Am I gay? What should I do?

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Normal, I TOTALLY wish I could have a dick for a day.

Normal but if it gets too serious then that's not cool, sorry

Yeah, I love being a guy and I don't see why anyone would switch what they have but I have wondered what it would be like to have a vagina for a day. Of course I'm such a homophobe it would only be enjoyed with other women but I have had that question before.

Wow that is pretty weird xD LOL

well tou your question, youre not gay, coz your a girl and you dont like girls. sounds like you fantasise about being dominant etc etc, and apart from a strap on to "take" a man, i dont think theres anything that will make you "feel it", because those are the parts you were given.
maybe you could just get off on seeing the strap on destroy your man

I don't think this issue is anything to do with sexual polarity - you are straight, but you obviously need to feel empowered and "dominate" something and then only time you get to see a man being penetrated and dominated is when another guy is doing it (because of the penis requirement). So basically this is a case of penis-envy.

You say a strap on won't work - have you tried one? You may think it wont work, but all you may need is the look of pain in your partner's face (even ask them to act if you wish). And really, to get out your fantasy, you'll need a very willing and very trusting partner.

Methods aside, I do think that you need to see a specialist to talk about your sexuality. This is how serial killers start - the need to "feel" the domination and then completing it with a knife or other method. If you don't get help or methods to excert your feelings, you might completely ruin your sex life and it may cause you to look for domination in other aspects of your life (indeed, it may be a power inbalance in your life which may be causing you to feel the need to dominate). You say you believe that sexual partners can't dominate, so you're never going to really get that feeling of domination while you hold this mindset - you may to abandon it altogether (it's perfectly acceptable for one partner to receive and the other to give).

Whatever the case, you are not gay. You are a girl with some serious sexual issues who needs to find an outlet before it gets complicated.

It's normal. I feel like a gay boy sometimes. There is a huge gay community on youtube....check it out.

Have you looked into BDSM? It's not as freaky as you might think, and for some people it's a healthy, safe way of venting certain urges which can become dangerous if repressed.