Is this normal? Well me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 3 years. He is great! He gives me the love and respect that I appreciate so much from him. However his mom sometimes seems to get in the way. She is a great lady, but there are times that seem to be out of place. Like for example, she will question him on why he does not visit her. Obviously he is with me or at work and doesn't have time to visit her. Sometimes he feels obligated to visit her. On the visits, his mother will hug him tightly in front of me, to make me jealous. He then begins to only focus on his mother during the rest of the visit. She has told me multiple times that he is the favorite out of the five and loves him more than her other kids. Now this year his mom is going to Mexico to visit her parents she wants him to go so badly. He asked me to go with him but I know his mother does not want me to go . So I don't want him to go either!