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am i just afraid of my bisexuality? - 73% Normal

I'm not sure if this is inappropriate for this specific site but this is a serious issue in my life in which I'd like some guidance in. Im a 18 yr old female and since I was a young girl I had my share of friends that were girls but for the most part I have always had a ton more friends that were males my whole life. Almost 100 % of the time I am with all boys. I have about 2 close friends that are girls and thats about it. I have kissed many girls and I am physically attracted to them. I have felt crushes on a couple girls.. but was confused if it was really a crush or if i was just out of my mind. im not sure. However Ive never had a girlfriend but have basically always had a boyfriend. I am physically and emotionally attracted to boys for sure. I even have a boyfriend now. I check out girls which I heard can be normal even for straight girls but I've had bf's and people catch me doing it and then I feel embarrassed out of them pointing it out. I find myself very comfortable around boys but so nervous and shy around girls. I've questioned myself for a long time or maybe I'm just questioning admitting it. Am I bisexual?
Do you think it's normal?
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Astinos (11775)
2009-01-25 16:15:56
I guess you're a little bi-curious
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RocketMan (19670)
2009-01-25 22:43:41
I think guys are far more cool about girls being bi than girls are about guys being bi. Also, I think you are still rather young and still working on your overall identity. So relax. BTW, how is your relationship with your mom?
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zsazsa (19789)
2009-01-28 18:30:59
Just stop worrying and enjoy your life. You could be a bit shy of girls because you're becoming bi or perhaps queer. That's normal - normal doesn't mean majority. Just make love or don't make love, as you want, when you want, with who you want.Don't look over your shoulder at what the others are doing.
Well said RocketMan.
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flikr (10636)
2009-01-28 23:57:53
i dont think there is anyone alive that doesnt like a bisexual girl, it's not like gay people where people hate them

your probably bi
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Moonlit_Heart (20326)
2009-02-17 19:58:52
You could be bi, but there's a difference between thinking someone of the same sex is 'sexy' and being truly attracted to them. When you are just physically 'attracted' to girls, that doesn't mean you're entirely attracted to them. There's more to a loving relationship than just physical attraction.
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lubbock (21061)
2009-03-18 14:50:58
Sounds like your bi sexual. But again you could be all gay. I was like you 2 years ago. Now Im a full blown lesbian, lost all attraction with men.
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bubblegum (21146)
2009-03-21 12:51:23
@: lubbock
Hmm i see ya problem, personnally i think you should just go with the flow, PLUS its funner and greedier being bi, you get abit of both hey ho :D
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Strictsensitivity (21711)
2009-04-07 05:25:06
Sounds like you are bi. So what?

Bisexuality has been generally accepted over the long years of history.

Some societies are afraid of it.

My god what is happening to us! Women wearing shoes, driving cars, learning how to read. Why next they'll be asking for the vote!

Oh wait that was the beginning of the last century.
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prettywoman (21243)
2009-04-07 13:36:28
ya your probably bi you should haveing a gf...
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fizzbitchandgun (22322)
2009-04-25 01:01:07
@: prettywoman
I'm exactly like you, though now I'm living on my own I'm actually slowly telling everyone I'm bi and really accepting it. Because if you know you're even slightly attracted to girls, you're bi. And consciously checking them out - yeah there's no escaping it :P
I still dowana call myself 'lesbian' it's such an ugly word and implicates stuff... if you call yourself bi you'll be surprised how many people think you have an open mind and can be trusted.
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gabe145 (22738)
2009-05-06 22:05:12
i thin bi courios is the best way to explain it now, one frined of mine her and i dated for about a month she too checked out girls and did the same as you, her and i stayed close as friends when she want to FSU she tried new things with girls, and now she says she liked what happened with the girls she doesn't regret it but she knows for sure that she like guys, she says she likes girls alot but it's just not the same. this maybe the case with you or maybe it's that you are bi but either way the only way you'll know for sure is by testing the waters.
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paul2cool (23512)
2009-06-24 05:45:03
You sure are Bi..
BTW thats a good thing right..
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FatherofZeus (25241)
2009-07-24 11:11:47
We place so much weight on this question and it is so silly. The most important question to ask yourself is: "Will I be a different person if I like girls?" I'll bet you will have the same values and be just as responsible as you are now, maybe even more so.

Liking a girl does not make you a sinner! It does not make you a deviate! It may just be who you are and that is perfectly okay.

So, stop worrying about it and just be who you are. If someone doesn't like you because of it, that is their problem. They probably need to seek some help, not you.

This is from the Proud Father of a Lesbian.

Father of Zeus
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Quetzacoatl2 (27406)
2009-08-21 03:58:27
Probably. But who cares?
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Kat444 (27378)
2009-08-24 20:22:59
You might not be bi. I'm a lot like you, have always had more guy friends than girl friends and am more comfortable around men. And yes, I find that women are very attractive to look at. I've even kissed a couple. But I'm perfectly straight. Despite the fact that I apreciate womens' beauty and consider them the far more attractive gender, they just don't inspire the same feelings in me that men do. If you could seriously picture yourself ever falling in love with a women, then you're probably bi. But otherwise you're probably just openminded and fun.
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gummybearbandit73 (28662)
2009-09-19 10:59:46
@: fizzbitchandgun
I agree, i've told many people I am bi. but i tell a few people at a time, and see how they take it..If They Don't Accept it thats their problem
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myewyldsyde (28903)
2009-09-24 13:09:37
You should go with your instincts. Have a relationship with a woman and test the waters. You will know soon after whether it is meant for you or not. You need to satisfy this curiosity you have, don't wait any longer or it will eat you up inside.
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