? No.

Your Not Normal. But Your Human.
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cabinet70
There is a lot of people that do this but I find the reason that you missed on your childhood stupid
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imagen never of being able to be a kid, be fed, be read to, and to not of had have loving parents.
this guy never had that and now he wants to experience it.

didnt you enjoy your childhood?
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Barnum
I never really had a great childhood. I was never read to, and my parents broke up when I was 4! It ended very stormy, let's just keep it at that. And my dad wasn't real loving either. Let's just say my early childhood wasn't great and times were tough. Now you don't se me runnin' around in diapers do you? Or having mommy read me stories. Ok, that sounded harsh and I apologize. But anyways, a lot of people are out there, who indeed did have a stormy childhood, and didn't get to be a typical kid ya know. And when it's all said and done, some lead normal lives.

What I'm sayin' is, is that it's okay to do this, especially if you don't let everyone know about it, especially your kid; it's okay obviously. But just don't let the thought of not having a typical chuldhood dwell on you, and don't let this form of play grow on ya. But all in all, you do seem pretty happy and content with it all..I applaud you lol.

By the way though, I wouldn't go that far with the diaper wearing in public lol..but whatever floats your boat.
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Barnum
@: Barnum
My comment that was directed at user: 'divineintent' was supposed to be directed at the poster of the story, sorry.
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@: Barnum
its allright lol
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@: Barnum
Why not wear a diaper in public. Just don't use one that makes noise. I have a medical problem and I have to. Knowbody has to know. My wife is great with it and she would rather make sure I am covered than pee on myself life some people do. As far as the youth part. Try wearing diapers playing football, camp, etc. Now that I look back. I had some great friends.
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@: Barnum
I've been wanting to reply to this for a long time.

Aww you were never read to? My father died when I was 2. I was moved to a foster home at age 5, and moved to another foster home at the magic age of 8, when the widowed mother was deemed "mentally unfit" for parenthood and killed herself. At the second home, we had 2 parents, 2 other kids, a dirty ass house, and Carmen, who was basically Mr T. but fatter, mexican, and female. She beat me like a red headed step child until I hit 11 and testosterone kicked in. I also recall her farting on my head, holding me down and spitting on me, tieing me up in the backyard, locking me up in a dog crate, capturing a live bumblebee and putting it in my room, stealing one sock out of every pair, chasing me around with hockey sticks... and that was just last week!

Nah, actually, me and Carmen haven't spoken in a good handful of years, but I'm saving up for a big waterballoon and eating a lot of gas station burritos next time we do.

I don't get mad, I get even.
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