Am I Gay or Straight

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Sounds to me like you might be gay

niether, you are bisexual, bisexual women turn me on, and they prolly turn on most men to

O.o hmm

^-^ Thanks

FYI, you can still have children even if you're gay. I agree with Virtue in that you probably are bisexual.

ok ,first of all, i dont think 'online dating' is considered dating. so get rid of that stupid idea; unless you are keeping a long distance relationship with someone you have really met before.[which still is not dating is chatting]
next, you dont feel caged with girls because you are one and is easy to behave with people of the same sex; even guys have easier time with guys and first dates are always difficult for men too.
one more, you are just 18 and yes, you NEVER stop growing emotionally and mentally, is not just growing is called LIVING, and emotions and points of view change when you are 14 or 18 or 28 or 46 and so on...
another one, if you want to know what does God or the bible says about gay people, it says it is wrong, just like having sex with animals is wrong. i am not being dramatic, just check the bible.
something else, if you date a guy but you keep thinking 'am i gay or straight, is this wrong or right for me' the whole damn date, then of course you will feel caged.
of course you want to have kids, that is part of life, but in order to do it you need a man. true that science has eliminated that step, but normally you would.
give yourself some time, stop being digitaly promiscuous and give yourself some time with you only. if you do believe in God, then He will guide you, if you dont but want to, then you just have to ask Him.

Okay.... You know what, yeah I shouldn't have included the online thing... big fucking woop... but telling me or assuming that I believe in god... oh boy... >.< If your just going to give me a lecture on this that or another thing.... Think of it this way... I could adopt, you didn't leave your mind opened... I don't asked for closed minded people telling me that I'm straight, only straight, there's no other way around it if you want children bullshit. Take your bible, take your religion, take it to someone who believes in god and stop assuming that everyone you know believes in your religion... Personally I was raised Anglican (Christian) and I never EVER felt comfortable in a church let alone reading the bible... I believe in my own believes and if this makes you hate, big deal, you and your bible chatter annoys me, I hate it when people spout off bible... I used to be just like you, really until I found out there are other religions out there. >.> Frankly I sway towards the wicca religion. I've got my little alter set up and everything, I just need to wait until I either get a job (possibly seasonal) or I'm out of my parents house to be able to be a worshiper of that religion. -.-; plus i think I've already figured it out anyways so shoo pestilent, go bug someone else with your bible who ha and really, stop being so closed minded. Some Men want children and their joined union... Hmm... They go adopt or have a woman get pregnant from insemination...
Some women want children and their joined union They have 3 choices. Go have sex with a man without a condom on to get children, the insemination thing, or adopt... Lets see here, then I have 3 choices... Oooo, yeah one includes fucking a man, big deal, there have been lesbians that did a man just to have a child...

Its normal for women to desire other women. Ive never been with a women who didn't admit to at least sometimes having fantasies or even relationships with other women. Is it right or wrong? I don't know but it is normal. Just don't have a threesome with a guy you care about and a good friend. It will result in the loss of one of them. I would suggest you keep it a fantasy that you share with a man. But that's because I'm a selfish pig.

I would guess you're bi and there's nothing at all wrong with any orientation and if you feel like you could give the world to a girl . . . then do it =) just make sure you won't get hurt again, eh?

oh, and ArieChan . . . you win the awesome award of this post XD

You are just a horny beast

sounds like your bisexual

Why put a label on yourself? Who cares. Follow your heart!!! Do what you want to do!

Look AirChan just cuz u think the Bible stupid and u don't want ppl 2 talk about doesn't mean ppl can't talk about it. i don't like u saying stuff like 'I hate it when people spout about the Bible'. Well i hate when a**holes like u spout about how horrible our religon is!

plus doesnt gay mean a man likeing a man and lesbian means a women likeing women? So u cant be gay cuz ur a women

gay predominantly refers to man on man but it can mean 2 girls depending on the context, js.

though my religion has changed in search for something that better suites me... well let's put it this way alright. I still am not a believer in Christianity. The reason why I say it's 'so' horrible is because I was raised to be one and it has never suited me in my whole life. You tell me one thing. Did you get raised around a religion other then the one you are worshiping right now or... Did you get raised this religion you worship now?
Personally I don't like Christianity because though the 10 commandments (minus the first 3) are good rules to follow. Like i have stated before though and even to this day. I walk into a church and I don't feel like I belong. If you were to walk into a Satanist's lair with their alter room full of black candles and one white candle would you not feel out of place due to believing so strongly in the religion you follow. The fact that a Satanist has decorations, strives to become rich... Everything in their humanly life would you not feel uncomfortable in their lair? I am not saying I am a satanist but I am pointing out that for me walking into a church, listening to the gospel being read, hearing the chorus. It makes me feel uncomfortable. It is not because I don't believe in a god. No it is because for some reason when I walk in I feel like I am being watched. Make one false move and wham, you'll have gossip, you'll have a social death and even worse, you might hear about these people talking and it can strive you to depression which could even lead to you committing suicide. Hell one might decide to tell you you're going straight to hell unless you repent for those sins of your's. Every human being sins... Why follow a religion that has a tendancy to say YOU WILL BE FORGIVEN when most followers do not forgive you. Is it not said forgive the sinner not the sin? Hate the sin not the sinner? Then why do so many people sit there and condemn people? I'm not saying that every christian, every catholic, every Jew, every Anglican (and another other relgion branching off from Judaism) is this way... i've met awesome christians, I've met some awesome Catholics, awesome Jews, and most of my family is Anglican. And another thing, I have read about it, gay, in the term I used it, means being attracted with the same sex as you.

Thank you Buriedalive for pointing this out. :)

Thank you!

You could be bi, just prefer girls more to guys.

No religion should say if it's ok to be gay or not. Thats one of the reasons why i hate organized religion, it gives you no freedom, you cant be who you are you have to be what the church wants you to be.
If do believe in god firmly then think about it, he's the one that made you a bi, lesbian, straight watever, so why would he have any problems with it if he was the one that made you that way?

You don't look for a religion suite your lifestyle you look for one which you believe is true. Just read your comment about changing religions and you shouldn't look for one that suites you, your lifestyle, your sexuality, you should believe what you want and don't even bother joining a church or conforming to a set religion.

Anyway my answer is your probably at least a bisexual.

(chuckles) Well I will tell you honestly that I have considered myself atheist/agnostic a month or so after I had originally posted this story. Now though I am in search of a Religion that suites me... and what I mean by that is what you are talking about. Something I believe is true. Anyways thank you ^-^

Well I don't think you really need to conform to any religion, unless you happen to find one that believes the exact same things as you do, but I don't think there are any religions out there that are perfectly in tune with your own beliefs.

you should stay agnostic, atheist if that's what your really believe. Of course that is unless you find another religion that believes the exact same things as you.