Am I doing the right thing with my ex? http://isitnormal.com/story/am-i-doing-the-right-thing-with-my-ex-27067/ Your ex is using you. http://isitnormal.com/story/am-i-doing-the-right-thing-with-my-ex-27067/#comment-301666 2009-07-23 20:52:51 i think you are completely normal. lots of people get into these kinds of situations. if i were you i would get to know this new guy you met, and if you are not interested then give your ex a try. but if someone has hurt you and says they will change, just think: "change is sharder then it sounds." so dont get your hopes too high. but hang in there, youll find a way. http://isitnormal.com/story/am-i-doing-the-right-thing-with-my-ex-27067/#comment-292107 2009-05-24 13:13:38 Hmmm. I heard that going back to your ex is not a good idea, if you keep going back to him then how are you expecting to ever get over him. It's hard at first to keep away from him but that's what you're going to have to do if you want to prevent cheating on this new guy. I had a kind of ex that said he would wait for me, he says he did but how am I to know he also hasn't found people along the way. Or pehaps he just can't get enough of the sex, becasue with my 'ex thats waiting' he is always active when I see him and so we end up in the wrong situation http://isitnormal.com/story/am-i-doing-the-right-thing-with-my-ex-27067/#comment-285441 2009-03-27 16:51:08 You're a human. It's normal if you have mixed feelings. Be selfish for once, and get your feelings clear. Tell you ''boyfriend'' that this whole thing has messed up your feelings a lot and you need to figure things out. You only think you can move on to this new fresh looking relationship because he's still there waiting for you, but realise that is this new relationship fails and your ex - love is not there for you, you will regret a great deal... It's all up to you, you only get to live on life have fun but don't mess it up. http://isitnormal.com/story/am-i-doing-the-right-thing-with-my-ex-27067/#comment-282544 2009-02-24 18:57:03