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ok so i am 18 and i have never had a g/f,(or b/f) i am substantionally over weight and have now self-esteem. All through highschool everyone thouhgt that i was a faggot, and i pleaded with them that i wasnt. Allthough i say that im not i love looking at guys ( that are VERY masculilne) all the time. but i also find my self thinkin that girls are superhot too. it makes me mad... i wish that i knew what was going on. i mean if you hot not matter the sex i am attracted. i think with the guys it is because i and not very masculine and im fat that i am attracted to them. i am disgusted by the fact of my having relations with a boy... so you can see how confused i am. please help me out. any advise will help.
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Freedomofspeech (3655)
2006-10-05 01:36:45
You don't sound particularly gay, you just sound like a teenager that needs to find some friends. Teen guys get hard when the wind blows(and some guys don't get over that until they are 40). If you are uncomfortable with your weight, drink more water and get out and walk. It's not hard to overcome the weight problem at your age unless there is a medical issue you've declined to speak of. Good luck, kiddo!
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cabinet69 (3089)
2006-10-05 02:03:37
Sounds to me your weight is a problem for you to find a girl. You will find one sometime so until then if you can get a boy to fuck do it and dont worry about it
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donkeyspuzz (3277)
2006-10-05 12:46:02
Go hang out at Smacky-Dees and you'll pick up some nice chubby girl to 'interfere' with.

Don't sex a male. Your dick will shrink and your balls will burst.
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galeni (2821)
2006-10-05 21:10:17
Dude, dont worry at all, you ARE NOT gay. just take your time, if you do not feel comfortable with your weight and think that that is your problem for not getting chicks then either do something about it or just dont worry about it. it does not mean you will only get ugly or fat girls. just dont feel bad and start trying to date chicks. of course is not easy at the beginning but do not step back at all.
take care, work had and fuck all the chicks you can..
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Devar (2791)
2006-10-06 06:27:01
If you feel the need to ask you probaly are ...
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vodkaveins (1756)
2006-10-06 08:31:04
Every single time someone puts the "I'm not gay" or even "am I gay?" comment on one of these things they turn out to be a sh*tstabber - there should be some kind of warning on this site saying "If you really feel the need to insert that comment into your story you are in fact a homo, enjoy!"
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x.princess.x (3703)
2006-10-06 11:32:28
Ok, Well just chill out, i think you like looking at the guys because you wanna be like that to get superhot girls :)
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youngandconfused (3939)
2006-10-06 18:03:34
hey sounds confused to me and i think that what princess says makes some sense, but i think vodkaeins(your a closet case homophobe who should take a look in the mirror. this sit is used to help people if you think this guy up there is gay dont base on the sole fact that he has questions on his sexuality.. i mean im sure youve looked at a guy and been attracted to him, i sure of hell have.. and to the one who wrote this take one step at a time and just remeber that if you experiment with a guy dosent mean your gay.. and if you enjoy women the your one of the lucky ones. bye-
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bananarama (3984)
2006-10-09 13:16:24
If you're genuinely turned on by the thought (or pictures/videos) of naked girls and guys, good for you you're probably bi. It opens up all kinds of opportunities that neither gay people nor straight people have. Talk about these feelings to some friends (girls are more likely to be accepting and supportive), because your problem isn't your body; it's being comfortable with a part of yourself that you've probably been neglecting for a while.
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gangtsa44 (4057)
2006-10-19 13:33:10
It doesn't neccessarily make you gay, or straight, you could be bisexual... Please don't take this the wrong way but if you lost some weight and got yourself out with some girl or guy you'll see what you prefer soon...

Marky
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bibabe (4078)
2006-10-20 19:49:08
hey hun i think your bi well so am i but im a girl!!!
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debashishisgangsta (4519)
2006-11-27 22:00:55
yea i agree u might be bi
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MatthewDark (10431)
2007-09-06 22:10:47
you might be bi
which is fine
gay is fine
so is straight
wtv happens is A-okay
just try your best and be yourself
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