Annoying Daydreams

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i guess so.
dreams are always tricky ones.

good thing that your husband didnt get mad or angry once hearing your daydreams

First of all, you should count yourself lucky that your husband is taking it so well. Most men would be up in arms, especially since it's sometimes during sex, but of course you want to have a serious conversation with him about it, so you'll need to make that clear to him.

Yes day dreams of any sort are normal. Even murdering someone and chopping them into cubes are common place among lots of people. People often think of others they are attracted to during sex, and even those which they are not attracted to! My mind for instance, brings up horrible thoughts when I'm about to orgasm - such as grandmothers and dead people - much to my dismay, making for quite an underwhelming climax! I sometimes wonder if my mind really wants me to be happy during sex!

The mind wanders and sometimes you can't control what it brings up. Whether you want to believe it or not, you may in fact be attracted to this other man, but as long as it remains a day dream, there is no harm. Obviously you've told your husband, so there's no reason for you to feel guilty. Day dreams can be the result of a lack of sleep, some difficiency in your diet or other detrimental effect on your life causing your mind to be distracted. Take a look at your habits and daily life and maybe if you improve it, then the instances of your day dreams will reduce.

that's actually a "symptom" of OCD.

Is it kind of like a song you don't like but can't get out of your head? Try to relax about it. Just accept it as one of those odd things. Your husband does & sounds like a nice guy who is very into you.

I guess there are some daily routines I can get rid of, or rearrange. Thanks for the comment.