Am i stupid or shy?

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no its fine it just means u have a hard time telling girls how u feel about them

i got that prob too...wich is kinda weird seein that im not realy a nerd

thats normal you just need a few more girl mates or a confidence boost =)

Right, I got the same problem. I wont make the move because of the fear and the possible rejection, but the only person to blame is yourself. You must brake out of your fear and your state of mine.

Yeah its pretty normal, alot of people are shy but once you over come it youll realize most of your fears are rediculous. Girls arent just gonna "reject" You for no reason. they are obsessed with being nice to people, if you talk to a girl watch! She will be all over you if your nice to her. Dont worry about it

no thats fine lot's of people are like that.

Grow some man hairs and ask her out :D

Alot of people act shy nowadays. You are not the only one. People actually consider shy people to be nice.

go for it.you are growing up.

its normal. you just need to loosen up some, thats all.

this is completely normal the same thing happened to me. my friend told me she wanted to go out with me, i said yes then at lunch i completely froze up turning red when people made fun of me. but, i liked her a lot. she also turned red.
long story short, she broke up with me

but yes its normal

its perfectly normal. your just socially akward with girls. you just need to losen up. try and get to know them. treat them like girls should be treated make sure you know how you actually feel about this girl.show her your a good guy.

lots of people are shy. Maybe try finding a girl who is shy and gets it. or just put you self out there if you really like someone. I have had that too, where i can't find the words in the moment, on the spot, it happens.

thats the same as me but,
i had a best mate and i liked her but i never told her i just could not!

well i had a lot!!of girls that liked me not to be a show off...but..i usually liked that girl back but i was to shy or nervous to tell...i gess i was afraid wat plp think untill i finally asked this girl out and once u ask a girl out u get more confidence to ask other people out or to tell someone u like them..like when plp rob banks,if they get away wit it and then do it again and again cuz they gain confidence of not gettin caught...dont ask how i know tht and im not dr.phil hes dumb

hey i know what you are going through. i like a girl and i know she likes me so i realy can't talk to her. so it's a shy proplem.

I'm a girl, and most of the time it seems like guys are the more confident gender! so believe in yourself more, because we are just as nervous as you are

this is normal. dont let go. things are easier when done slow in my opinion. i think its cute. you cant pour water over your head all at once and call it sexy haha, slow motions the way to go!!! :)

Aww i think its cute. Its very hard to get the nerve to talk to a girl. And at first when your shy it might come of cute, or a little funny. But you will get use to it, youll have to girls like an unexperienced guy but if he doesnt attempt to make his move we will move on. Just take a chance & try it talking to other girls or even just girls that are friends, eventually youll get the hang out it just hurry up before you stay to inclosed to your self.

I'm not a nerd, I have friends, am very good at soccer and track and am not ugly yet I have very hard times sparking conversations with girls. I think it is normal and with time it will probably become less of a problem.