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My friend asked me to write this to see what everyone thought.

She doesn't get why SO MANY people like anal sex. Anal sex is nasty! Why would anyone want to do it? And is it true that most guys want to do it?

Is it normal to feel this way?
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I'm a guy and I think it's nasty too.

I don't want my sh*t on my d*ck. Simple as that.

Also, there is nothing less romantic than the smell of poo.

Jesus, what happened to sensual, romantic love-making.

Quit the anal sex.
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@: mattjay
omg. Wow. for once, a guy like you understands how gross it is. thank god a guy finally realizes.
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@: mattjay
'Jesus, what happened to sensual, romantic love-making.'

There's a time and a place for everything. Being a panzie all the time gets old.
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@: mattjay
Lame and you don't get shit on your dick and I have never once smelled poo while doing it
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@: mattjay
There's nothing wrong with it not being to your fancy. It hurts so I don't like anal either.
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@: mattjay
Dummy you dont have it when you want to take shit u have when your clean I m gay and I don't like shit on dick either that how you get std`s plus use a condom duh but I agree that's pretty gay
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It just hurts too bad.
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anal sex is gross. Why would you want something put in your asshole. SHIT COMES OUT OF THERE! I just dont know if I could suck my bf dick after he did that... even if he washed it off...
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It IS nasty- thats an exit not an entrance.
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so is the vagina
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nope, you reproduce by the vagina, the penis goes in there. The butthole is and should only be an exit, besudes its gross and as everyone could imagine.... extreme unneccesary pain.
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I'm a guy and find few things more repulsive. I believe in keeping my dick away from fecal matter. A friend of mine, is obsessed with it. According to him, it is the feeling of power, that the girls is willing to do it. Personally I think it is f***ed up. Call me old fashion, but oral and vaginal sex is good enough for me. At the most odd, I'll toss in some dirty talk.
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At the most you will throw in some dirty talk boring
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@: Satchmo
Is it any of your business what he chooses not to do in the bedroom? Unless you're the one sleeping with him, fuck off.
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I'm a guy too (albeit a sensitive one) and I think anal is disgusting. I agree, with mattjay; lovemaking should be lovemaking. As simple as that. Not some manipulative shit.
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u guys have a personal dislike for anal, so u make anal out to be generally wrong in the whole scheme of sex. how ridiculous..anal, if done correctly, can give a woman a more intense orgasm than a vaginal orgasm..good, hot, pleasurable sex is lovemaking. maiing your girl explode with pleasure is a great thing, and anal can do that for many women.
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He doesn't want to. Unless you're planning on bedding him, it's his choice what he doesn't like in the bedroom.
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i know anal is nasty ...i wonder if there was shit...issues?...like the penis goes so far up your ass it touches actual poop.
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Nasty. And women shouldn't feel they have to do it if they don't to, because the guy wants to do it. If he won't take it up the butt, then he shouldn't try to power-trip and manipulate his girlfriend into doing so. I think it's repulsive.
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Well, you are making a value judgment. If you don't want to have anal sex, fine, don't. But there is no reason to make disparaging remarks. I have been with many women who love anal sex. If done right it can be one of the most intense and pleasurable things you can imagine. With my last girlfriend, I would be giving her oral sex and could feel her vagina contacting, then I would gently slip my finger into her anus and she would immediately have a mind-blowing orgasm. You may call it "nasty" but I think she would disagree.
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i am also a girl and love to get fucked in my sss.sure i do sn enema first.the best part is the switching holes
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@: xxxdoit
whats ur favorite position on anal sex
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myannaiscrazy
anal sex=nasty!
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-puke-
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because ur bootyhole is
tighter.
some girls even injoy it.
ewww...i think ts gross.
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Anal sex is perfectly normal and I have even discussed it with my Doctor. The things you must remember are to enema first so it is clean and never go from anal to vaginal with what ever you may be using be it a penis or dildo cause of infection. I never thought I would enjoy it either but was willing to try and now I prefer it and it is the most intense orgasm I have ever had. Do not worry about others. They do not know what they are missing. Do not knock it till ya try it you may be suprised.
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11INCH
know exactly what you mean i even have her or him suck it they love it aswell?
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Also, a womon can do exercises to tighten her vagina. But when your ass is stretched out by anal sex, doesn't it just stay that way??
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no..but, if done frequently with over sized dildos, or cocks, then yes.
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I'm proud to say I'm an anal virgin and intend to stay one. I was once asked during a one night stand if I had ever tried it and my reply was something along the lines of that's disgusting! Not sure if he wanted to try it of if he was just courious about my sexual past, but I've hard that people can have the most amazing orgasms through anal sex,so each to their own but just the idae of it repulses me and I'm no prude oooh belive me x
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It's unattractive and you might as well have a fecal fetish. I wonder how many people get constipated.
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i think its nasty and a sin to nature
pussies are meant to get fucked not the anus guys who like anul sex matter as well be gay cuz the female anus is no different then the male anus... ewwwww
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Maybe it is unnatural. Then again, so are cars, glasses, and computers. So it really doesn't matter if its unnatural or not.

The only reason why I thought anal sex was nasty is because it seems like you'd get shit on yourself. And also because I hate the idea of wimmin doing it just for their men. Some men just want anal sex because they like the idea of invading a girl and because it can be uncomfortable for her.
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i think guys who like anal sex are gay.

I love pussy! Give me your pussy!!!!! muhahahahahahhahahahaha :P
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I think most guy's like it because the ass is tighter. Other than that I think it is nasty and uncomfortable for a girl.
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it's only unconfortable if the guy is a brute and doesn't do it right...when done right, it can give a woman a better orgasm than a vaginal orgasm.
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gross!!!
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god, i agree. disgusting.
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i tried it once but it was uncomfortable. it wasnt so much the pain as it was... weird. it just felt odd to have something pummeling in and out of my back door. it didnt feel good or bad. just... odd
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Wow for the ones saying they particulary like switching holes, I sure do hope you get that dick cleaned first because that's extremely dangerous. Ask any docter.
Question-related; I don't like it either. But everyone has their one preferences and that's a good thing :)
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My husband decided to try that for the first time when I wasn't ready for it. Needless to say, I nearly jumped over the bed. It also hurt pretty bad, but we had vaginal sex right after and it was the best I ever had. Neither one of us was very impressed with anal. It was messy.
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Because the a$$ is way tighter
Because it is taboo (ok, so you think it's nasty or whatever, imagine at some point you go for it. Why would you do it? For the guy of course. This means he means so much to you that you are willing to forget about the fact that you think it's something so gross or nasty or whatever. How do you think he'll feel? I'll tell you: he'll feel amazing. And maybe if you love him enough, you'll feel amazing knowing that you are able to make him feel amazing).
Or you can just say no.
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Anal sex is the best. She has to use a enema first so she is clean and start off slowly until she becomes able to handle it. Then in time to come as she loosens up she will love it. Rome wasnt built in a day and she isnt gonna take it with pleasure first time. Just as when she was a virgin in the puss but in time she can go with the flow. Use your fingers and loosen her up great things cum with time and patients
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I like anal. Each to their own. Still, everyone stop trying g to force your sexual preference on other people. They have sex differently and experience it differently because we're supposed to. Everyone stop fighting and get the fuck over it!
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UsernameNotAvailable
Wouldn't it hurt the guy's dick because the butt is really tight and it's impossible to relax it especially when something is being shoved in it. That would not be enjoyable on both parts. Plus there are health concerns like bleeding and diseases and shit is toxic. Why would you want that on your dick. If I was a guy I wouldn't even do it with a condom on.
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Unfortunately our society has been brainwashed by porn. Also, women need to grow a pair and say, NO!. Don't give in to this crap. Sex has become a game. Why would I want sh!t on my dick? Makes no sense. People are crazy.
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Personal I love it. And the reason I love it is B/c its tighter.
Girls love it b/c its closer to the g spot.
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Anal is NOT for everyone. I agree with some postings that girls do it for their men. Someone brought up that women like it because it's closer to their G-spot. That usually only works when her special 'button' is also being touched. As a woman with a husband who loves anal, I have to say that it can be painful. No amount of desensitizing creams will help. Lube, and lots of it, WILL. That and being completely, crazily turned on helps. Also, YES the man's penis WILL touch the poop and it can be very messy, even after a woman does an enema. Prepare yourselves with a towel or better yet, moist wipes.
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I love anal sex :) an I'm a girl. It feels amazing! But I ALWAYS douche my butt out first so that I never have to worry about getting gross poo everywhere and ruining the mood. When I have anal my butt is clean as a whistle :)
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*nodnod* It is super nasty!
people that likes anal sex likes licking toilets too xD
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My girlfriend and I have done it a few times and we enjoy it. It was never messy, and, if done right, she really liked it too. Not to be too graphic, but she likes it when I cum in there.

And @: BMXSNEAKERHEAD you said "guys who like anul sex matter as well be gay cuz the female anus is no different then the male anus"

Firstly, learn a book.
Secondly, the female "anus" is no different from a male's? Are you a male? Have you ever seen a female and thought "Nice ass"? Now, have you ever seen a male and thought the same thing?
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Forget about how gross it is. Isn't bad for the anus? Besides I think anal sex on women is just plain stupid
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Guys like it because they like ass. Like ass = like anal sex.
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If it's consensual, it's normal.

It comes down to personal preference. Some people get off when their nipples get tweaked, some get off when someone sucks their toes, others get off when getting rammed up the poop chute. It's all good, and it's all (potentially) messy. But then, isn't the best sex messy? My wife doesn't want anal sex, but she practically comes off the bed when I rub a wet finger on her anus during cunnilingus. But when I want to insert, she puts on the brakes. That's OK, because she knows what she likes.
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Done correctly none of nastiness issues apply. First of all, an enema and bath are prerequisites. The anus is one of the erogenous zones and with clitoral stimulation usually brings the most power orgasms.
Rimming is also quite pleasurable.
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Lol555
WTF? For all the people that say you will get a 'Sh*tty c*ck' your doing it wrong!
The idea is that the girl always cleans off the 'sh*it' in her as* so it doesn't get on the guys c*ck! You people do NOT know how to have anal sex.

Heres bacicly how to avoid getting a 'Sh*tty c*ck' when doing it:

o First make sure the girl hasn't eaten in awile (About 6 or 7 hours)
o Make sure she has been to the bathroom and already got some 'sh*t' out
o Now there are 2 ways to properly clean the rest out:
1. Using a kind of water sex toy fill the girls as* with it, then let her squirt it out. (Make sure all of it is out because this could cause problems later.) Repeat this untill the water is clean when it comes out.
2. The more popular method is to get a CLEAN, basic, rubber didlo and wash it it lukewarm water so it's throughly soaked. Push it up as far as you can and take it out there should be some 'sh*t' on it; clean that off and make sure it's clean and wet again, now repeat this untill there is no more 'sh*t' appearing on the didlo.

LOL I hope some people actually LEARNED from this. Also NEVER and I mean NEVER do anal sex with a man with a virgin as* hole! This will be incredibly painful. Starting from small didlos use them untill you are using a didlo more or less the same as the size of your man's c*ck (Or bigger for other men).

If you do all that anal sex will be very pleasurable and not painful or 'sh*tty'.

Hope this helped all the CLUELESS people here! XD God LEARN your sex before going through with it! It'll only hurt that way!
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Prudes
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what i wanna know is how to have anal without getting shit on the guys dick. like i wanna try it but i just dont want it to get nasty.
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@: pennay
Penny, 95% of the time that will not happen. As long as you didn't have a huge dinner and haven't gone or something you should be fine. Use lots of lube and tell him to go slow. If it happens once so what, the guy knows what he's getting into and it won't likely happen again for a long time. Using a condom is a good idea too.
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@: JuliusE
Have u ever tried it
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@: pennay
agreed
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Eva_Braun88
Also Julius is correct. If anal sex hurts, it's because the guy has no damn clue what he is doing.
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Have a guy try it to u what mistakes did he do to not do it right
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judge me if you will but I rather enjoy a hard cock in my bum.
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wow good answer
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admit it you're the friend who submitted this!
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I've never understood the appeal, same goes with oral. The waste products that come out of them...
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Anonny
well i've wanted to have anal sex with a woman ever since i turned 13 =\ me and my girlfriend have talked about it but we haven't tried it yet and she seems all ready for it :) It may sound gross but depending on what type of sex you're having it might be an emotional thing. The anus is VERY sensative and to feel something hot and soft tickle your anus like your partners tounge and to know that they will put up with the potential taste to make you feel good. I find it emotional because if you just have anal like you have vaginal it's gonna hurt like a son of a bitch.
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I feel like most of the people who are hating on anal are total virgins considering that the overwhelming majority of the people on this site are virgins. If you are a virgin you have no basis to comment on your sexual preferences let alone the preferences of others. Once you do get laid you more than a couple times you will realize your preferences until then keep your unfounded opinions to yourself
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there is nothing wrong with a piece of ass I personal don't use a condom because it takes the feeling away and if she sh*t on you so what don't breakup with the girl or even if it's a one night stand with some girl don't get mad it's not that bad happened to me a few times.
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lol I wouldn't have problems doing it with a condom on :D
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If anal sex is done right and properly cleaned before with the right partner using plenty of lube it can be quite enjoyable. My girlfriend loves anal sex and getting her ass tongue fucked before slidding my hard throbbing cock is a big turn on for her and me. And no I am not gay, but like it when my girlfriend gives me anal stimulation with her finger up my ass while giving me head.
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anal sex is good, so tight... ive never pulled out and had shit on my dick and girls love it!
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clean the area and you should get no poop on your dong. i've had a kinky girl stick it in her mouth after. nasty nasty. i like.
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I tryed it the first time because i was curiouse. It felt like i was going to sh*t the bed. Not good. Since then my bf said he'd never done it before and wanted to see what all the fuss was. I said no. Some time later i got drunk tho and decided to treet him. Luckily for me he wasn't too fussed by it but he was glad he tryed it. My foofoo is tight enough any way. ;) I spose if the guy is small or the girl has a bucket it is a good alternative.
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The first is painful but on the second it gets better
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Anal sex is amazing. Every girl who has let me do it has ALWAYS ended up loving it (and usually the first time). The problem is there are a lot of guys who don't know wtf they are doing and give it a bad name for the rest of us who KNOW how to do it. It can give girls some amazing orgasms and even if she just wants to do it for the guy bc she knows he loves it then that's really cool to bc you have a girl who cares enough about you to do something she doesn't like just to please you. Though that has been the case with me, it always turns out to be something they like bc I DO IT RIGHT
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The thought of fucking a girl up the ass is so exciting. Many say they do not like it but if you finger them a while they love having you cum in their ass hole
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As with anything in bed (or on the floor or the back of the truck or whateva) it's normal to love it, or to HATE it. I was one of the haters at one time, still I realized there were girls who loved it, although I wasn't one of them. Until I met the right dude who took control of that shit and did it right, with the right kind of lubricant, and just basically made it happen. Now I look forward to it. But it took me over 30 yrs to even be ballsy enuf to try it. Don't knock it til ya do it. Gettin nailed up the ass can be a lot better than it sounds if he gits u ready.
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if it feels good, why not do it?
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Be clean. Have fun go slow lots of lube and fuck away. I do it and it feels great. The deeper and harder the better.
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A lot of good sex is nasty and when your friend grows up she will understand that.
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To each his reach. What one eats does not make turds for another. People like what they like. Coke vs Pepsi.
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always wanted a cock in my hole just to try and feel itim a guy just curious thtas all
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i know i like it anal. both doing it to someone and getting it. it feels good if you go slow and use lube
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having a shitty cock is the best feeling OMG!! Yes!!!
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If you're worried about shit on your dick you are retarded. SCRUB YOUR BUTTHOLES and you won't have to worry about it. You ARE the gross ones for not cleaning your asses. ANAL RULES!
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anal sex is great,it's a gift not all girls give and a little poo just adds to the encounter. I'm not offended by it in the least.
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My favorite part of anal sex is when I cum in her stinkhole, and then she shits it out on my chest. Very sexy, try it you will love it.
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