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All guys a**holes?

I was in a relationship that ended pretty badly he played around with my feeling for 2yrs. and it took me a long time to go to sleep without crying. i guess you would say i was depress for a while. but now im trying to aviod boys all together i think guys only want to hurt me, or they'll use me. i always told myself that i would never be that kind of person . but now its like now that someone hurt me i never wanna out myself in that position ever again. some might say im punking out of the situation but i believe im just protecting myself. no i feel that besides one of my guy friends that all guy/men are a**hole. what should i do.
Do you think it's normal?
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Well, there are a lot of guys out there that are assholes but not all guys are, trust me. Not all guys want to hurt you either, just because this one guy did. Open yourself up to guys again and find a good one, there are plenty out there.
If you every find an opportunity to take revenge.. use it.
Sadistic people shouldnt be allowed to exist.
A sadistic person dead means a better world for the rest.

Anyways, you have to notice when people are playing with you and consciously block them out immediately.
You have to decide your relationships consciously.

The conscious part of your brain needs to protect the subconscious part of your brain.

There are men out there who aint trying to play with you at all.. problem is, you tend not to feel anything for them.. why, because they aint playing with you.

The irony is that you probably go out literally LOOKING for the assholes.

How do you think healthy men would feel if 90%% of women were like you?
Theyd be in a world full of women looking for assholes.
The fact that you have a guy friend who is not an asshole, proves that not all guys are assholes. There are plenty of guys in the world who aren't interested in playing with your emotions. The sad thing is, a lot of women complain about all guys being assholes when they pass up every nice guy because he's "not exciting enough."
if your coming out of the closet, then do so.
This is my issue...

Women don't like nice guys. Period. Nice guys don't get laid... It's the best feeling to treat a girl like crap and have her come back for more every single time. Easiest thing is to go to a bar, treat a girl like crap all night, and she's all over your stick.

I love being a man.
Good girls don't like them either. Good girls are usually sheltered and take a bit more to crack, but once you do, "Hello, Superslut!"
For a bit of reference material, please also see another current thread.

http://isitnormal.com/story/7830/
ummmmmmmmm not my problem. maybe your just an idiot
Gods, Smithee. From the looks of your picture, you're definitely a chick magnet.

I can just see them spiraling uncontrollably into your vast gravitational field.
Since we are doing generalizations here, All girls/women are bitches!
I LOVE YOU SOOMUCH! XXXXXXXXXX DERE MEN AINT SOO BAD?
@: roger49
exactly, when will they fucking learn. no offense ladies, but geez.
True, if a guy can manipulate a girl he usually ends up doing so.
Yeah, guys are assholes. i would know, I'M ONE OF THEM!!!!! AND I LOVE MASTURBATING!!!!!!
give it up.
rape me.. (females only)
I'll rape you, you do know Im ugly, ginger and have dirty dreadlocks that I use to plug up my crusty pooshoter.. other then that im SEEECCCCSSSSYYY!
accept it because it will happen again in this age of decay,deception.self satisfaction,defamation,idiocrasy,self deprecation.abhorrence,self mutilation,carnagy,lewdness,vulgarity,zoology,dismemberment,jocular asides wickedness retribution,puglistic self expression,faggotness,absurdity,wickedness,obnoxious behaviour,hate,ugliness,fornication fucking and fellatio.
URAWH0RE
All guys are assholes, FACT!!! O.K there are guys out there that pretend not to be but on the inside they are, and will play you like assholes without you ever even knowing that they are! There is a small percentage of guys that get treated like doormats by women but this is just a temporary glitch, deep down they are still assholes and as soon as this relationship ends(usually badly) the guy will be a bigger ass hole than ever as he now has a chip on his shoulder that all women are bitches and should be treated like it.
...i am a guy, ive never treated anyone badly, guy or girl, it really annoys me that so many girls meet one or to @ssholes, and figure that all guys are, most are i will admit, but most girls are also just as stupid superfitial and all together messed up, but not even most girls who arnt messed up will go out with me, because i am weird, very much so, and no one will go out with someone at the absolute bottom of the social latter because then others make their lives a living hell, the guys/girls worth keeping(if your in high school middle school or collage and the majority of your aquaintances are students)are usualy the ones that no one wants
True most guys are assholes but a selected few aren't sometimes I have to act like a asshole to get the girl I want even though I'm not sad though I felt bad after I read it
Suicide, only way. O-N-L-Y.
Giving up and suicide are not options there are good guys out there maybe hold out on sex till you get to know them. Alot of people are not honest with themselves and they don't want to hurt your feelings and stay in a bad relationship and some fear being alone. I did this for years I was not being honest with myself or the women. I was deep in the relationship before i could get the balls to end it. it is an unfortunate reality of people in general we are screwwed up and afraid of being hurtful and alone. Take this time to realize who you are. And stay away from badboys and nice guys who not secure in there being. Find the in between guys who treat you well and things should get better. If you don't control the bitterness it controls you. And then you'll never find that GREAT GUY YOU TRULY DESERVE, YOUR WORTH IT! Most of us don't believe this truth and being alone hurts but sadness and depression is worse. It's okay to feel the pain cry get it out and move on there are 6billion people i'm learning to deal with the loneliness it isn't that bad because I'm focused on my own path of learning and as long as your learning the fear will be there so go out and do it anyway. There are alot of good times to be had and you should'nt stop because a few hurt. There will be more heart ache but if you slow down and get to know the person better and be honest with yourself and believe in yourself CAUSE YOUR WORTH IT! YOU CAN AND WILL FIND LOVE! Find your focus and let no man stop your direction in life and they will come to you and you can pick and choose! Peace Honor and Strength! and most of all LOVE!
ha ha ha
stupid bitch, get over him and dont blame the men who actually do good, like Martin Luther King Jr. or some other MEN/GUY who actually saved the earth. So before you go off ranting shit about us guys, think before ya post.
Without reading your post I can tell you this:
All men are pigs. All of them. With no exception what so ever. That's why I turned lesbo.
all guys are ass holes

all girls are bitches

live with it

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