Am I a fool

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Sounds to me like she's being fake with you. She wouldn't be acting like that and doing things that upset you if she loved and cared about you. There are so many good girls out there! You could get one that would never cheat or lie and they would make you happier than you've ever been in your life.

Good luck! Hope that helps!

damn...that bitch is wack yo....... shes not a chick whos into a serious relationship at all...and she obviously doesnt value your friendship or love if she would go and do all that shit knowing that it hurts you....trust me...if you like this chick a lot its gona be hard to say "just leave me alone" but the fact of the matter is, its best if you just hit it n quit it....unless you already hit it before, then youre prolly attached to her.... you still gotta dump her though cuz in the long run this is gona cause nothing but unhappiness.... trust me, been there done that man....everyone told me to dump but i kept thinking "they dont know what shes realy like...she treats me good when were by ourselves"...but the fact of the matter is she aint man...........thats why im leaving such a long comment...been there done that, i know bro

mate put her 2 legs over her your shoulders and fuk her so hard that she wont even talk to another man haha

man leave that girl,or get her to goto a counsellor

i mean from one guy to another....getting banged every 2 weeks with a new cock...

she's shitting you is what she's doing

and yes oh yes

YOU ARE A FOOL

Wow you have a tough call on your hands.

I would never go so far as to say "once a cheater, always a cheater"... That is a very unfair remark... But usually, the exception involves someone in a long term relationship where both persons involved just didn't do the right things along the way -maybe one thing led to the next and bam! one of them ends up cheating... Depending on the circumstances, that cheater might make the wrong choice again, or they may realize it was a horrible thing to do and vow to never go there again...

But what you describe is different. You describe someone who cheated within weeks of getting together, twice. You describe someone who now wants you to accept having a too-close-for comfort male friend, while she is supposed to be committed to you -AFTER she has behaved in the ways she did in the past...

I dunno.... I wont tell you what to do, but if you love her and you really believe there is something there in her heart for you, then you may want to try talking it out with her and making sure you are treating her right in EVERY way yourself... But if you check yourself, do the right things, try to tell her how her guy friendship makes you feel, and she still makes you feel like you are NOT the most important person in her life.... You may want to consider moving on. If you do, DEFINITELY do NOT look back and do NOT dwell on it, consider it strike #3 at that point.

Either way you don't sound dumb, just possibly a bit confused, and maybe pretty young still (high school age?). -But who wouldn't be confused in your situation?

Good luck, and God bless!

thanks dude , that makes a lot of sense