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am I overreacting???
hi there. I had a few unhappy relationship. I kinda lost my trust in men a bit by the fact my ex's weren't trustworthy people.
anyway back to my current,, me and my partner have been together for around a year. we moved in together nearly 8 months ago as he wanted. we had ups and downs. we talk about our future, having family and so forth. he's saving for those future plans. He says he loves me but he quite often does things which annoy me frequently. like the last one was,, we were walking together holding hands in a shop. and he saw his workmate chick and they sort of greeted from a distance then he released my hands and walked towards her and they started chatting for a little while. I was next to him,, but I was annoyed by the fact he left me little behind to talk to someone. I dunno I felt like someone not important by then. and while they were talkng they ignored me pretty much. he apologised for that later on coz I was upset.and he also said I was overreacted a bit. So my question is am I overreacting? Is it normal by the fact that he does things like that quite often which does upset me a lot? wot should I do? please share your thoughts with me
thanks
anyway back to my current,, me and my partner have been together for around a year. we moved in together nearly 8 months ago as he wanted. we had ups and downs. we talk about our future, having family and so forth. he's saving for those future plans. He says he loves me but he quite often does things which annoy me frequently. like the last one was,, we were walking together holding hands in a shop. and he saw his workmate chick and they sort of greeted from a distance then he released my hands and walked towards her and they started chatting for a little while. I was next to him,, but I was annoyed by the fact he left me little behind to talk to someone. I dunno I felt like someone not important by then. and while they were talkng they ignored me pretty much. he apologised for that later on coz I was upset.and he also said I was overreacted a bit. So my question is am I overreacting? Is it normal by the fact that he does things like that quite often which does upset me a lot? wot should I do? please share your thoughts with me
thanks
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I thought I should close this blog now.
It's been a while since I started this blog. Lots of things have happened. Good news is we're still together. Yes I told him how i felt about it and he told me that's not how it looked like and apologised me if it got understood wrong. That cleared those clouds i had in my mind.
Anyway the main point is it's better to discuss about how you feel about your relationship earlier than later.
We got engaged now and bought a house together and planning to have a baby soon :).
Wish you all good luck :)
My boyfriend used to do this all the time. And it really used to get to me, so I talked to him about it, and now whenever we run into girls that he knows, he makes an extra effort to make me feel special and let them know I'm his girlfriend.
High five for communication.