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I'm in my mid 20's. Always have dated men. Every once in awhile I meet a woman (usually older) who I really admire. Then I feel like I fall in love. But I'm not attracted to women. Just certain women. I can count maybe 2 or 3 women that I have really grown to love. If I wasn't married or they weren't married... If the circumstances were right (mutual feelings plus no sig. othres), I think I would try and see what happens. Is this normal? Am I bisexual?
Do you think it's normal?
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P00LTOY (15451)
2008-10-25 09:13:56
you say you "date" men, but are you attracted to them? then you indicate that you "fall in love" with certain women.

so just judging by the wording of your post, it seems like your attraction for other women is deeper than your involvement with men.

So you may end up completely gay later in life. I have seen this happen with people many times.
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AmericanIdiot (17219)
2008-10-27 01:17:36
I think u r normal
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catoman4000 (17346)
2008-11-01 18:35:41
that depends are you guy or girl
guy: yes you're bi

girl: no it is it normal to find same sex hot/cute now and again
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Brenda626 (17561)
2008-12-08 19:10:40
If your a dude then idk sorry!


If your a chick your fine belive me! Your not bi at all! not every girl on this plannet has these feelings but some do. they dont make you bi. I feel that way about a co worker of mine! She is very beautiful, a hard worker, im very jealous! Im even jealous of her boyfriend! But i know were both just friends. (she is older then me) these feeling are very normal!
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YingYang (15408)
2008-12-11 14:16:47
You are just a normal bisexual woman. There's nothing wrong that, nothing wrong at all.
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secretme (18490)
2008-12-13 18:22:14
I personally think you're normal.
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smellyeggfart (19279)
2009-01-09 06:39:04
Maybe you could talk to your husband about having a threesome with another woman?
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y2k2012now (19471)
2009-01-17 22:04:15
You're normal. You're just experiencing deep friendship for someone. if you was really bi you would be attracted to women too. Friendship and love can be misunderstood sometimes.
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combatgal856 (13140)
2009-03-27 17:30:46
You probably are if you find some woman attractive. The same way straight women find some men attractive, you don't find everyone you see attractive.
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tinsleytemptress (22119)
2009-04-18 17:31:38
hun, you might be bi. But really, all it is is that you aren't looking for someone based on their gender it seems. It appears you don't care anyway, you just want someone you feel strongly about. and that is fine!
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