i had anal sex with my boyfriend for the first time last week and just afterward i had a little accident. i was so embarrased feel disgusting whenever i look at him. has this ever happened to anyone else? is it normal?
Yes, this happens when you don't "prepare" for anal, so to speak. Sorry to sound graphic, but it's best to have a light enema before any sort of anal penetration...
you poor thing. i'd be embarrassed too. you both should've done some research before you try something new. yeah enemas are a good idea.. i mean come on, youre going into areas that normally things come out, not go in. if you guys want to try again make sure you follow procedures so you wont have any more accidents. once you both get used to it, later on you guys can blush and laugh about your "first-time" accident.
If your boyfriend really cares about you, he will understand. Anal was probably his idea in the first place. When it comes time to do it again, he will just go for it and not say a thing.
Yeah, it happens, no big deal. And yes, enemas are your friend. You shouldn't feel disgusting, though, it was your first time (and probably his idea, am I right?) and you didn't know what to expect. Just remember in the future to prepare beforehand, and you'll be fine. It's actually kinda fun if you can get around the messy part. And as long as you stay relaxed, it can hurt if you tense up.
Oh, and if he's all uncomfortable now, that's his problem, and he needs to get over himself. Give anal a rest for a while, then when you're both ready, try it again, and get an enema before you start. Just make sure you're completely cleaned out, sometimes it takes a while.
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Oh, and if he's all uncomfortable now, that's his problem, and he needs to get over himself. Give anal a rest for a while, then when you're both ready, try it again, and get an enema before you start. Just make sure you're completely cleaned out, sometimes it takes a while.