i dont know if this is normal, i dont leave my house for days(because im a housewife and financially dont need to work), but the thing is...... i dont leave the house, I have a phobia if i think people( neibors, family) are going to come. I jump up and run to the door viewing thingy and look if i hear the slightest sound just to make sure nobody is coming. and if some body is there, i dont open the door because im afraid what they are going to think about my MESSY house. its always a MESS. I just cant seem to clean it, AM I NORMAL?
If they're doing it to you, then it only makes sense not to want them around too much. Tell them how you feel and that they need to start cleaning up after themselves more or they aren't welcome in your home.
If you're responsible for the mess, then I guess you need to get to cleaning. Again, tell your company how you feel, that you need time to yourself to tidy up the house. Either way, they should understand, but if not, then run them off, until you're caught up anyways.
It doesn't sound to me like you're so much a hermit, but rather just really stressed and unable to schedule everything you need to get done regularly. Your company won't fully realize this unless you express it to them.